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Favorite Daddy Phrases

Questions:

~Who’s in charge?
~Who owns you?
~What did I say?
~Do I make myself clear?
~Do you remember your rules?
~Do you need to be punished?
~What did you just say?
~Are you going to be a good girl?
~Who’s my good girl?
~Who do I love the most?
~How’s my little girl?
~What’s my little girl doing?
~Are you in little space?
~What are you coloring/drawing?
~How are your stuffies?
~Can Daddy join?
~Are you taking care of yourself?
~Have you eaten enough?
~Are you drinking enough?
~Have you taken your meds?
~Are you ready for bed?
~Are you snuggled in bed?

Commands:

~Listen to Daddy
~Don’t disobey Daddy
~Do it for Daddy
~Be a good girl
~Speak up
~Use your words
~Stay close to Daddy
~Be safe
~Show Daddy what you’re wearing
~Show Daddy your favorite little outfits
~Show Daddy your coloring/drawing
~Show Daddy your favorite stuffies
~Tell Daddy about your day
~Go to bed, princess
~Close your eyes, baby

Reassurance:

~Good girl
~You’re such a good girl
~I’m so proud of you!
~You did such a good job!
~I love you so much
~You’re my one and only
~I only want you
~I’m not going anywhere
~I promise
~You’re such a cutie!
~My little girl
~Daddy loves when you’re in little space
~You make Daddy so happy!

Pet Names:

~Kitten
~Princess
~Babe
~Baby
~Baby Girl
~Little Girl
~Little One
~Angel
~Bunny
~Love
~Lovie
~Sweetie
~Sweetheart
~My Future Wife
~Wifey
~My Nerd
~My Dork
~My Girl
~My One and Only

Being Little: Nicknames

These are just a couple nicknames that are not meant for a specific gender, nor are they for everyone!

Nicknames:
~Angel
~Babe
~Baby
~Baby Boy
~Baby Cakes
~Baby Doll
~Baby Girl
~Bambi
~Bat
~Bear
~Beautiful
~Boo
~Brat
~Bunny
~Buttercup
~Cookie
~Cuddle Bug
~Cupcake
~Cutie
~Cutie Pie
~Cutie Patoot(ie)
~Darling
~Dear
~Deary
~Doe
~Doll
~Dove
~Dumpling
~Everything
~Flower
~Fox
~Fruit Loop
~Gorgeous
~Gumdrop
~Handsome
~Honey
~Honey Bun
~Hun
~Jelly Bean
~Kiddo
~Kitten
~Kitty
~Lamb
~Lamb Chop
~Little
~Little Boy
~Little Girl
~Little One
~Love
~Lovely
~Lovie
~Muffin
~My Everything
~My One and Only
~My Love
~My World
~Num Nums
~Other Half
~Pancake
~Panda
~Peach
~Peanut
~Pet
~Prince
~Princess
~Pooh
~Pookie
~Precious
~Pudding
~Pumpkin
~Puppy
~Rose
~Smoochie
~Snuggles
~Star
~Sugar
~Sunflower
~Sunshine
~Sweetheart
~Sweetie
~Teddy Bear
~Tiger
~Tinkerbell
~Tootsie
~Wolfie

Calls with Daddy: After a Busy Schedule

*Finally calling after not being able to because Daddy was busy moving and stuff*

Daddy: Hi princess!

Me: DADDY!!

Daddy: Hi baby!

Me: I MISSED YOU!!!

Daddy: Hmm… Did you???

Me: YES!!!

Daddy: I dunno baby, maybe you didn’t

Me: I DID!!!

Daddy: I don’t think so

Me: YESSS!!!!!!

Daddy: I guess I will just leave because my baby girl didn’t miss meeeeeeee

Me: *gasps* DADDY NOO YOU CAN’T LEAVE!!!

Daddy: *gasps* Why is that princess?

Me: That would be a breach in the contract!!

Daddy: What contract is that, little one?

Me: The verbal agreement to which you are not to leave me!

Daddy: Umhm, and what are the punishments?

Me: … The office is closed. We will find these files later

Daddy: Oh? So I can leave until the office opens?

Me: No!! Then I will sue you for emotional distress in Little Court!!

Daddy: We would not go to Little Court, as the stuffie jury would just go in favor of you

Me: *huffs* Then I will take you to Daddy Court with the coffee cup jury!

Me: Umhm, and you’re suing me for what?

Me: Emotional distress, as it’s bad for the baby.

Daddy: …Uh… what baby??

Me: I’m the baby!!

Daddy: *tries very hard to not crack up* is that so??

Me: Yes that is so.

