I knew Marilyn Monroe and loved her dearly. She asked me for help. Me! I didn’t know what to tell her. One night at a party at Clifton Webb’s house, Marilyn followed me from room to room. ‘I don’t want to get too far away from you,’ she said. 'I’m scared.’ I told her, 'I’m scared. We’re all scared.’
WildeHopps for the "send me a ship" askmeme questions wise... all of them o_o or which ever ones you feel like doing.
All of them? Nice. Here we go!
who is more likely to hurt the other?
Judy’s more likely to hurt Nick. Not because she’s mean or anything, but because she’s a very strong person and I think she might say or do things without really thinking them through and end up hurting Nick’s feelings, or even accidentally hurting Nick physically.
who is emotionally stronger?
Judy. Without a doubt. Nick spent twenty years emotionally repressing himself, Judy faced her insecurities and overcame them.
who is physically stronger?
In general? Probably Nick. But I think he also has some mental hang-ups that don’t let him express his full strength so in practice, Judy.
who is more likely to break a bone?
Judy. She’s reckless and acts before she thinks.
who knows best what to say to upset the other?
Nick. He knows all Judy’s hot buttons and in a single phrase could destroy her…but he never would.
who is most likely to apologise first after an argument?
Also Nick. He knows what it’s like to be right and never get recognized, so when he’s wrong he owns up to it.
who treats who’s wounds more often?
Nick treats Judy’s wounds more, but mostly because Judy has wounds more often.
who is in constant need of comfort?
Nick again lol. He’s lowkey an emotional crybaby who needs constant reassurance.
who gets more jealous?
I think probably Judy. She’s usually self assured but in her relationship she’s terrified that she’s not enough for Nick, that she’s too “rabbity”. What she doesn’t realize is that’s precisely why Nick prefers her to vixens.
who’s most likely to walk out on the other?
Nick. If things get too heated he checks out. He can’t handle full-blown knock-down drag-out arguments and will simply leave mid sentence if he thinks that’s where it’s going.
who will propose?
Judy. But Nick will already have a ring and a plan to propose when she does :P
who has the most difficult parents?
Judy, but not for the reason you think. Her parents aren’t against them; on the contrary, they won’t leave the two alone about anything. Constantly butting in for progress reports and gossip.
who initiates hand-holding when they’re out in public?
Judy. Nick is one of the most physical beings you’ll find, but he’s self-conscious and scared people will react badly in public. Judy ends up having to initiate all PDA. But behind closed doors it’s all Nick.
who comes up for the other all the time?
I’m…not wholly sure what this question means, but from the tone of it I’d say probably Nick?
who hogs the blankets?
Judy. She gets cold more easily, and she likes the feeling of being wrapped up.
who gets more sad?
Nick. He goes through periods of depression where he withdraws from Judy. Judy usually thinks this is evidence that she’s not good enough, but it’s not that at all: Nick simply has depression. Though sometimes he gets upset that he’s denying Judy a family; no matter how much she tells him she doesn’t need kids to be happy, he still believes she’s losing something by being with him.
who is better at cheering the other up?
Judy. Not necessarily because she knows what to say, but because she cares and that caring helps Nick by itself more than she’ll ever know.
who’s the one that playfully slaps the other all the time after they make silly jokes?
JUDY. She hates his punny jokes (she actually loves them) and will slap him every time.
who is more streetwise?
Nick, for the most part.
who is more wise?
Judy in a lot of ways. She’s wise beyond her years.
who’s the shyest?
Nick, though you’d never know it by looking at him. His outgoing personality is sheer bravado.
who boasts about the other more?
Nick. He likes to remind everyone who will stand still long enough to listen that he’s got the best girlfriend in the world. It’s so bad that the ZPD has an ongoing daily pot wherein people take bets how many times he’ll boast about Judy.
Bogo usually wins.
who sits on who’s lap?
Judy sits on Nick’s lap most, mostly by virtue of size. Nick accidentally sat on Judy once and while she thought it was great he was terrified he squished her so he doesn’t do that anymore.
And in general, Nick and Judy were tricky. Story-wise, it’s all about them, but we knew if they didn’t work, if that chemistry wasn’t there, if they didn’t feel like soul mates and like they weren’t bonding in the right way, that then the movie wouldn’t work.
Byron Howard and Rich Moore on the most difficult aspects to bring to life in the film [from their Q & A session on Quora, compiled here]
“I believe that if you are lonely sometimes, you should accept it without feeling that life has treated you badly. There are lonely moments in all lives. Even when you are in a crowd, a feeling of loneliness can wash over you. Remember that other people in the same crowd may be feeling the same way."