Found this and I was so applaud of how people are starting to realize how that supposed “compliment” isn’t a compliment. Stop saying this ignorant mess to black girls and expect them to respond with a nice gesture. Because you’re basically insinuating that her race is too ugly to have made something so pretty alone. Yeah, it’s not so sweet anymore now is it?
Saying she’s pretty for a black girl is not a compliment. Asking if she is mixed is not a compliment. Saying she’s the prettiest “dark” or “light” skin you have ever seen is not a compliment. Saying she’s just pretty IS a compliment.