lets begin by go

No one wants to give-up on someone they love, such as a relative, friend or lover. But, sometimes we are forced to make hard decisions by extraordinary suffering. It’s easy to judge, or say, “never give-up,” until you have been there. Eventually, you begin to realize that life is too short and your powers to teach, influence or heal are limited. You finally accept that their emptiness, pain and dysfunction requires more than you have to give. You can’t hand your whole life and soul to someone who doesn’t even care about their own. Letting go is an excruciating heartbreak; mourning the death of what once was. If you did let someone go, and you still have guilt, it’s time to forgive yourself and begin to heal. If it is time to let someone go, for their sake, or for yours, then this may be your confirmation. — Bryant McGill

laylaisthename  asked:

☆☆☆ hell yeah gimme those sweet facts about Carver, Carina and your bloodbourne oc whom i live but i also keep forgetting his name

You want sweet facts? Well let’s go!


During the beginning events of Destiny 2, Carver and his wife Cornelia (@lostinthehaywoods titan), fell from Ghaul’s ship together. She woke up before him but he was still unconscious and she couldn’t wake him and his ghost was missing. She thought he had died and had left him behind to find their daughter. So when he finally came to later on, he searched the whole city for them despite his own ghosts protests. He didn’t find them. And wouldn’t for some time.


Before being a fully fledged guardian, she sneaked out of the city with Avia (@nerdy-kins hunter) to learn to be out in the field. They were ambushed by the Fallen and was almost killed by a Captain if Carver hadn’t found out and saved her at the very last second.


Being a science professor before becoming a hunter, Oscar loved to learn. He’d research new topics whenever the time permitted. His eagerness to learn and passion for knowledge did not go away while a hunter. He blinded himself in his quest for knowledge of the Great Ones which ultimately was his undoing.

instead of fat hunk jokes how about a running gag that no matter what planet or galaxy they go to, some alien will always fall irreversibly in love with hunk for his kindness and open personality and the team has to come up with plans and procedures for what to do when hunk inevitably gets proposed to on a planet they’re trying to form an alliance with

Things to look forward to:

  • new songs from your favorite artists or bands
  • bubble baths, sleepovers and bike rides
  • learning new things and languages
  • unexpected moments of feeling calm and happy
  • watching movies under your blanket on rainy days
  • meeting someone who is everything you’ve ever needed
  • loving yourself, forgiving your past mistakes
  • going to the library and reading new books
  • watching sunsets, especially in foreign cities
  • road trips, stargazing, coffee dates and adventures
  • having your own apartment and feeling at peace
  • letting things go and new beginnings
Let’s be strangers again. Like we never knew each other, as if we’ve never been lovers. Think of me as someone who doesn’t know you personally. Spill out everything that hurts you. Tell me about your heartbreaks and all the things that suffocating you. I’ll listen to all of the things you’ve done in the past not caring if it will change my perspective or not. Tell me, how it hurts. And how much it pains you. As if you’re talking to someone you thought you’ll never see again. As if you knew your secrets will still be safe. Let us go back to our beginnings. Let us walk towards the start. Let us be unknown to each other once more. Maybe we will fall in love with each other after it all.
—  ma.c.a // I love to believe that “Maybe”
25 Relationship Quotes to Get You Through a Breakup

No matter who ended it, why it fell apart, or how long ago it was, getting through the aftermath of a relationship is never an easy task. As you feel the waves of emotions from sadness to anger to relief while your heart heals, let these encouraging words give you the dose of inspiration you need.

For seeing the bright side

“To love and win is the best thing. To love and lose is the next best." 

– William Makepeace Thackeray

For remembering the bigger picture

"I mean, if the relationship can’t survive the long term, why on earth would it be worth my time and energy for the short term?" 

– Nicholas Sparks, author

For why you have to cry sometimes

"Those who do not know how to weep with their whole heart do not know how to laugh either." 

– Golda Meir, politician

For getting through the rough days

"Hearts live by being wounded." 

– Oscar Wilde, playwright

For valuing patience

"Only time can heal his heart, just as only time can heal his broken arms and legs." 

– Miss Piggy, Muppet

For savoring the transformation

"The dreams break into a million tiny pieces. The dream dies. Which leaves you with a choice: you can settle for reality, or you can go off, like a fool, and dream another dream.”

– Nora Ephron, author

For relishing the good times

“The hottest love has the coldest end." 

– Socrates, philosopher

For the motivation to move on

"No matter how hard your heart is broken, the world doesn’t stop for your grief." 

