just my humble onion but i think a lot of popular lesbian bloggers on here really believe bi women are privileged or w/e by virtue of being attracted to men and yall hide it behind “i’m just talking about my experiences” but like…. i see you and i hate you
With all the frustration, tension, and anger in the online Sherlock fandom following TFP, it occurs to me that when the “I love you” clip broke, I didn’t see a single post on the Sherlolly blogs I follow, that it just had to be Molly that Sherlock was saying I love you to. I know it never even occurred to me, although I quietly, unobtrusively, ship Sherlolly. I’m positing it’s because Sherlollians–when taken as a whole–don’t have that sense of entitlement that is a hallmark of the most insistent proponents of other ship pairings. I like to think Sherlollians are generally as gentle (and as steel-spined) as the woman they fancy as a match for Sherlock Holmes. Just my humble opinion, of course.