lack of good judgement

Personal responsibility

So someone messaged me to ‘take down’ a post I’d reblogged and said it was “weird I was 4 years back into their archive”…  I wasn’t in their archive.  I had simply done a search for a funny imgur post, and their post came up.  They messaged me, very curtly, to remove it and explained why…  After hearing why, I understand, however, if this video poses such a threat, why is it still viewable and rebloggable by the general public?  This seems like a thing that should have been taken down ages ago.

There seems to be an ongoing pattern of behavior here that’s worrisome. People are holding complete strangers responsible for every trauma that has happened to them.  There’s no way we all can read each other’s minds and pasts.  Most of us are just here for fandom, jokes, cats, and general escapism.  Hell, we all have our own traumas, every last one of us.  If someone misunderstands a post you made, or reblogs a photo or video that brings bad memories for you, we have literally no idea.  You can either continue to message people (in not so nice ways) to alert them to your discomfort, or you can simply remove the thing, block it, blacklist it, etc.  That ensures your well being a lot more than continuing to expect everyone else to simply ‘know’ about your pain.

We can’t hold everyone else responsible for our own troubles, memories, traumas, etc.  Take your own well being into your hands as much as possible, as really that’s the strongest defense you have.  The rest of us might be willing to help, but it’s not a burden that should be forced onto us without us even knowing.

Aspects To Mercury: The Art of Communication

An interest in Mercury has sparked me tonight, so I would like to make a post about the aspects to it; how planets can modify and add to its power whether it be psychically modified by Neptune or artistically modified by Venus, Mercury gives us something very special. Our minds are gifts, each and every mind has its ways. With planetary aspects to Mercury, we get insight on how we put our element to work.
Note: I’m excluding the Sun from this post as I already put it here and the only major aspect it can make is the conjunction.

Mercury and Moon; the Expressive Mind

Mercury Conjunct Moon
The mind and emotions work together, although, one may dominate the other depending on the sign they are in (obviously if the moon is in a more complementary sign for it, it will dominate Mercury and vice versa). Speaking their emotions may be easy for them. Makes them witty and talkative, very expressive in the way they communicate, it is very easy to read their emotions based on the way they speak to you.

Mercury Trine/Sextile Moon
The mind and emotion are in complete harmony. The power of emotions can be put into thoughts, words, and writing very easily for this individual. This is an excellent placement for writers or any area that may require emotion into expressing ideas so things aren’t all robotic. Very perceptive and expressive. 

Mercury Square Moon
The complete opposite of the harmonious aspects. The mind and emotions are at conflict with each other. Emotions need to be controlled wherever Mercury is sitting in (check the house). Decisions may be based on emotions, needs to be more reasonable. Needs to stop switching between rational and irrational feelings. Easy attitude adjustment can fix this. On the positive side, carries unconditional love. 

Mercury Opposite Moon
Opposition usually represent outer forces. Opt to be the victim of gossip and criticism. Should also not be the cause of gossip and criticism themselves as it will create more karmic debt. Like the square, could have issues with being reasonable. Needs some attitude adjustments. Likely to be very nervous and restless too often. May likely possess some of the positive traits from the harmonious aspects making them good writers.

Mercury and Venus; the Artistic Mind

Note: Venus can only ever be 78 degrees apart from Mercury. We are always aware of the power of love in our mind, thus they cannot be separated too much. The only major aspects it can make are the conjunction and the sextile. It can make minor aspects semi-sextile (harmonious), quintile (harmonious), and semi-square (inharmonious), but the orbs on them would have to be extremely tight to be noticeable and I have not researched enough on those aspects to feel comfortable spreading too much information on them. You can get a basic idea that the semi-sextile is similar to sextile, but just a minor form of it and a semi-square is similar to the square, but a minor form of it. Quintiles symbolize awareness or lack there of; things we do without realizing. Aaaand I’ve rambled on, but maybe you guys learned something new.

Mercury Conjunct Venus
The mind is very refined and artistic. Soft and charming. Ideas and voice can be almost hypnotizing. Very friendly when unafflicted. Speaks beauty so effortlessly.

Mercury Sextile Venus
Great placement for musicians; it combines the mind with artistic abilities. Very artistic. Friendly, charming, and social, may come off a little fake though.

Mercury and Mars; the Passionate Mind

Mercury Conjunct Mars
Mental process is passionate, aggressive, and fiery (especially if the planets are in fiery signs). Can make the individual sharp tongued, sarcastic, and blunt. When discussing passion for something, the energy is likely to be extremely bold unless other placements can tone down this fiery force.

