kill things you dont like

Okay, here’s the thing, fuck all writing advice that tells you how to do your story or write your scenes, because guess what! THEY ARE NOT THE ONE’S WRITING THE STORY!!! I can not stress this enough, you are the one with the vision for how YOUR story is supposed to go. Only you know how to tell this story. Only you. Fuck anyone who’s like “Prologues are bad, blah, blah blah,” “Don’t kill your main character off early, I feel cheated, blah, blah, blah” or “Starting off with a dream sequence makes me feel like I’ve been lied to” GUESS WHAT ASSHOLES THAT’S WHAT YOU’RE SUPPOSED TO FEEL LIKE, WE WRITE THINGS TO INVOKE A FEELING, BE IT GOOD OR BAD, ITS A FEELING TO GET YOU TO UNDERSTAND HOW THE CHARACTERS FEEL DUMBASS

I don’t love him. I hate that i don’t love him like i do you. But he’s not you and he never will be.
—  D.


to be fair so far anyone whos managed to kill robyn has gotten her eternal grudging respect. she would do anything for temerity, for example,

ghostllee she recognizes them as an equal to be feared

ghostllee fucking rip, robyn


so the “dirk and john kill each other” thing is like, stale and exhausted and you dont see it any more for a few good reasons. first off weve done it so many times its not funny anymore - most people who ship dirkjohn jumped on board for the jokes, and then we got too deep in and we like to think about them having, like, an actual relationship, without fighting. “dirk and john kill each other” isnt the dirkjohn brand any more, its “depressed aimless dudes working through compulsory heterosexuality together”. and i know a few people who have ALWAYS been uncomfortable with the violence premise. its a good thing to move away from.

i would also argue that the comparison is apples and oranges - one is “two people meet by getting into a fight, and then they get to know each other better and overcome their conflict, and then they start dating”. whereas the other is “two people have a messy breakup; one of them tries to move on with his life and see other people, and the other gets jealous and doesnt let him do that”. right? the resolution to the conflict is built into one but not the other. nobody writes physical violence into dirk and johns relationship AFTER they start dating. its a meet cute.

jealousy HAPPENS in relationships, its a normal human emotion, i think two people talking honestly about jealousy and feelings of insecurity is a great groundwork for a dirkjake fic. but the premise isnt “dirk and jake have a frank conversation about why jealousy is bad”, right? its “jake is jealous and thats a good thing”.

anyway! feel free to screencap this and pass it around your discord servers to talk about how im a buttmad shipper or whatever, as i know youve done before and will continue to do. its just kind of heartbreaking to see all the people who supported me when i said “hey dirkjake isnt abusive” turn around and talk about how romantic abusive dirkjake is. im not interested in calling anybody out or whatever, i know people internalize these fake ideals about relationships and it takes a lot of work to sort out whats healthy and whats not. its hard

better ideas for your female heroine than having her be brutalized by the male villain and almost killed without doing anything to defend herself despite the fact that she has superpowers just so the male hero can develop in his personal arc: literally anything else but this

I just randomly realized that I have to draw Vee looking like a guy in school from now on just to stop people from questioning me wow.

i took some of her posts and made this. also, did you notice that she was posting many photos/etc about sailor moon? she was like her, she was fighting, she was so brave and so kind

anonymous asked:

I'm a Straight Boy... But I hate sexting, and my gf doesn't. It makes me uncomfortable, and I'm afraid of telling her, or her thinking less of me.

She won’t think less of you! Just be honest! A relationship is about honesty and communication and feeling comfortable. just tell her how you feel bro


This is why i don’t have a girlfriend. 

anonymous asked:

if you're from the US and you don't know the difference between a college and a university... just... go drown yourself.

and who are you to tell people what they should and shouldn’t know? just cause somebody doesn’t know something doesnt mean you have the right to tell them to kill themselves? i guarantee you theres things that you dont know so stop acting like you know everything and sit down