Sometimes shit happens.
I have a friend going through a rough time right now, and her main question is “Why?”
“Why didn’t I see this coming?”
“Why did this happen?”
“Why am I not getting this?”
The most frustrating thing about life is that sometimes, there isn’t an answer. It’s so easy to drive yourself crazy looking for the moment where it all turned or where it all went wrong, but most of the time, it’s not there.
I know it’s easier said than done, but you have to let you go. I’m one of those people that hangs onto stuff for way longer than I should and it’s always ME that ends up hurt by it, not other people.
Go ahead and let yourself be upset. Get some ice cream and cry. It’s okay to be upset! But eventually, you need to look at it, try and find something you can learn from it, and then move on.
There’s something we can learn from every bad experience, and a lot of times it’s about yourself. Take this moment to appreciate yourself and your self growth.
It’ll all be okay in the end. If it’s not okay, then it’s not the end.