Mercury Trine/Sextile Mars
Put mind into action. Extremely passionate about their ideas and arguments. They love to argue. The mind seems to always be working. A new day is a new opportunity for these people. Maybe blunt and sarcastic. 

Mercury Square Mars
Hot-tempered, too blunt, and too sarcastic. Must stabilize their animal-like ways to fix aggression. Control the rudeness.

Mercury Opposite Mars

Unlike the square, these people are likely to encounter people like the square especially if the planets are tied to the seventh house; be sure to check all houses though, because, personal houses affect the individual internally whereas a very public house such as the tenth house has to do with aggressive outer forces trying to balance karma again. Great potential and ambition. Passion is still there like the harmonious aspects.

Mercury and Jupiter; the Good Spirited Mind

Mercury Conjunct Jupiter
Jupiter gives the mind some philosophical links. Very generous and jovial. Humorous, optimistic, and intelligent minded. Mind is kind of lazy, may need Mars to give it a push for bigger goals. The mind find interest in literature, art, and religion. Its good nature leads simpleness to the individual’s life, you could even say their life is easy, but it may just be because they hardly wish to act upon big opportunities. They are always quite content.

Mercury Trine/Sextile Jupiter
Very intelligent and wise despite the age the individual may be. Makes for a great teacher. Like the conjunction, strong interests in the areas of literature, art, and religion. May hold strong faith. Contagious optimism.

Mercury Square Jupiter
Good spirited and easy to speak to. The mind tends to procrastinate and be forgetful. Difficulty with rejecting and tend to be “yes-men.” Money smart. Superstition, but skeptical towards religion. If Jupiter lacks good aspects with other personal planets, judgement may be poor. Has a hard time keeping secrets if this aspect is prominent. Difficulty with pulling together mental resources quickly when being questioned or argued with.

Mercury Opposite Jupiter
How this aspect acts will really depend on what signs Mercury and Jupiter are in. It is mental activity versus all areas Jupiter manifests. May be seen as a difficult aspect in fixed signs as it creates stubbornness in the matters of truthfulness. Other than that, it can possess many of the traits the harmonious trine or sextile carries.

Mercury and Saturn; the Serious Mind

Mercury Conjunct Saturn
Very serious, unless Venus or Jupiter loosens the individual. If Saturn is something that is very prominent and persistent in the individual’s chart, they may be gloomy or pessimistic. Deep thinker. Tendency to loneliness if self-centred thoughts are expressed. Make good teachers as they are very orderly and strict. Through hard work, they will see great success. 

Mercury Trine/Sextile Saturn
Practical, intelligent, responsible, ambitious. Likely to have grown up well disciplined. Their minds are very good at absorbing knowledge. Great self control. A favourable aspect to have for good physical health as Saturn gives strength to bones. 

Mercury Square Saturn
A polar opposite to the trine/sextile. May not be so great where education is concerned. The mind is just not very good at absorbing knowledge like the harmonious aspect is. Squares are to teach us to be persistent. Where gaining knowledge is difficult, the individual needs to be patient and overcome this difficulty. Learn how to improve memory skills and studying habits. Avoid depressive thoughts of “I can’t do this” and stay away from bad habits.

Mercury Opposite Saturn
Brings lack of communication and issues from outer forces, especially family and relatives when aspected to the 3rd, 4th, or 7th house. Brings on feelings of being uncared for. Early life is generally unhappy and disrupted where education is concerned, but as they get older, intelligence and success should come their way. Feeling limited is only temporary. If Saturn is prominent in the individual’s chart, they are likely to be very serious and distrusting. 

Mercury and Uranus; the Genius Mind

Mercury Conjunct Uranus
Mercury and Uranus work together like PB & J. You could easily call an individual with this aspect a genius as they can easily come up with new concepts and ideas. Their minds think on a whole other level. Will and mind is strong.

Mercury Trine/Sextile Uranus
Originality and extraordinary intelligence. Inventive, keen, quick minded, especially in air signs. Excellent communicators. Independent and even a bit eccentric. 

Mercury Square Uranus
Although a square, does not lack intelligence. Probably just as original and intelligent as the conjunction, but attitude is somewhere else. Very independent, kind of snappy, sarcastic, and blunt. If lacks harmonious aspects to Venus, they may need to learn how to speech more gently. The independent mastermind, maybe too independent. 

