leave other ships alone

Guys, guys hey just… Hey just listen for a second, okay?

Like…. With the last couple of episodes of Samurai Jack on their way, it’s probably gonna be revealed whether or not Jack and Ashi are a couple or not. Like, that’s just a given.

But no matter what the reveal is, can we please PLEASE be good to each other? None of this “HAHAHA I TOLD YOU SO!” Rubbing it in, and none of this “NOOOO TARTAKOVSKY WHYYYY” as though this is like….. The end of the damn world fuckin apocalypse shit flames raining from the sky.

We’ve waited over a decade for this, and we are getting it because Tartakovsky wanted to badly to finish this project and present us with a decent conclusion to a frankly marvelous story. And this fandom, so far, has been the most welcoming and gentle and fun fandom I’ve ever been a part of. Please don’t turn it into a cesspool of hate. Please. This show is too good for that kind of cruel fate.

Tldr: Personally I don’t ship Jashi, it’s just not my preference. But I’m not gonna lose my mind if it’s canon, and I’m CERTAINLY not about to send someone hate for liking it.

Me scrolling through fandom discourse while I just quietly ship my OTP

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*ACOWAR SPOILERS*

Anyway Moriel shippers whining about Mor being gay can suck my dick lol.

Is it probably tokenism? Yes. Is it probably going to be lazy, last minute representation? Yes. Do any of you homophobes using these things for your complaints actually fucking give a shit about whether or not it’s tokenism? No! You’re just homophobic, so stop pretending like you actually care about the quality of gay representation!

I can’t believe some of you actually have the audacity to to say shit like “this is coming out of nowhere” and “Mor just doesn’t SEEM like she’s gay” and “but poor Azriel!” and “but I wanted Moriel to happen!” and “I’m not saying I don’t want representation, I just don’t think it should be Mor.”

First of all, if you’re straight (and most of the people complaining here are) how DARE you say anything about Mor “seeming gay” or not. How DARE you. What the actual fuck could you possibly know about it. Nothing. You could know nothing.

Second of all, of COURSE you don’t think it should be Mor. You CARE about Mor. Mor is beautiful, bubbly, funny, smart, outgoing. Her storyline is important to the main plot. She’s survived tragedy and emerged triumphant. You relate to her. And most of all, you want her to get together with a male character. And for her to be GAY? Oh no! Now this is ruined for you. Now she’s not perfect anymore. God forbid gay people have a gay character with positive traits they can look up to and relate to in a series. God forbid ONE character out of a TON of straights had to be made gay and now you can’t relate anymore.

I’ve seen multiple people say “I like the representation, but I thought Mor should be with Azriel and Amren should be gay. Why couldn’t it be Amren?” This. Is VERY telling. Amren is described as not overly beautiful, she has a more abrasive personality, and most importantly, she doesn’t seem interested in any kind of romantic relationship. At all. Her being gay would not get in the way of ANY of your straight romances/ships/plots. It probably would’t even be brought up a lot, because it’s doubtful she’d even be with someone. So people saying that Amren would have been a better candidate feels very much like “Ugh, the gays can HAVE that weird freak Amren, but it’s not fair they get that pretty girl! How can MOR be gay?? What about the boy I want as her boyfriend?”

So many people are shielding themselves from being called homophobic by saying “I want a character to be LGBT! I want there to be representation for LGBT! (Just not THIS character)” Well that’s bullshit, first of all because the way you say “LGBT” instead of “LGBT characters” or “gay characters” kinda reveals the way you view representation as some nebulous kind of check-the-box category to get over with instead something actually important, and second of all because the “LGBT representation” that you’re “all for” is a very specific kind of representation. It’s the kind that isn’t really representation at all.

You’re “all for LGBT rep,” but you never actually want characters you LIKE to be gay. You never want the characters you ship in straight relationships to turn out gay. You want the ugly characters, the evil characters (who are going to die anyway), the characters who never end up in relationships, (and the “smol bean xD” men who you fetishize and ship with other men, but that’s another issue) to turn out gay. That way you can pat yourself on the back for how good and diverse your series is while continuing to enjoy the main straight characters in their straight relationships. That way you’re never forced to invest in the humanity of gay people and their stories, because their “stories” are just a casual mention of their sexuality, or a side plot so tiny it might as well not exist (like in tog).

And as for “poor Azriel!” do I really have to tell you why that’s fucking dumb? I guess it’s not uncommon in this fandom to always prioritize men over women (re: “poor Rhysand when Feyre had to sleep with her abuser that must have been so hard for HIM!!”), but still. Listen to yourself.

