anonymous asked:

How do I tell my girlfriend I cant do this any more because it makes me too sad and I cant focus on my work. I love her but the distance is too much for me. We dont get to talk much and we havent met yet even though its been 2 yrs. I dont want to end it but its really too much for me :-(

Well firstly, make sure that you are 100% sure about any decision you are about to make. Make sure you have completely decided in your head that you want to end the relationship before doing so, because you don’t want to have such a huge regret. 

Honestly there is no easy way to end a relationship or tell someone you love that you can’t do it anymore. My LDR relationship ended after almost 2 years because my girlfriend couldn’t handle the distance anymore, and although I accepted the decision and respected her for it, it still broke my heart. 

If your girlfriend loves you and is respectful of you then she will accept and respect your decision, no matter how heartbreaking it is. Just be honest with her and explain your feelings. 

Hope this helps! - Michael :)

Why meeting someone online isn’t weird at all:
  • Our generation grew up with technology and the internet 
  • Since we all grew up with technology, we know all about internet safety.
  • If you’re going to meet in person, you’re going to sure as hell confirm their identity before you do so because you’re not an idiot
  • We aren’t naive enough to believe out of billions of people on the planet, our soulmate or even best friend is going to live next door. 
  • Joining blogging communities involves socialization 
  • Gaming online with thousands of people? You’re bound to click with someone
  • Everyone is connected through the interwebs 
  • It’s easier to find someone you relate to online compared to in person 
  • Not everyone is trying to catfish or abduct you
I get so lost in her details. The shape of her lips. The way her hair falls on her shoulders. The way the light brightens her eyes. The way her smile forms when she looks at me. Doesn’t matter who’s in the room, she’s all I see.

One day, I’ll wake up at three in the morning. I won’t be alone, I won’t text you or call you. I won’t miss you or want to cry. Because, one day, when I wake up at three in the morning, you’ll be laying next to me and not miles away

I can’t wait for the day until there is no distance between us.

10 things to appreciate in your LDR:

  1. You don’t always need to shave
  2. The texts you get from them make you smile at your phone like an idiot
  3. You still get butterflies just hearing their voice
  4. You get to have the cutest Skype dates
  6. You get to be a total romantic when writing letters and mailing them stuff
  7. You always get excited planning visits and talking about closing the distance someday
  8. Every visit is technically an adventure
  9. You really appreciate the little things that close distance couples overlook
  10. You know that if you survive the distance, you both can pretty much survive through anything