Mercury Opposite Uranus
Needs to control their erratic tendencies as although they can gain some things for this individual, they can also bring sudden loss. By checking what houses are associated with this aspect, you can see where the spontaneous behaviour is being expressed. Nervous and impatient, still opt to be intelligent. 

Mercury and Neptune; the Dreamy Mind

Mercury conjunct Neptune
Of course with such a strong aspect to Neptune, the individual is going to have some difficulty with the reality of things. Fact and myth sometimes just blurs into a singular meaning. If lacks aspects to Saturn, likely to live more in the mythical land versus reality. Romantic and a wishful thinker. Sensitive and psychic. Needs to work on focus. Great aspect for musicians and poets.

Mercury Trine/Sextile Neptune
This quote best describes this placement better than I ever could, “Inspirational, poetic, and creative mind, Aptitude for psychic and mystical fields. Can benefit from dreams and visions. Practical idealist. Is able to use his inspirational powers constructively. Exquisite sensitivity toward the subtler aspects of life. Strong love of the sea and should live near it. Has the ability to contact higher planes of consciousness in sleep and in meditation and bring instruction through to the conscious mind.” - Astrology, A Cosmic Science

Mercury Square Neptune
Again, we are to learn from squares, they build strength. An individual with this aspect needs to learn to focus and take off the rose-filtered glasses. Needs to be more honest and direct. Thoughts need to be more clear. Psychic ability may be there, but also may cause difficulties. Deception brings on more deception; its the way karma works. May be as sneaky as a snake, but karma will get them eventually and it won’t be good. No more lies and unnecessary secretiveness. Truth brings truth.

Mercury Opposite Neptune
Great imagination, but may need to be reminded of what is real. Quite emotional, a lot of mental activity based on emotions. Should be careful of deceptive people; don’t put your guard down. Check what houses are associated with this aspect so you know where the deception could come from. 

Mercury and Pluto; the Perceptive Mind

Mercury Conjunct Pluto
The aspects brings that ability to bring the unconscious mind into thoughts and words. a great aspect for investigators or anything that requires careful research. You could say their mind is very penetrating, it can pierce through the unknown. The individual has to some degree, the power to manipulate. They are very perceptive and know exactly what to say to a person to trigger specific thoughts and emotions. Some individuals may use their ‘powers’ for negative purposes.

Mercury Trine/Sextile Pluto
Similar to the conjunction, but not likely to use their ability to obtain power like the conjunction might. This individual is logical and original. 

Mercury Square Pluto
Skeptical and impatient. May not be as perceptive as the harmonious aspects, so they need to slow down, especially when reading people’s gestures. The obsession for knowing the unknown for power-related reasons is common with this aspect.

Mercury Opposite Pluto
This individual can sometimes be oversensitive. Feels lonely ever when clearly not; lack of contentment in groups of friends. Constantly feeling of needing to self-improve to seek inner contentment. Needs to think carefully before making judgement or decisions. On the positive side, these people have great motivation to their desires. They will work for them.

anonymous asked:

Hey there! The first mafia anon here~ sorry for not specifying but I meant both the mix and match stuff and the specific ideas too. Thank you so much!!

Hola, it’s fine; I just wanted to make sure. On a side note the actual definition of mafia is “an organized international body of criminals, operating originally in Sicily and now especially in Italy and the US and having a complex and ruthless behavioral code.” I’m assuming you aren’t writing specific to Italy or really specific to the actual mafia. More like a very large, powerful, controlling gang right? The post will be tailored to that. Lmk if that’s wrong.

So mix and match stuff-

Setting (cities make the most sense):
- London, England
- New York City, New York
- Chicago, Illinois*
- Detroit, Michigan*
- Tokyo, Japan
- Kingston, Jamaica*
- Miami, Florida
- Acapulco, Mexico*
- Bejing, China
- Vitoria, Brazil*
- Dubai, India
- Los Angeles, California*
- Atlanta, Georgia
- Camden, New Jersey*
- Carcas, Venezuela*

* Astrix= cities I found on Internet lists that have high crime or are gang infested

Location of Headquarters:
- abandoned factory
- underground (i.e. abadoned minimg shafts, sewer)
- mansion
- nondescript, regular house
- house in the forest/isolated
- the level beneath a business (mabe a shady one)