On top of all of this, I find it pretty funny (I don’t. I don’t find it funny. At all. None of this is funny it makes me want to vomit) that straight people are throwing a tantrum and acting like it’s the worst thing ever that a ship they were passionate about couldn’t work out because of the characters’ sexualities. HAHAHAHAHAHA! The irony of it, honestly, and the fact that none of you realize it… wow. Do y’all. Have any idea. How many times that happens to gay readers? On a REGULAR basis?? The two characters are similar. Have good chemistry. Interact in a way that hints at a relationship. Would be perfect together. You care about them, you grow invested. And just when you think they might be endgame… oops! They’re straight, and they can’t be together. I don’t have an ounce of pity for people saying that they’re SO upset by this because they were in love with the ship and now it can’t happen because of sexuality. This is our LIFE. It happened to you one fucking time, and the relationship wasn’t even that developed; somehow I think you’ll be okay.

To sum it up, when I hear people complaining about Mor being gay because they thought she should be with Azriel, literally all I hear is “wait but gay people are fine only as long as they don’t get in the way of straight ships and characters :( why can’t they stay on the fringes of the plot where they belong and leave us straights alone :( we used to have 100% of the characters and plot and now we only have 99% :( life is so hard :(“

It’s honestly just really disheartening to see straight people responding so nastily to this, especially when this is just a tiny drop of real representation. Mor’s sexuality might not end up being well done in the book, but there are a lot of gay and bi girls who read these books and this could genuinely make a difference to them. And THAT will ALWAYS be more important than the success of a straight ship, especially in a series in which there is absolutely NO shortage of straight ships and characters. Go pick two of the other 10,000 straight characters to ship and leave us alone.

This TVFanatic article annoys me to no end.

Barry’s only serious slip up was the whole proposal issue, and even then he was misguided in his desperation to protect her.

That boy bends over backward to make sure she’s safe & happy & feels loved. He supports her in her career & never ceases gushing abt how much he loves her & how amazing she is. He does things like turning their kitchen into iHop & making her name in flowers & speeding them out to a romantic dinner in a gazebo on the waterfront.

Like…

That boy KNOWS he’s lucky to have her. He worships the ground she walks on. His one desire when leaving her to go into the SF was to keep living her life, keep being the amazing, fierce ray of sunshine that she is & keep RUNNING.

Iris is a saint & that whole proposal business was screwy, but he’s MORE than made up for it since then. Let’s not pretend like Iris isn’t just as lucky to have Barry as he is to have her. Barry is more than his screw ups, and he’s made up for them every time. Devoting his year to saving her life and then sacrificing the life they’d hoped to have together to save the world and her??? You can’t get much more selfless than that.

Plz stop hating on Barry for being human in the face of tragedy. Not everyone can be as perfect as Iris West.

Stop With The Hate

I see too many LuffyxNami shippers being way too aggressive with other shippers and vice-versa. A bunch of ganging up, name calling, and insults between different ships IS NOT something I support in my blog or in my shipping fandom. It is nothing more than BULLYING. I think shipping should be something that everyone can enjoy. People have a right to support whatever ship they like and people don’t have the right to bash someone for it.  

There are ships that I do not like and even hate, but I try my best to not bad mouth other ships and shippers in my blog because it’s about respect. Even if the other side is not showing any respect towards you, you should just ignore it or try to show some respect towards them because it makes you the bigger person. Don’t give me that bullshit excuse of “We have to defend ourselves”. That answer is UNACCEPTABLE. If you want to defend your ship, then make posts that builds supports within your shipping fandom and NOT to argue against other shippers that oppose your ship. It will get you no where. I don’t want to hear “It will make them and their ship look stupid because they can’t defend their ship and bring support for our ship.SHUT! THE! FUCK! UP! Leave the other shippers alone because at that point you are only trying to make yourself feel good by putting other people down.  I understand that some people do not do anything, but still get hate and all I can say is just ignore the haters or you can simply block whoever is harassing you.

 The kind of shipping I like is showing actual moments, hints, and development that shows why I think my otp will happen. Whether you think your ship will happen or not you shouldn’t care what people say because what matters is what you like and want (unless Oda says otherwise).

Remember these are only fictional characters. People shouldn’t obsess on One Piece or on pairings. You have other things in life you should prioritize on. If you obsess, then you could end up getting depressed when things don’t go your way. I made my blog as a hobby that I can peacefully enjoy. A lot of the time people should just go with the flow in One Piece and just accept things that Oda gives the readers and not complain because he is the author of the series.

 If you felt mad or offended by my post, then GOOD because all that says is that you have bullied someone too and you are upset that someone had pointed out the actions you have done.

I hope people can ship in peace again and stop with childish nonsense because this doesn’t make supporting pairings any fun. I hope this post helps people of all kinds of fandoms.

