Sansa knew all about the sorts of people Arya liked to talk to: squires and grooms and serving girls, old men and naked children, rough-spoken freeriders of uncertain birth. Arya would make friends with anybody.
When at 14 I started to be sexualised by certain elements of the media. When at 15, my girlfriends started dropping out of their beloved sports teams, because they didn’t want to appear muscley. When at 18, my male friends were unable to express their feelings, I decided that I was a feminist.