C: Why are we so preoccupied with what other black women choose to do with their hair? “Black women need to learn to love themselves and ditch the weaves. I don’t like weave because blah blah blah”. Ok then don’t get a weave? What do your opinions have to do with somebody else? How someone chooses to do their hair isn’t necessarily a reflection of their life story and personal values. Just because a woman wears a weave or has a relaxer doesn’t mean she’s a self hater. And I’ve met some natural haired women who are still anti-black as fuck! If you’re not styling their natural hair, installing their weave, or applying their relaxer, how someone chooses to style their hair is none of your concern.