— Faraaz Kazi

For finding the humor

"I never hated a man enough to give his diamonds back." 

— Zsa Zsa Gabor, actress

For packing away the tissues

"Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional." 

— M. Kathleen Casey, politician

For prioritizing your strength

"You can only lose what you cling to." 

— Buddha

For the good moments to come

"In the process of letting go you will lose many things from the past, but you will find yourself." 

— Deepak Chopra

For the nudge to pull the plug

"You’ve gotta know when it’s time to turn the page.”

— Tori Amos, singer-songwriter

For a lesson in love

“Don’t dwell on what went wrong. Instead, focus on what to do next. Spend your energy moving forward together towards an answer.”

— Denis Waitley, motivational speaker

For unfriending on Facebook

“The most difficult aspect of moving on is accepting that the other person already did." 

— Faraaz Kazi, author

For remembering you’re not alone

"I think every girl has that a guy she has trouble letting go of." 

— Rashida Jones, actress

For new beginnings

"When I let go of what I am, I become what I might be. When I let go of what I have, I receive what I need." 

– Lao Tzu, philosopher

For the best that’s yet to come

"Letting go means to come to the realization that some people are a part of your history, but not a part of your destiny." 

— Steve Maraboli, author

For living in the moment

"Breathe. Let go. And remind yourself that this very moment is the only one you know you have for sure." 

— Oprah Winfrey

For improving your odds

"The best skill at cards is knowing when to discard." 

— Baltasar Gracián, philosopher

For being thankful for love

"Love is never lost. If not reciprocated, it will flow back and soften and purify the heart" 

— Washington Irving, author

For being openhearted

"When one door closes, another opens; but we often look so long and so regretfully upon the closed door that we do not see the one which has opened for us" 

— Alexander Graham Bell, inventor

For the upcoming rainbow

"Life always waits for some crisis to occur before revealing itself at its most brilliant.”

— Paulo Coelho, author

For never settling

“Never love anybody that treats you like you’re ordinary.”

— Oscar Wilde, playwright

For appreciating the bittersweet

“The saddest thing about love, Joe, is that not only the love cannot last forever, but even the heartbreak is soon forgotten.”   

― William Faulkner, author 



The path I walk is the way of supreme conquest, and it is power that will reveal the way for me.

I always thought it was me who lost you. But really, it was you who lost me. Because while I’m asleep in someone else’s arms, receiving kisses from lips that aren’t yours, you’re lying awake trying to figure out how to get me back.
—  I’ve let you go, I’ve moved on, and I don’t love you anymore; March 20th 2016 
Post-Depressive-Episode Bath Spell

A cleansing, purifying, and uplifting spell for the turning point after a depressive episode or I suppose any difficult period of time, when you want to distance yourself from past suffering and invite joy back in. **

you will need:
~ 6-8 handfuls of salt
~ 3-8 drops of eucalyptis oil
~ 8-12 drops of tea tree oil
~ 20-25 drops of sweet orange oil
~ 2-3 drops from a peaceful body of water like a lake, lagoon, or bay (optional)

~ pour salt onto the bottom of the tub in the shape of this bindrune (a combination of Dagaz/Daybreak and Wunjo/Joy):

You can also draw this bindrune on your wrist for some extra oomph if you like.

~ drop the essential oil into the salt: eucalyptus in the center, tea tree on the outmost corners, and sweet orange along the lines of the middle X, then put the drops of lagoon water in your right palm and sprinkle it over the bindrune

~ run the bathwater nice and hot but not scalding - now is the time to light candles or incense if you like, or any other beginning-of-spell rituals you may have.  maybe put on your favorite music, tv show, or audio book, whatever will make you happy and relaxed during the soaking-in portion of the spell

~ once the salt bindrune is submerged and the tub is about halfway full, stir the salt into the waters with your right hand while focusing on joy and relief and fresh beginnings

~ climb on in and soak for 20-40min.  let go, relax, let yourself really feel happy again after all those days in darkness

It’s always better in my experience to do bath spells right before bed or when you have a chance to nap afterward bc hot salt water can really take it out of ya.  sleep is restorative, too, so embrace it as the after-effects of the spell

Also, you can sub in any citrus-y oil or even zest or juice for the sweet orange oil if you don’t have it; I just happened to have a bottle from my sister, but the idea is to get the citrus element in there

I took the time to do this for myself yesterday afternoon and it was exactly what I needed!!  

