just wanted to know what you think of it

To all those who think Tony lives in a mess, I’m telling you he has the most organized mess you’ll ever see. He knows where his things are and that’s all that matters to the need. I know that fandom has this opinion that he would be hopeless or helpless without people reminding him to eat, reminding him of his schedule and such but again, remember that this man has an almost eidetic memory. He remembered quotes, comments, faces, tattoos - he remembers probably more than necessary at times. He just chooses what he wants to remember. And he has snacks everywhere, he makes his own smoothies, he eats when he’s hungry. He’s not helpless or unable to exist without people helping him.

anonymous asked:

Can ADHD feel like your brain needs glasses? Like, when you need glasses you can see, but the picture is blurry. So like, your brain works and you know what do you want but it's just... not sharp? Is it a way to describe what ADHD feels like?

Wow, that is actually a really fantastic analogy! I can definitely relate, as both a glasses-user and an ADHDer.

Followers, what do you think?

-J

llyesterdat  asked:

Just a thought: I think Shizuka is 12 in stone ocean. Do you think she learned to control her stand? I really want to know what happened to her after part 4. All we know is that Joseph took her to new york.

I would also like an official Shizuka update! (ノ°□°)╯彡 ┻━┻   I think she’s been given pointers about how to control her stand from Joseph (hopefully he’s not totally senile lol) or when Jotaro or Josuke visits. But I also think her stand is still attached to her emotions since she’s a growing stand user. (◕ω◕✿) Her story should definitely start with her in New York, though!

The Real You

Summary: Ever since you joined the Avengers, you felt the need to keep to yourself. The Avengers were Earth’s Mightiest Heroes, so a lot was riding on what they thought of you. However, when you bump into an old friend of yours at a gala event, your facade breaks. Let’s see what the Avengers actually think of the real you.

Author’s Note: Another throwback. I wrote this back in January 9th, 2016. Let me know if you want a continuation.

Pairing: Avengers x Reader

Words: 1,326

Originally posted by skylerlockerbie

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Would you mind driving us?

A/N: Y’all I finally finished. I changed the beginning at least a thousand times and it still kind of sucks so please just bare with me. Hope you like it, feedback is greatly appreciated (seriously I’m new at this I need to know what y’all think). 

Also I suck at titles just pretend it’s something good.

word count: 1,504


Being a shy girl with a quiet voice you never really tell people your dreams and you were used to people setting your path for you. You always followed, never led. Exciting things never happened to you, which made a warm evening in early August that much more special.

Your friend forced you to go to a party with her and as much as you hated it, you still said yes. You didn’t want to let anyone down. You never did.

‘It’s going to be another long night of listening to loud music and watching drunk people make out in front of me.’ you thought to yourself. But you still went, for at least it made your friend happy.

You looked at yourself in the mirror one last time to make sure there wasn’t any lipstick on your teeth, because God knows you were always that one girl.

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anonymous asked:

I have a legit question for you. I don't mean this in a hateful or negative way I just really want to know your opinion on this. Since in the american military you can not enlist if you have any type of diabetes or any form of mental illness. So why are people so outraged that trans people who experience higher rates of mental health issues can't enlist? Again I'm not trying to spread hate I just want to know what your opinion is on this and maybe help me understand.

ok so…i don’t wanna start a debate so this’ll probably be the only other message i answer concerning this, but there’s like a million things wrong with that logic. i’m just gonna tell you right now that absolutely no one is thinking by that logic, and doing so is just providing thinly veiled transphobia trying to justify the seizure of trans people’s rights. (not accusing you of being transphobic, but that’s just the way it comes across. it’s grasping at straws, honestly.)

