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  • being told your sexuality isn’t real
  • total lack of positive representation
  • feeling that your sexuality isn’t valid
  • constantly being told you have to choose
  • always questioning your feelings
  • being afraid to use the word bi bcos people think its synonymous with ‘slut’
  • everyone telling you youre just a straight girl who wants attention
  • being told your sexuality isn’t real
  • “do you wanna have a threesome??”
  • being told its “just a phase”
  • not being at home in any group of people because gay and lesbians often don’t like bi people
  • “but everyones a little bit bi!!!”
  • “So does that mean you’ll cheat on your partner??”
  • being told your sexuality isn’t real

I hate it when people say “Heteromantic asexual people don’t belong in the LBGT+ community because they can be homophobic.”

Um like anyone in the community can be ___phobic? Lesbian people can be transphobic, gay people can be biphobic, like anyone in our community can be rude and horrible to any group that is not directly them like this is the shittiest reason ever to exclude anyone. If you don’t like the idea that a heteromantic asexual might face serious issues that only people in the LBGT+ community can sympathize with just because they are heteromantic then that is a reflection on you, not them.

The end

  • Acephobic LBGT+/MOGAI People:Asexuals don't face discrimination based on them being asexual, only based on their romantic orientations.
  • Me and countless other asexuals:*shares stories of truly horrifying experiences that is based on us being asexual; not to do with romantic orientation*
  • Acephobic LBGT+/MOGAI People:*not listening because they only listen to stories that affirm their ideas of what asexuality is.*