The moc getting hit/stunned by women isn’t subversive. Moc already suffer violence from their bosses (the way Leia treats Poe) and from antiblack women (the way Rose treats Finn). It’s literally just unjustified violence. And painting both Finn and Poes characters as anything but brave and selfless is truly regressive to anything we know about their characters in TFA. It’s interesting that this supposed growth in TLJ includes being pushed into “selflessness” and “bravery” (it’s none of these things) only comes about from having violence enacted on them. Last I checked that’s not growth, that’s just victims adjusting to avoid abuse/violence.