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anonymous asked:

i follow a couple dnp "flop" accounts on instagram (not because i don't like dan and phil, i jus wanna read some tea) but how do you feel about so many people saying that dan and phil constantly queerbait for views? and that if you think they are together you're "delusional"? i don't believe that but i just want to know your opinion.

i think people do not understand what real queerbaiting is if they think dan and phil do that. if you’re watching because you think something gay is going to happen…. that’s sort of the wrong reason to watch dan and phil in the first place. they don’t ‘act’ gay.. because they literally experience same gender attraction. that’s all

The Voicemail

Summary: Steve gets a voicemail from a quite drunk you.

WC: 944

Warnings: Alcohol pretty much. 

A/N: Wowww it’ s been a while since I wrote something. I’m really rusty, but I hope you enjoy nonetheless and let me know what you think :D

Originally posted by beardedchrisevans


“Hello? It’s me. I was- I’m probably going to regret this in the morning but I was just thinking and drinking a little tonight you popped into my head. You know how it is. But anyway, I wanted to check up on you since we haven’t spoken to each other in a while. Looking back on it, we had a good thing goin’ and I don’t really know what happened. Was it me? Did I do something? Actually, cross that. Don’t answer that because that’s an entirely different conversation.

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Important lessons from life drawing

I was thinking about what life drawing can teach me and if I need it and why. Actually those are valid questions to ask. We shouldn’t just do thing because someone says so. We should be able to understand how things we do affects us and how it will be useful for our work. We should know If we can improve and how from the experience. If you want life drawing to help you develop your skills you need to identify your problems firsts. But the usual problems of many artists are the fear of drawing, fear of failing, putting too much pressure on making the perfect picture. In the end artists don’t even start drawing and have problems with coming up with ideas from imagination.I found a perfect solution in life drawing and I want to share why I think so and how it helps me personally.

  1. The most important reason is overcoming the fear of drawing. It helps me with starting and not putting too much thought into drawing. It puts me in the moment and forcing me to stop hesitating. I need to stop being shy about putting lines on paper, especially when the subject are people. It takes me out of my comfort zone that is in front of computer. It’s challenging to go outside and draw in the middle of crowded coffee shop. I will just draw without thinking just to be over with it. The most important would be produce finished piece, not the most perfect image ever. Also I would advice to pick a tool that you can’t erase. Be aware that you can’t undo the lines and be confident about that. My tool of choice are ink and markers.
  2. It will make you work faster. You will need to find shortcuts when you draw because people won’t pose for you 30 mins. Sometimes it will be just 10 sec to get the image so the trick is to see and understand the gesture and then draw it without the model. If you can’t get the result right so quickly you will be forced to look for tricks how to be most efficient with lines. How to use just most essential lines to portray someone or something. You will start noticing what is the most important. I would say this is pretty advanced thing right here. If you will practice that you will be way faster with your drawings and it will help you in your professional career.
  3. It will give you greater understanding of perspective and spatial awareness. I think we all understand that those are basic things in drawing. Putting things right in perspective. identifying horizon line and vanishing points, 2 and 3 point perspective. I would guess it’s one of the hardest things to learn and artists usually try to avoid it. We shouldn’t avoid hard things. How much better the image looks when you add perspective to it.
  4. You will understand objects in space which will help you translate 3D objects to paper. Photo references are already 2D images, your brain doesn’t have to figure out how to translate object into flat piece of paper. You need to do the hard work yourself and figure out how, with just lines, you will get the image that has depth. If you get that then the next step would be that you will be able to look at one object and imagine it from different angles and points of view. If you get that then you will be pretty good at drawing from imagination.

So now when you have all the reasons above what you can do ?  What I would do is I would prepare one sketchbook that I have just for the life drawing sessions and I would put a deadline on it. I would say that I need to fill that sketchbook in 30 days. The challenge here is to try and draw every day to observe how your confidence will change during that time. In the beginning you will struggle of course, but try to overcome the fear. Don’t think too much and push yourself. I promise it will be better and you will gain confidence. You already starting to stimulate your brain into right direction.  Confidence will show in your sketches if you continue to do it for 30 days straight. Line quality will go up. It will help you will all basics. Just think how great it will be to compare first picture to the last one. Perhaps some of you will be in the mood to continue everyday life drawing. I can guarantee that you will end up with better skills than before you started and it will be great remedy for some artist problems.

anonymous asked:

I'm in love with your illustrations and would like to know if you have any words for an artist who's trying to embrace their style? I've spent so much time trying to draw and create art that I think people want to see and not what comes naturally. It's sad to look through sketchbooks of art that I feel like isn't even mine; not in the sense of art theft, just forced and lacking life.

