“I don’t mind being friends with gay guys if they never hit on me”

“I’m pretty sure everyone that’s bi is just confused”

“Lesbians have it easiest cause guys think they’re really hot”

Things I wish I learned in Sex Ed.

1. All labia are fine. There is not such thing as “freaky labia”
2. Your vagina takes care of itself, warm water is fine to clean.
3. The clitoris is a magical thing
4. The best way to understand your genetalia to poke around a bit down there, your vagina wont bite.
5. Whatever you decide to do with your body is OK.

What I learned in Sex Ed.
1. The vagina is shaped like the Chicago Bulls
2. Sperm will find you.


I’m briefly on MTV’s Braless where trans men and passing trans masculine folx explain male privlege.

I keep seeing this gif of lacigreen

and I just want to punch her in the face so fucking bad. Not because of “internalized misogyny” or because she calls herself a feminist. Let me explain.

My father broke up two separate marriages with his infidelity and I was one of the children in both of those families. I’m willing to bet Laci wasn’t a child of divorce (let alone two divorces) and didn’t experience the emotional pain of home-wrecking from a child’s perspective. I bet she never had to wait up at night when she was sick to see if her father was coming home from work to take care of her, or if he was staying out with some random floozie. I bet she was never physically threatened, as a 14-year old girl, by her father’s side bitch for being concerned about the well-being of her family. “Wrecking homes” actually wrecks families and is hell for everyone involved, except, of course, the home-wrecker.

What really worries me the most is how many young girls look up to these “feminists” who have no respect for the people around them. Laci Green is showing those young girls, through talking so smugly about destroying three families, that it’s empowering to ruin what someone else has for your own selfish sexual desires.

To me, Laci is no better than the whores women who have been sleeping with my dad through his marriages, knowing he’s a married man with children. I have zero fucking respect for this cunt.

I know she won’t respond to this, even if this does manage to make its way to her dash (I’m not getting my hopes up), but I feel like this is something to spread around a bit. Home-wrecking ruins lives, this is absolutely not something she should be glorifying.

So a friend I have on facebook posted this last night and I have been arguing against it all morning. I explained the implications of calling a woman a slut and not to my surprise mostly women were fighting against my points. It’s just so messed up because women calling other women sluts only makes it ok for men to call women sluts.

So this is the majority of my points:

“I guess I really disagree with this whole concept of slut. I don’t even know what defines a slut. I also disagree that women that "sleep around with men” have no self respect. I know plenty of people who don’t sleep with anyone and have no self respect. How many people a person has sex with does that equate to how much self-respect a woman (or person for that matter) has. I wish people would stop assuming that a someone’s sex life relates to how they perceive themselves. Also she just may like sex. What’s wrong with that? Sex is fun and I don’t see why they can’t choose what to do with their body without people’s ridicule. As long as it it’s safe than why do we put ourselves in it? It’s their personal sex life"

Then someone told me I should quit facebook so I didn’t “have” to see this stuff (like it isn’t everywhere…)

then I put “I like seeing people’s viewpoint and I like fighting back against the sex negative culture and slut shaming. I don’t want to hide. I know this is everywhere and that is sad to me but I’m not about to bury my head in the sand. There are also many who do agree with me and I hope when I have children we will live in a more sex positive world.”

These debates are great even if I’m out numbered. I am finding my voice and what’s important to me.  I feel passionate about something and I want to continue to share my voice and hopefully this will help me realize my place in the world. 

If you don’t respect sluts, you don’t respect women"


Also one of the women made this about how people cheat on each other and the only way to ensure people wouldn’t would be with encouraging slut shaming. Still have no idea where she was coming from.
I Stand with Laci Green

I am disgusted and revolted at what Laci Green has gone through on this website. 

If you are reading this, and you have sent her threats know that you are filthy vile human being and that you are not a feminist or a feminist ally. 

Feminists don’t threaten or stalk women on the internet. 

You are not doing anything to further social justice in the world. 

I am tempted to leave this website and never look back, that’s how revolted I am with all of this. 

If you truly cared about social justice, you would step back from your computer and do something about it. Social justice is not just winning points on the internet with a select group of people.  

You make the work the rest of us do harder, you are keeping social justice from being had. 

You are disgusting. 


Fighting Sexism on YouTube - VidCon 2014

Hell yeah! (Thanks to elprofealexaral for linking me to the upload and Adam for filming it)



“When I say virginity is bullshit and socially constructed do I mean it’s not really a real thing that affects people? Of course not. What I am saying is that to me is that I don’t think it should be. And I think about the way I was taught to think about my "virginity” and to think about other people’s “virginity” as a measure of their value to think of penis and vagina sex as some kind of special magical sex that has the power to change you more than any other sexual act… when I think about how that title has so much power it pisses me off. I would argue that we shouldn’t use virginity as a status symbol…. And instead of saying “losing your virginity” I like to call it “your sexual debut”.“

I can not explain how much I love Laci Green but she is fucking fantastic.