Sincerely, 


 elit3-zab

 P.S. If I didn’t tag your pairing, then feel free to tag in.

I'm confused

So… if you take an heterosexual /asexual character and ship him with a man is fine, but if you take a lesbian and put her in a romantic hinted relationship with a man is homophobia?

Isn’ t this heterophobia a reverse form of homophobia?

So, now, if you support Croc x Crow you just have a ship, and if you don’t you dislike animals? Should we expect a call from PETA?

Crane is probably het/ace. Shipping him with Riddler is violence?

Harley wasn’t a thing with Ivy. By this logic even if canon, she should stay with a man, cause they changed a character sexuality?

Nygmobblepot fans should stop flaming Cory for being homophobe? (They should, really, but not the point). Cause having him with Penguin would changed his sexuality, by logic this is violence.

I’m really trying to not laugh at this, but then you should stop saying bullshit.

That’s my opinion.

I support AskArkham.

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Vhope is literally the best thing. They're both so touchy and affectionate and just 😍😍

omgggg yesss~

I literally started shipping them really hard when I saw that one gifset of the clip from their…HYYH Prologue(?) Making Video where V just really wanted to lay on J-Hope’s leg, but J-Hope kept denying him and he started grappling at his hyung’s leg and whining in the cutest voice and it was like he became his true puppy form and J-Hope obliged eventually and just asdlkfjasdklfjasdlkfj it was one of the cutest things i’ve ever seen.

it is literally the softest and most affectionate ship, and that’s why i’ll always ship it one way or another ToT

I don’t get it if they’re so sure that Dar/ren and Mi/a are dating then what does it matter what us CrissColfer shippers think? The same with Chr/is and Wi/ll if you’re so sure then there’s no need to comment or try to make us believe just ship what you want and leave others alone there’s a reason why you should always stay in your own tag

Supergirl Fandom

This fandom is so childish immature and petty. I know there’s a lots of bad weeds on every fandom, and I know everyone want to act almighty and don’t want to get off their high horses. There’s so many shit and bad things going on in the world but this fandom choose to add more to that. I have to remind everybody we are all watching the same show. Why don’t we support the show, the actors, the writers of the show and the ship of our preference and get along. this is not a competition. This is supposed to be our sanctuary our happy place but some of you turn it into a sewer of toxic shit. If you don’t like the other ship, leave them alone, focus on your ship. Don’t send hate messages on each other. We are entitled to our own opinion but you must still respect others feeling and opinion. If you don’t like the other ship, then be a better person blocked them and don’t tag your hate on their ship. Again be respectful to each other. Stay in your lane, if you don’t like something avoid it. Let’s grow up and be mature and remember this is just a show. It’s not a war zone it’s not a battlefield. This show supposed to bring us together, not to fight with each other. This show supposed to inspire us, not tear us down. Love each other and agree to disagree and stop throwing hate words so lightly stop calling each other homophobes and racist cause you will only sound like a bigot and hypocrite. We all have the same likes or love and it’s this show so let’s get along so we all can enjoy it to the fullest

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I don’t understand why everyone is attacking bughead shippers and calling us stupid and blind and all of that nonsense. Betty and Jughead are literally canon in the show right now. Sure they may not be forever (which sucks because they are super cute, but I understand how TV works so) but you don’t have to attack us for literally everything. I’m not saying everyone in the fandom is in the clear, no one is innocent, but can we all just leave each other alone? Ship who you want and let us ship who we want. You don’t like something? Block us.

I am a bughead shipper, and I have been called homophobic so many times just for shipping them. That doesn’t make any sense!! Sure, I love Betty and Jughead, they are my main OTP ship in Riverdale, but I do have other ships too! Veronica and Betty as friends, Jughead and Archie as friends, Cheryl and Veronica together, Josie and Cheryl together, Archie and Ronnie, he’ll I even ship Luke and FP, and Josie and Val tbh. I was going somewhere much further in this post but I lost my train of thought listing my Riverdale ships so… just please stop shitposting. Please my loves :)

Okay, so this post needs to happen.

You can be salty about our ship. You can hate it for all I fucking care. But you don’t have the right to attack us in our own tag, it isn’t fair to anyone. Let’s be civil human beings and just leave each other alone. Let’s not turn our ship into a war zone, to both of our ships.

Thanks.

Will people ever leave each other alone? Let people ship what they want! Let them get excited about things! I wish people would stop being so rude to other shippers! And quit reblogging their harmless posts and making rude comments directed at them. As long as they are not hurting anybody or spreading hate there is no need to be mean. The only people spreading hate in this situation are people like that. It must feel nice to be a bunch of bullies on tumblr.