**disclaimer: I know you can’t magick yourself out of a depressive episode, this is for when you already feel yourself coming out of it for whatever reason, to sort of help you along with that process

I love you. I would never ask you to pick me over something that you love, something that gives you passion, something that moves you forward in life, and that is why I didn’t ask you to stay. I had to fight off every single urge inside my body just to let you go. It’s not that I didn’t fight for you; it was because I love you so much that I want what’s best for you even if it meant that I won’t be in the picture. Watching you leave was hard, but stopping myself from holding you back was even harder. This is the most selfless decision I have ever made, and I hope that you will understand where I’m coming from one day. Forgive me. One day you’ll look back and realize that our love was worth the sacrifice.

-I hope by then we can try again.



sara [lighting carter and ray on fire]: it’s called being SUBTLE about your FEELINGS and I happen to be an EXPERT


From the executive producer of exemplary series Steven Universe Ian Jones-Quartey comes the character KO! The television series OK K.O.! Let’s Be Heroes is set in the futuristic year of 201X, where the world is populated by video game, anime and manga-esque characters.The series follows K.O. and his efforts to become the world’s greatest hero, while working at Gar’s Bodega (run by the no-nonsense Mr. Gar), a hero supply shop in the Lakewood Plaza strip mall. Alongside him are his best friends and co-workers Radicles, an apathetic, narcissistic alien, and Enid, a levelheaded big sister-like employee, as well as other heroes who work and frequent the area.

NEW episodes air every weekday from August 1 to August 24, with 2 episodes at 6.10PM from August 1st to 4th, right after Teen Titans Go’s Night Begins to Shine special. From August 5th to August 24th, a new episode airs weekdays at 6.30PM.

Tue August 1st - 6:10 PM (EST) - 101/102/103/104 - Let’s Be Heroes/Let’s Be Friends/You’re Everybody’s Sidekick/We Messed Up (ONE HOUR SERIES PREMIERE)
Wed August 2nd - 6:10 PM (EST) - 105/106 - Jethro’s All Yours/You’re Level 100
Thu August 3rd - 6:10 PM (EST) - 107/108 - Sibling Rivalry/I Am Dendy
Fri August 4th - 6:10 PM (EST) - 109/110 - Do You Have Any More in the Back?/My Dad Can Beat up Your Dad
Mon August 7th - 6:30 PM (EST) - 111 - You Get Met
Tue August 8th - 6:30 PM (EST) - 112 - You are Rad
Wed August 9th - 6:30 PM (EST) - 113 - Just Be a Pebble
Thu August 10th - 6:30 PM (EST) - 114 - Presenting Joe Cuppa
Mon August 14th - 6:30 PM (EST) - 115 - We’ve Got Pests
Tue August 15th - 6:30 PM (EST) - 116 - Legends of Mr. Gar
Wed August 16th - 6:30 PM (EST) - 117 - Know Your Mom
Thu August 17th - 6:30 PM (EST) - 118 - We’re Captured
Mon August 21st - 6:30 PM (EST) - 119 - Face Your Fears
Tue August 22nd - 6:30 PM (EST) - 120 - Everybody Likes Rad?
Wed August 23rd - 6:30 PM (EST) - 121 - You Have to Care
Thu August 24th - 6:30 PM (EST) - 122 - Plaza Prom

Fun fact: The character of KO is voiced by two people, Stefanie Nadonly and Courtenay Taylor, which change with every episode.

sometimes your heart will hurt. sometimes your smile will ache. sometimes your light will dim. sometimes your spirit will break. sometimes your entire world will come crashing down with no warning, and no signs.. but no matter how destroyed you feel - you have to be willing to dig deep inside of yourself to find some ambition to get you back right. you have to look out for you. you have to let go. you have to place your focus primarily on YOU. nothing about losing what’s familiar feels good.. but uncomfortable places can be beautiful. growth is beautiful. you are beautiful. you shouldn’t have to wait around and pray for someone to love you. you should love you. you should let go - because nothing worth holding onto will ever destroy you. and holding on is destroying you. trying to love someone into loving you - is destroying you. let go because you have to get a hold of you. you have to retrace your steps and figure out where you let YOU go. you have to take time to yourself to reflect on when and where you lost yourself. you have to let go of what no longer is - and accept what may have never been.. then you have to pick yourself back up. you have to release any negativity clouding your mind and you have to rid yourself of hopeful feelings. cleanse your soul. listen to your intuition. learn yourself. let go of any bad habits you’ve picked up along your journey. and start over. no matter how bad or how much it hurts.. let go and start over. holding on is destroying you.
—  Reyna Biddy