Why would a person who claims to support asexuals exclude cisgender heteromantic aces from the community?
Are you saying that asexuality is only valid when it’s accompanied by a non-hetero romantic orientation or a non-cis gender identity?
Are you saying that aces don’t actually get to be part of the community?
Because that’s what I’m hearing.
You don’t have to include them in the gay community or the lesbian community or the bi community or the trans community or any other community, but you sure as hell have to include them in the ace community. Which means that they are part of the larger LGBTQIA+ community.