Sexual Polyamory > Sexual Monogamy
Fucking is fun as long as it’s safe. Sexually Monogamous people over think it a lot of times because of insecurity. Rubbing genitals together (as far I am concerned) is no different than having a nice dinner, seeing a movie, behaving a nice glass of wine or listening to music.
Do I get jealous if my husband goes to a new restaurant and comes home to tell me what a great meal it was? I mean I didn’t make it!!! Arrrggghhh.
Such is the attitude of Sexually Monogamous people feeling this need to control the sexual actions of their partner rather than sharing in their pleasure.
I take vacations… but why? Is there something wrong with my hometown!?!?!? NO! Its just sometimes nice to enjoy a new view. Maybe If I packed all my clothes and put a For Sale sign in my front yard. My husband might then get nervous and say “Are you leaving me?” lol
People should be in an honest relationship where they feel free to speak without fear. If you lack the ability to do that then you are already in a relationship destined to fail.
My advice: Get some balls and tell you spouse exactly what you want and be willing to hear No. If you can’t handle it then leave.