To anybody who is struggling, I give you this advice.
There’s never going to be an all-around label that you can wear like a badge that will describe you completely. Nobody can fit under one stereotype and not have pieces of you left over that you’ve yet to describe. My biggest advice; do what you feel is true. Not right, not what’s socially acceptable or politically correct. It is so much easier and way less stressful to just do as you feel and leave how others feel for later. You’re never going to find yourself if you keep letting other people tell you what to do with your life. And, even though it’s extremely cliche, I’m still going to say it. Just be you.