I'm interested in what you think Jamie's flaws are KW. Should be interesting. Also, agree about the husband thing. Mine is a really good man and loved by everybody. Problem is I always feel like I come last because he is there for everyone. Makes me selfish I guess but I do know that since finding the show and starting reading the books there is something major I don't have in marriage and that is the passion. The unquenchable need of each other that Jamie and Claire have and I want, need that.