just-bc-you-dont

really makes me uneasy when people who aren’t traumatized tell you “it’s never gonna happen again” bc:

1. it happens again daily in my head
2. where are you gonna be if it does happen again

it just seems like a very invalidating thing to say that’s all

amami’s real talent is actually the shsl tearista 

its been so long but im still trying to figure out how you could go from “i love you” to “i don’t care about you anymore” in such a short amount of time

i can’t wait until kun debuts so him and winwin can rule the world and be the power couple they once were… you will all see, you will all open your eyes

if someone tells you not to touch them, don’t touch them. 

if someone tells you not to yell at them, don’t yell at them. 

if someone tells you not to tickle them, don’t tickle them. 

if someone tells you not to do something, don’t do it. 

it’s really not that complicated. respect their boundaries. they don’t have to explain why they have them. they don’t even have to be polite when they tell you not to do something. respect. people’s. boundaries. 

you know how sometimes you’re having a bad day or an okay day but then someone does something nice for you and you just smile for a long time?? i want to be someone who makes other smile like that

  • me: you're not abusive if you are (lists a symptom of a mental illness)
  • some NT fuck on tumblr dot com: why are you saying that people with (mental illness) are excused from being abusive?? people with (mental illness) can be abusive just as much as normal people can!! (mental illness) does not excuse you from being abusive!!
  • me: *looks into the camera like im on the office*

i hate when people on tumblr just say shit like “just surround yourself with positive people!!!! dont keep negative people in your life!!!!” like it’s not easy to just drop friends you’ve known for years and magically find a new gang of friends that you can trust so stop making it sound so simple

  • me: im really lonely and i rly want to feel validated and i want attention!!
  • not my favorite person: omg i love you!! you matter!! do you want to talk?
  • me: noT FROM YOU GO AWAY I HATE YOU!!

life’s too short to pretend you hate everything/everyone bc it’s the cool thing to do

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I love this teasing tone Peggy uses with Angie sometimes (◡‿◡✿)

wait what-

tbh i found this fascinating lol bcs a non-fan almost believed that theyre actually together, THUS PROVING that im not being delusional😂

Happy Birthday to the newest member, Rayvis Harneit!