Hey J. Bologna. I've read down there on your blog that you don't like dresses without shoulders because of men shoulders (Something I have to live with too) but how do you do to not feel insecure about the arms? I don't have a lot of hair in my arms but just seeing them make me cringe if I'm wearing a dress at the time. You think it's better to shave, to wax or to go directly to laser (I don't really like that last one becasue it means no hair on man mode)
Dearest W. Byebitch, I actually don’t shave my arms out of laziness, but if you go between wanting arm hair and not wanting arm hair then I’d recommend shaving. Honestly I’ve been hitting the gym because I’m gaga over the idea of kickass women– so my arms are getting a little more masculine. As a non-binary I think the best thing to do is embrace what makes you unique. The song “Ballad of a Ladyman” by Sleater Kinney makes me feel like a rockstar, personally. There’s not much you can do to your arms other than shaving them, so I’d recommend doing your best to love them. They’ve always been there for you– your arms. They’ve always been there pick you up when you’re down– literally.