So a post was going around my dash the other day that was like “I’m so sick of my straight friends who have shitty boyfriends but never leave them because they feel bad about leaving them all alone like lol nope Karen”
And it twigs me because when I had a shitty emotionally abusive girlfriend I didn’t leave because she had so many disorders and her life was so rough and privileged white me felt bad
Should my friends have lolnoped at me and called me Karen, or should they have understood that manipulative people are good at making you feel so guilty you do not leave because they are, uh, manipulative? And that one really good tactic is to present yourself as powerless so your victim will minimize you hurting them for you?
(also do you lolnope at Karen if she is bi too, or are you more compassionate to her then even if she is EW EW DATING A BOY)