A confession, not a request. If you have time, please read it.
hey, i just read your rules and i was thinking, in support of you and your recovery a BTS reaction(or anything you prefer) to Y/N being a past rape victim and starting a charity or something that helps victims of it to come forward (: if not its totally fine! obviously, under your circumstances. if you do thank you, i love you ❤❤
Rather than doing a reaction, I will tell you a story. I’m sorry darling, but I really take those matters seriously and I just couldn’t bring myself to write it. Every time I started, my eyes teared up and I just couldn’t. But for you I’ll tell a story that’s very close to my heart and that will make you guys understand why I protect the kpop fandom so eagerly.
I was 14 when I was raped. Also it was January 2014. Until August 2014 no one and I really mean no one could talk normally to me, without my hands to shake or my voice.If they were able to talk to me at all. My connection to the world was stopped, I didn’t go to school, I took my exams,of course and went in the next class. However, until August, I was almost uncommunicating. I was suicidial and depressed. So, I was almost always thinking about just ending it all.
My mother knew that since I was 5 *my cousin was a first genaration kpoper* kpop made me move to the rythym and love the world. She gave me her phone and shepressed the play button of the video. And a melody started. “Sometimes you’ve gotta be bold, just rock the world. BUUYA!” It was Red Velvet’s Happines. Unlike all the other attempts to make me feel something, this one just hit home. I watched the music video in awe, amazed by the fact how beautiful they were and how happy they looked. I wanted to be happy too, but how could I? I was dirty, a whore, a no one. And after the music video ended I looked up to my mother and asked her if she’ll give me her phone tomorrow to watch the live performance. She couldn’t believe that I first talked to her after such a long period of time and of course she gladly agreed. And so on, day after day I watched Red Velvet evolving as I myself started being a new person. They introduced Yeri in the group, I went to a new school. Ice cream cake and Automatic thought me that family is all I have and I shouldn’t lose it. Dumb Dumb made me want to dance again. One of these nights made me remember the pain, but also come to terms with it. Russian Roulette made me confident and feel good about myself again. And Rookie helped me find the people I belong with.
I am very greatful to them. Those girls made me who I am today. The five hearts of the Kpop community. The underrated queens wiht music I always hear people calling childish, but let me tell you. Thanks to them I am alive. I am alive thanks to the power they gave, the fact that they told me that everyday I should be happier than yesterday, because something good will happen.
So, don’t be afraid or ashamed to listen to kpop, because this “Chin Chong” as people call them, save and inspire people lives. Don’t be afraid to stand up for yourself, to tell your story.
My biggest dream is to have five minutes in my whole life in which I’ll be able to meet the girls. To tell them how grateful I am, what they did for me, how they are for me. I want them to know that they saved my life and that they are precious. And that girl groups can also be a big influence in someone’s life.
Red Velvet 언니들이, 고마워. 너때무네 나 한국어 공부해요. 너무 너무 감사합니다. 사랑해요. <3
Irene, I write this for you. Happy birthday darling.
Hello! I was watching the bon voyage videos and noticed they weren't allowed to take pictures with people do you casually know the reason?
they’re really not permitted to take photos with just anyone, it’s company rule. also honestly, it’s common sense, like so that they don’t get mobbed by people. They were filming and it’s supposed to be a vacation/trip for them. They were already harassed enough by fans on that show filming, people followed them everywhere, like literally running after them.
Also, more importantly, Bon Voyage was a secret filming/trip. No one knew where they were so definitely no photos allowed.
my least favorite liberal argument is that anyone disagreeing with liberal policies is just stupid. like, the ruling class is completely aware that their plans will fuck everyone over. republicans aren’t being dumb. literally just follow the money.
example: the healthcare bill republicans introduced. it’s a mess, right? what logical person could promote such a thing…oh wait it disenfranchises the working class and puts more money in the pockets of the wealthy. now, what kind of idiot removes regulations that protect people’s lives? someone who wants to make money.
the republican agenda is as idiotic as it needs to be to profit the rich while pretending to reach out to voters. nothing more.
When you are actually a calm and respectful person you will be easy target. If you decide to go off on some day the world will be against you but other who always act like however they want don't get as much punishment. For example I mean I love pique but he been talking shit about referees but don't get as much punishment as Leo. Leo decide to go off on referee once in 20 yrs then boom 4 match ban. This is ridiculous and unfair. I'm speechless. 😐
maybe? it just seems suspicious. like zidane got a 3 match ban for headbutting. jara got a 3 match ban for being sexually(?) inappropriate(?) with cavani. no ban for drunk driving. i’m just saying. what are the rules. what. are. the. rules.
i started dating this girl about 2 months ago because we were hanging out all the time and everyone was telling me that i should ask her out, i did actually like her but it was just a crush honestly. i felt pressured to date her and now i am im kinda feeling sad because shes getting a ton of homophobia and so am i from our christian 'friends' who believe being gay is a sin. she likes me and i want to break up with her but i dont want to hurt her but i know theres no other way, but idk what to do
So you want to break up just bc your friends don’t like it? Don’t do this, your sexuality won’t change after you break up and you both will just fight against homophobia on your own! Its better to fight for it together, and does it really matter what do other people think when you do the thing you like? That can think whatever you want, but you do need to follow their rules. Just don’t care about what they say :)
rules: you can only say guilty or innocent. you are not allowed to explain anything unless someone messages you or asks you.
asked someone to marry you: innocent kissed one of your friends: innocent danced on a table in a bar or tavern: innocent ever told a lie: guilty had feelings for someone whom you can’t have: guilty ever kissed someone of the opposite sex: innocent ever kissed someone of the same sex: innocent kissed a picture: innocent slept in until 5pm: innocent fallen asleep at work or school: innocent held a snake: innocent been suspended from school: innocent stolen something: innocent done something you regret: guilty laughed until what you were drinking came out of your nose: innocent caught a snowflake on your tongue: innocent sat on a roof top: guilty sang in the shower: guilty been pushed into a pool with all your clothes on: innocent slept naked: innocent made a boy friend/girl friend cry: innocent been in a band: innocent shot a gun: innocent donated blood: innocent eaten alligator meat: innocent eaten cheesecake: guilty still loved someone you shouldn’t: innocent have/had a tattoo: innocent been too honest: guilty ruined a surprise: guilty ate in a restaurant and got so bloated you can’t walk after: guilty erased someone in your friends list: guilty dressed in a man’s clothes: guilty dressed in a woman’s clothes: guilty joined a pageant: innocent been told you’re beautiful by someone who meant it: guilty still have communication with your ex: innocent cheated on someone: innocent got totally drunk the night before an important exam: innocent a total stranger treated you by paying your fare: innocent got so angry that you cried: guilty tried to stay away from someone for their own good: guilty actually murdered someone: innocent thought about mass murder: guilty actually committed a mass murder: innocent rode in a stranger’s vehicle: innocent stalked someone: guilty had a girlfriend: innocent had a boyfriend: innocent totally drunk during a holiday: innocent
Hey guys, this is just a little announcement. We’ve been getting some asks recently that just don’t follow the rule guidelines and ridiculous enough, some that aren’t even gems. Just remember to check to submission and ask rules before you try to ask us something. And another reminder, we are not meant to make your gemsonas for you, we’re just here to help you along the way :) . Have fun with your gemsonas and I hope we can help you in the future!