Hey! I’m so sorry it took me ages to answer this; my inbox is a jungle. I’ve struggled with this same thing in the past. I think that, while it’s important to have stylistic flexibility and to be able to adapt to what people want from you (if you’re looking to become a professional artist), it’s even more important that you’re also creating the kind of artwork you want to see.

 At least in my experience, if you’re just going through the motions and creating art that you think other people want, in a style that’s forced and unnatural for you, you’ll never really feel fulfilled by it and that will hold you back as an artist (and stress you out!) There’s something that matters to you and comes naturally, artistically–something that you love, and because you love it, you’re somebody who can end up doing it justice. 

Definitely experiment with unfamiliar styles and subject matter–it’s important to push yourself to grow as an artist–but also remember what made you love art in the first place and focus on exploring the ideas and styles that mean something to you and feel natural. There are going to be people who will see that passion and love your unique approach, even if they don’t find you right away. There have been times (so many, haha) when people were turned off by my art because they didn’t like the subject matter or style, and often I’ve heard that I’d be so much better if I just drew <insert thing they like> instead. If I’d let that change me and started just doing what other people expected, I’d be making some boring-ass art right now.

 Sorry–that’s a bunch of rambling that may not even answer your initial question, but I hope it’s helpful somehow. Good luck to you!  ♡

roommates BTS season 2

So 5:00 JK literally cheers that JM flicked it off the table like JK did moments before (this is for who roomates with who).  RM and V do theirs and JK plays with his hair looks disinterested, now RM and JM would be roomates if JK doesn’t do something about it, JK continues to play with his hair(nervous). RM  says JK should rid himself of greed and flick light.  Like what exactly does that mean??? Does RM think he is going to purposely flick hard so he comes in last being greedy keeping JM to himself….or that JK usually wins and doesn’t want him to win(even though he has lost the entire trip unlike his usual self) and then at 6:19 every single member knew exactly what he just did, JK turns to jimin and Jin looks at JM with a knowing look and JK walks off with the biggest happiest grin on his face. 6:22 V you know giving a little knowing pervy smile too!  

kaitrionabalfe  asked:

i've always wanted to know how the stones work! i assume we figure it out in the later books, but i'd love to see a cliff-notes version of what is known! i think why i'm so confused is because claire travelled through three without doing much of anything (the first was an accident!!). and i know she didn't sacrifice anything any of the three times... i'm just so confused and need clarification (or claire-ification, if you will). sorry if this is kind of all over the place, lol.

Here are my ideas, in no particular order:

  • The stones mark passages - they’re not the time traveling vehicle, rather, they mark where it is possible to travel
  • Traveling is easiest during one of the pagan feasts (i.e., Samhain, Beltane) or the solstice/equinox
  • Gemstones make the travel easier, especially when not traveling during the times described above
  • Blood/fire sacrifices also help (i.e., RIP Greg Edgars)
  • There is a genetic component to the ability to travel - to hear the stones, and to feel heat in gemstones. Hence Jem and Mandy are “supercharged” when it comes to time traveling ability
  • Having a particular person in mind can help “steer” a traveler (e.g., Claire thinking of Jamie, Brianna thinking of Claire)

@lenny9987 @abreathofsnowandashes and anyone else - anything to add?

anonymous asked:

i'm so afraid i'm faking my attraction to women and it makes me so anxious idk what to do :/

i know there isnt much i can do through a computer but just think about girls. think about how soft they are and how much they make you smile and how they make you feel and just breath. you arent faking it. you are real, you are valid and you’re going to be okay. self doubt is sadly normal and i want you to know you are so so real. i love you and so do so many other wlw in our community. you belong here 

princekierz  asked:

Well, Cassie did said The Wicked Powers would change the way Shadowhunters sees the world so if this doesn't mean they losing all parabatai bonds...