Characters:
- member of the gang
- leader of the gang
- member of another gang that’s in the main gang for spying purposes
- undercover cop in the gang
- witness of gang activity that the gang decides not to kill
- someone who works with the gang but isn’t in it
- victim/ near-victim of the gang
- enemy of the gang
- someone the gang wants to join them
- ex-member of the gang
- kicked out gang member
- a new gang member who has to prove themself
- love interest of a gang member
- relative of a gang member
- detectives/ cops after the gang

Issues the gang faces:
- over-extension, too hard to control such a big area
- a snitch
- lower revenue from illegal activity
- harder to perform illegal activites due to tighter restrictions, authorities taking notice or taking action, etc.
- rival gang(s)
- lack of a good leader, current leader lacks judgement
- hard time recruiting new members
- lack of loyalty
- declining territory

Type of criminal actvity the gang does to gain money:
- drug dealing
- prostitution
- money laundering
- smuggling (weapons, drugs, organs,etc)
- hired hits (like assasinations)
- body disposal
- car theft/ regular theft


Specific ideas-
• a gang member gets caught by the police and rats them out to gain immunity. The gang is out to get the snitch for revenge, so the snitch gets help from an ex-gang member to escape

• a gang is having issues with loyalty. The leader decided to make all new recruits and people with questionable loyalty do a series of risky acts to gain to earn trust

• (warning: cliche) the undercover cop/ spy from a differnt gang falls for the gang leader and tries to protect him or her

• a gang obtains organs in the black market. They organize operations for the people who need the organs, but in order for the person to obtain the organ+surgery, they have to provide the gang with something/ someone of value

• ^ elaborating, the relative of a person in need of a life saving procedure is traded to the gang in return for the organ. The relative that now belongs to the gang has skills the gang needs (like hacking). The relative is determined to get revenge on the family member that sold them out, and to escape the gang

• a witness of the gang’s activity is kidnapped by the gang to prevent the witness from going to the police. The gang members warm up to the witness, and the witness rises in popularity and gains some trust. Despite the gang’s no kill policy, the witness discovers much more awful things going on behind the scenes

• a hired, professional hitman for the gang notices a pattern to their victims. They have a change of heart, and work to save the people on the hit list from the replacement assasin

• a person joins the gang for safety purposes, unbeknownst to the gang who thinks they’re gaining a regular recruit. Later, the gang realizes why the person was in need of their protection, and immediately regrets taking them in.

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Jack came home from college at 4:30 AM this morning. Why that time? Don’t know. Roads are awful so that trip showed a lack of good judgement in more ways than one.

Garage door opens. Oliver wakes me with his barking. Oliver investigates, sees it is someone who lives here at times, and continues to bark which irritates Jack. I’d say that serves Jack right. Only problem is now I’m awake too.

After a while I get dressed for the day because I can’t fall back to sleep. Jack soon goes to bed. Only now does Ella come downstairs. She was too cozy snuggled up against my wife to bother checking who was opening the garage at 4:30 AM. Yes, yes Ella, Oliver has this covered.

Now there’s some serious barking. Ella is much louder than Oliver. She’s at the sliding glass door, going nuts. In the time from when Jack got home and I got up he made a snowman. Kids! Ella is protecting me from Frosty the Intruder.

I hope she woke up Jack.

laughing at people saying steve “ruined the season”

Originally posted by okolivertrask

Originally posted by i-am-vegas

it isn’t a single moment that ruins a season or defines a season. there are a lot of variables that have to come together to really make a season truly terrible. People seem to hate this season because Vanessa manipulated every eviction and if you are upset about it then wouldn’t Vanessa be ruining the season? I don’t get the logic that Steve has ruined the season…. I thought it was a joke at first but it looks like some of you are actually serious. Are you really that reactive? 

Originally posted by bricesander

Originally posted by librathompson

Originally posted by thedavonnecicode

that being said, I don’t even think either Steve or Vanessa are ruining the season. I like how the power shifts every week. It makes it not as predictable. the constant threat of Vanessa being evicted by her own “alliance” is hilarious. Her getting out of it because some of these houseguests’ lack of good judgement is so enjoyable. It’s great tv to me. It would be so boring to watch one side winning week after week. 

I’m sure most of you are just saying this as a joke and trust me I pick up on those people who are just being dramatic for fun. But if you TRULY believe Steve alone during DE ruined the season….To those people, “don’t worry someone else will make you unnecessarily angry soon so calm down”.