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yin-serpent  asked:

Yesterday i completed my states requirements to legally change my gender. I have the change of gender and change of name forms mostly filled out. I just need to make an appointment with the office of births, deaths and marriages now!

That is wonderful!!! I’m so happy for you!!!!!! ❤︎ Thanks for telling me, I’m glad to know that things are going well!!

anonymous asked:

so, im not really sure if there's something wrong with me or not? I'm a trans boy and switch between labels of queer/pansexual for my sexuality. but I've noticed around the 6 month mark of dating someone i just kind of,, fall off? I'm not sure if there's a thing for this. as in, I fall in love with someone and im in this euphoric state for months, but, as the relationship gets real i kind of tend to push away? idk if im just scared or not, just rambling but if there is advice itd be great -lee

It sounds to me the most probable explanation would be that you ride purely on the infatuation, or honeymoon stage of a relationship, which lasts about 6 months. You then start to realize the seriousness of being in a committed romantic relationship. It’s not as exciting or new anymore. They’re people with flaws just like you, and you start to realize differences between you and your partner(s). That realization might deter you.

BUT I don’t have much information to go on, and I could be wrong. Feel free to add more information that you feel is pertinent to this if the question is still relevant to you.

anonymous asked:

My girlfriend and I broke up a few days ago and it was mutual and we’re still friends. But part of the reason we broke up was because I lost feelings for her but ever since we broke up I’ve been getting really sad and clingy to her but I know we’re healthier now that we’re broken up but I miss her. I don’t know what to do. We dated for 21 months and going back to just friends is hard but I don’t want to lose my best friend

I know that can be rough. I’m proud of you for listening to your feelings and ending it, though!! It’s understandable that you are feeling a bit more emotional and wanting more physical affection though; that’s natural after a relationship, especially one that lasted so long!! You had this person that you could depend on and was always there and suddenly they’re just not anymore. That would be rough for anyone regardless of context. I know it’s hard to go back to being friends, and I actually lost two of my good friends through the exact same situation. Continuing a friendship after ending such a close bond is difficult, and you need to acknowledge that it may not work out and that you could lose this friend. Don’t worry, though, there will be other people you meet and become close with. Make sure to take an effort to interact and check up on her though, and don’t try to not talk to her just because you feel awkward unless she asks you to stop, but don’t lay it on her too much or she could get uncomfortable, and we don’t want either of you to feel this way!! What you can do though is focus on salvaging your relationship and try to just take a break from the dating game for a bit. It’ll be okay!!! ❤︎

YOI Characters as things my classmates have said
  • Yuuri: You think I'm innocent but you should see me in a group chat
  • Viktor: Guys I think I'm gay but I'm not sure yet-- never mind I'm sure I'm gay
  • Yuri: I'm 5'2 but I'm still ready to fight someone
  • Otabek: Wow y'all think I'm a gentleman but wait till you see me swallow a quesadilla whole
  • Phichit: What's your Snapchat? I don't have one I just want to know for future reference
  • Chris: I got an A on my science test and I'm ready to bust a nut
  • JJ: I may look cool, but on the inside I'm just a soggy pile of worthlessness just like you guys
  • Leo: I might have failed three of my classes but that's chill. Im chill
  • Guang-Hong: *in a squeaky voice* I'll shank you
  • Georgi: I don't know whether or not I've had two girlfriends in the past month is good or bad
  • Seung-Gil: I'm great at parties. I mostly just hide in the corner and hope nobody notices me. It works like a charm.
  • Michele: No homo but guys are really pretty
  • Emil: Yugi-Oh is for babies; I play Magic the Gathering like a real man
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Lee says:
Someone recently asked us what an informed consent form looked like.

I just went to @plannedparenthood today to get prescribed T (I went to Planned Parenthood to do my bloodwork earlier in the month, so today all I had to do was sign papers) and I took a picture of the form I had to sign with my phone. Hopefully this helps someone!

Hey guys I have to tell you all about this book I read. It’s called “Not Your Sidekick” by CB Lee! It’s about a Vietnamese-Chinese (nothing about the Chinese side in it) bisexual protagonist in a world where superheroes and villains are real. Jess lives in a small town of third rate villains and heroes. The story starts off in a light small town mood in a world where people cheer on their favorite heroes and curse their favorite villains. If you’re lucky, your parents have the gene for powers and you might inherit it. No such luck for Jess. Her role in a villain-hero world isn’t nonexistent though, because she ends up working an internship at a large tech corporation that sells products to every household in the country. There’s more to that than meets the eye.

There’s a happy ending, wlw romance plot, a black trans guy with a significant role in the story, and other gay characters populated throughout.

I was really surprised. I thought this would just be a casual light hearted read but I was totally gripped by the end as the hole of lies got deeper and deeper. I checked this out via my digital local library!

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anonymous asked:

~~Feel free to ignore this!~~ I'm writing and creating a queer voice acting project that will be coming out in the next few weeks! We are at @queerspacepirate and while we could use more actors, I just wanted you to know space will have queer and lgbtqia+ in it! Our project is voiced and written by 100% queer/trans/lgbtqia+ people!! Thank you for your time!!

