Your depiction of why L/xa died at the end (what you are saying is that it was solely her own fault) kind of gives me the impression that if she hadn't acted a certain way from the very /beginning/ then she would still be alive, but since she acted that way she created her own downfall so her death is on her only. That sounds so wild to me, because you kind of establish the idea that people who die are responsible for it themselves, which is just not okay. Titus killed L/xa, not L/xa herself.
(con) This wasn’t suicide, or a huge self-sacrifice like Lincoln’s actions in 3.09. This was a deliberate attack on Clarke which then resulted in L/xa getting accidentally shot because TITUS was not okay with how things went down. Because Titus couldn’t show a single amount of solidarity. Because Titus was too much into this Love is Weakness bullshit. HE killed L/xa. HIS lessons killed L/xa. That is what happened. End of story.
Anyway….there was for real a time when I carried about not hurting people’s feelings but “DNR” left me dead inside so let me give it to you blunt pal:
Titus pulled the trigger absolutely, but at the end of the day it was L/xa’s actions that resulted in him reaching the point where he felt that he needed to.
If L/xa had been a better leader (cause I don’t care what Season 4 is saying-she sucked ass) none of what happened in Season 3A would have been an issue and she would still have been alive today.