how to write a story that will infuriate MRAs
*female protagonist OR male protagonist whose leader is female
*most/all other females are good or neutral
*females are not sexualized
*good or neutral males are fine with, or prefer female leadership
… And that is pretty much it. That is why MRAs hate Mad Max, it is why they hate The Last of Us. It’s how the real world works most of the time.
edited to add: the last bullet point is pretty crucial. I think that most MRAs could take these types of stories if the male protagonists had uttered “bitch” under their breath every so often about the women they served under.