Daddy: *laughs* I guess I’ll have to stay then!

Me: Good, because I missed you.

Daddy: I missed you too, princess

Me: *giggles* I love you!!!

Daddy: I love you too!

Rules and Punishments: Ideas

These are just some ideas that I’ve seen around, people have mentioned, or I personally have for rules and punishments. They do not apply to everyone nor do you have to use any of the ones listed. You can change them to be as specific or as broad as you would like. (i.e. The duration of punishment, time of day when the rules or punishments take place, the level of severity of punishment per broken rule, ext.) Please remember that the rules and punishments are to be agreed upon by other parties. If you do not feel comfortable with a rule or punishment, please let your partner know. The term I used in this post can be replaced with what ever term you feel most comfortable with.
(These are only SFW Rules and Punishments)

Rules:
~Always ask permission before doing anything that could be dangerous
~Always ask permission before drinking any alcohol or soda
~Always ask permission before eating sweets/desserts/junk food
~Always listen to Caregiver
~Ask before having sweets
~Ask before buying toys/nonessentials
~Ask to stay up past your time
~Be careful when using the oven/stove
~Be honest when upset
~Bedtime is 10/11 pm
~Block anyone who is disrespectful/inappropriate/mean/rude to you
~Caregiver knows what is best for you (most of the time ;))
~Caregiver’s word is final
~Check in throughout the day even if you do not feel like it
~Clean the dishes
~Clean up any mess you make
~Clean your room when it gets messy
~Do laundry/fold and put away clothes
~Do not curse/keep it to a minimal
~Do not disobey Caregiver
~Do not ignore Caregiver even if you are upset
~Do not let anyone take advantage of you
~Do not lie to Caregiver
~Do not purposely start fights with others
~Do not roll your eyes at Caregiver
~Do not sass/back talk Caregiver
~Do not text and drive
~Do your chores daily
~Do your homework/work before doing fun things
~Drink about 64 ounces of water a day (about eight 8 oz glasses of water)
~Eat protein
~Eat fruits and veggies everyday
~Exercise daily
~Give Caregiver your full attention when they are speaking to you
~Get enough sleep
~Hold Caregiver’s hand when you are out and about and wen crossing the street
~If you are spending time with friends, tell Caregiver who they are and where you will be and what you will be doing
~If you hurt yourself in anyway, tell Caregiver right away
~Keep a food diary
~Look both ways before crossing the street
~Make sure bills are paid
~Make your bed daily
~No being grumpy
~No coffee after 7 PM
~No going to bed upset
~No harming self
~No purging after eating
~No sweets after 8 PM
~Little outfits are only for Caregiver
~Send Caregiver a daily photo of myself
~Set the table
~Show Caregiver crafts
~Show Caregiver what you’re wearing everyday/before you leave into the public
~Take care of Pets
~Take care of yourself (personal hygiene)
~Take meds every day
~Tell Caregiver everything
~Tell Caregiver if someone or something makes you scared/uncomfortable/worried/etc.
~Tell Caregiver if someone tries anything with you
~Tell Caregiver if you are having a bad day
~Tell Caregiver if you break a rule
~Tell Caregiver is anything happens
~Tell Caregiver when you are sick
~Tell Caregiver who you belong to, owns you, etc.
~Treat Caregiver with respect
~Treat yourself with respect
~Use your manners/being polite (Please, thank you, etc.)
~When Caregiver says no, they mean no

Punishments:
~A scolding
~Anything else Caregiver sees fit
~Being grounded
~Early bedtime
~Extra chores
~No bubbles or the toys when taking a bath
~No bedtime story
~No call/video
~No computer time
~No game app(s)
~No going out
~No photos of Caregiver
~No social media
~No sticker (for reward chart/general)
~No sweets/desserts
~No toy(s)
~No tv/movies/YouTube/etc.
~No video game(s)
~No wearing Caregiver’s clothes
~Not being able to talk for a certain period of time
~Spankings
~Timeout
~Writing an apology letter to Caregiver for what rule you broke
~Writing lines

Punishments that are NEVER okay:
~Anything nonconsensual
~Anything you or your little do not feel comfortable with
~Belittling your little’s feelings about ANYTHING
~Destroying your little’ confidence
~Forcing your little to do something they are uncomfortable with
~Giving your little the “silent treatment”
~Ignoring your little for ANY period of time
~Not letting your little take care of their necessary/basic needs (eating, going to the bathroom, sleeping, etc.)
~Punishing your little because you want to even if they did nothing wrong
~Telling your little you do not love them anymore/you do not want them anymore
~Using your little as an outlet for your anger (hitting or spanking them because you are angry at something else)