Oh I really hope it doesn’t. I don’t think I would bear it. I want blackstairs to be canon as much as the next person, but not if it means breaking the strongest, purest, and one of the most sacred magical bonds the shadowhunters know. 

Can you imagine what it would be like, losing half of your soul just because one teenager boy went overhead for the love of his life? – don’t get me wrong here, I don’t think Julian’s feelings for Emma are anything less that real, strong, and unbearably powerful and hearbreaking, but I think breaking every single parabatai bond for two people who can’t be together is too much. 

So it is a possibility, but I really, really hope you’re wrong.

me: hey maybe chill with the harassment and accusations and discuss things you don’t like as reasonable people tend to do

an angry goblin with 25000 posts in #su critical and mutuals with kirbylesbian, walking out of a cupboard in my own home: is that it? is that your opinion? you think that things you don’t like are just immune to criticism? above my sharp wit? armored from my trenchant insight? you are saying that no one is ever allowed to discuss any kind of media, forever, at all? you want critique l’artistique to just not be a thing any more?

me: you know what? yeah

Gardenia: No, I guess they don’t have to be two separate things. I do have feelings for you too. I just didn’t want to get hurt again. I don’t think you’d hurt me though. I-I trust you, and that’s not something I thought I’d feel. I believe you, but it’s almost too good to be true. You really do like me?

Laila: Yes, Gardenia, I really do like you, a lot. I’m glad that you feel like you can trust me after everything that happened in your last relationship.

Gardenia: I think maybe it’s better this way. I was afraid at first I was getting swept up in things, but I know you. I know what you’re like. You’ve been there for me. You’ve been honest and open, and you’ve been patient with me. I think that I’m ready to open myself up again. I just have to ask one question, does this mean you’ll be my girlfriend?

Laila smiled and took her hand.

Laila: Yes, I would be honored to be your girlfriend. Now what do you say to us having a proper first kiss? One where we’re both sure of where we stand.

Gardenia: I’d really like that. Kissing you was nice. I’d like to do it again now that I’m not so scared anymore.

anonymous asked:

I hate having trangenderism cisplained to me by my mom whenever I try to come out to her. "No no, sweetie, I read around on the internet, and a real trans sees themselves as another gender since childhood, and you were fine with being called a she back then. You're just gay." And I just yell it's not like that with everyone, but she won't take me seriously, and it makes me want to cry. It's so awful.

Cis people act like being trans has a sell buy date and its extremely annoying.

Although its common for children to know right away, there are many factors that could prevent someone from knowing that young. Such as kids are told they are a “tomboy” so you’re stuck thinking you have to be a girl who’s just super masculine, or you don’t know what transgender means, there for you aren’t able to explore the identity.

Its completely okay to not know at 5, not all trans people know that early.

anonymous asked:

I've had a really hard time figuring out what I want my blog's theme to be, but I've been looking at all these simblrs and just??? It's so nice here? I already take an ungodly amount of screenshots of my sims so I'm thinking of joining this community as a simblr myself but I need a second opinion. Also congrats to Julia and Gem on the lil' babby :)

oh my god YES PLEASE join the community. i know some things have happened that may turn you away, but honestly i don’t think there’s that much drama, or that many mean people. at least not from my experience! it’s really just a way to share your creativity and stories with the world. plus you can make really awesome friends (hit up @yesdarlingsims, @montysims, and @nullmoonsims for some Quality Content)

i say go for it! and if you do make one, let me know so i can check it out :) and thanks haha. i’m excited to see where that goes xx