That is so cool!! Thanks for telling us; guys, go check out @queerspacepirate if you’re interested in voice acting for them!!!! :D

Happy Pride Month everyone!! Don’t forget to boost the voices of TPOC throughout your celebrations this month. Any and all trans people of color are welcome and encouraged to submit their selfies and stories to @brownandtrans to show their pride. The tag #TumblrPride has been enabled as an option for those who want to bring their message into the greater community. We are trans, and we are people of color, and both identities are important in forming who we are. We are here and we are visible, but on our own terms. Please reblog and boost this so the TPOC of Tumblr can submit their pride month selfies and find community! Tag us at #brownandtrans ! We want to see your selfies at Pride events, or while you’re at home if you’re not able to attend Pride. You can be included in the Pride festivities this month no matter where you are in your trans journey by submitting your selfies. Happy Pride Month again, from mod Lee of @brownandtrans

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Lee says: 

I’m in Target still, so here’s an example of the type of compression sports bra you want if you’re using it to bind! Most people wear sports bras for gym class, which is a good excuse to buy some if your parents ask why you want them.

You should only get the sports bras that lay flat, if they have padding in them it’ll likely make your chest look larger which we’ve had a few asks about. More info on binding is on this page!

YOI Characters as things people at my school have done
  • Yuuri: Got choked (lightly) by my history teacher with the strings of his sweatshirt and looked absolutely terrified; probably whispered "harder" under his breath
  • Viktor: Latched onto my leg and stayed there while I tried to get to the next period
  • Yurio: Stared at a bird that was outside in science class for the entire period and called made sports announcer commentary on everything it did
  • Otabek: Tried to do parkour on the desks
  • Phichit: Held a funeral for a dead rat that we had to dissect
  • JJ: Tripped on his own shoelaces and dabbed on the way down
  • Christophe: Asked me if I bleached my asshole
  • Georgi: Got surrounded by crows and declared himself "Supreme Corvid Overlord"
  • Leo: Belted "My Heart Will Go On" in the hallway
  • Guang-Hong: Started randomly screaming in the cafeteria; everyone else joins in
  • Seung-Gil: Tried to sneak out of class in combat boots
  • Emil: Tried to make friends with a squirrel
  • Michele: Screamed "I do not tolerate that behavior" when someone called him a whiny bitch
nytimes.com
Judge Blocks Trump’s Ban on Transgender Troops in Military
The ruling noted that the policy did not appear to be based on facts.
By Dave Philipps

On Monday, Judge Colleen Kollar-Kotelly of the Federal District Court for the District of Columbia issued an injunction blocking enforcement of the ban until the case was resolved, saying the effect of the order was to revert to the status quo.

The ruling allows transgender troops to join the military and re-enlist, pending the outcome of the case, but leaves in place a White House provision that prohibits federal spending on sex reassignment surgery for troops.

YOI Characters as Things People at my Sleepaway Camp have Said
  • <p> <b>Yuuri:</b> You know, I was worried that you'd tell a counselor I smuggled pretzels from the other cabin and I'm eating them in a bathroom stall, but your kind eyes and can of Mtn. Dew give me a sense of security<p/><b>Viktor:</b> (whispers in my ear) You're my husband now<p/><b>Yuri:</b> I've learned a lot of Russian from CS:GO servers<p/><b>Otabek:</b> Can I trust you with a secret? [Me: yeah] I thought the moon was a planet until you told me it wasn't a few minutes ago<p/><b>Phichit:</b> I have three years of camp experience, two chinchillas, an eight-pack, and zero direction in life<p/><b>Chris:</b> So if you're new to making out, the trick is just to recite the alphabet and don't stop until you're done.<p/><b>JJ:</b> I'm everyone's favorite! *Gets hit in the head with an empty jug* [thrower: THAT WAS INTENTIONAL]<p/><b>Georgi:</b> WE ARE ALL HERE! HOO HA HOO HA HOO!<p/><b>Michele:</b> YOU ARE A FALSE PROPHET OF ITALY! BEGONE, THOTTICUS!<p/><b>Sara:</b> (trying to comfort a screaming child) Can you maybe chill for like three minutes like holy shit<p/><b>Emil:</b> Look, when you hugged her and said she's the best, I immediately thought you two were meant to be! How the hell was I supposed to know that you two were siblings?<p/><b>Mila:</b> (set up dinner, which was supposed to be potato salad, without any utensils) BOOM, PRANKED!<p/><b>Kenjirou:</b> I propose we blow up the sun, sir!<p/><b>Seung-Gil:</b> I love dogs and men. That's it if you're not a dog or a man please get out of my sight<p/><b>Guang-Hong:</b> Just because I'm only eleven doesn't mean I won't pay a counselor to murder you on your hiking trip<p/><b>Leo:</b> Can we sing something other than All-Star for the love of God? [Literally everyone on the bus: NO]<p/><b>Minako:</b> If you want to tell me something, make sure you can say it in front of a grandma*looks directly at their co-counselor*<p/><b>Takeshi:</b> My name is [redacted], I went on the hiking trip, and I'd like to thank [redacted] for making me gay<p/><b>Yakov:</b> Please refrain from screaming "THE BULGE" when the parents arrive, okay<p/><b>Lilia:</b> (when asked if a camper was sick) Shut up and keep hiking<p/><b>Isabella:</b> You never know how good you are at blindfolded waltzing until you try it!<p/></p>