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my views on relationships have changed so much. i’ve been in two long-term ones at this point in my life and both of them failed. tbh, i don’t have that same filmy adoration for people anymore. i met misa at a stage where i was super critical of everyone and really careful with my feelings. i didn’t know if he was “the one” at first and i was very doubtful that we would amount to anything. it’s been eight months at this point and for once time isn’t dragging by. i feel like  i’m with someone who understands me and wants the same things i do. instead of falling flat on my face, i’m slowly growing deeply in love with him. every day that we spend with each other i feel like this might last more and more. i’m still doubtful and feel like it’s too good to be true, but i’m also very grateful that i have him by my side. we have our fair share of conflicts, but we always manage to resolve them and i see that he deeply cares about me. damn i’m being so mushy but i feel like i had to make this post at some point. ok byeeeee.

I just finished the first 4 episodes of Because This Is My First Life, and I don’t want to jump the gun here, but it’s gearing up to potentially be one of the best dramas I’ve seen. Here are my first impressions (some potential spoilers):

  • GREAT characters. They’re so specific and so complex and unique and exactly what I crave in a drama. Having both two main characters that are interesting and make me care about them, PLUS side characters that are also complex and interesting and who make me care about them!!! We hit the jackpot here!!
  • The main couple is so different from any I’ve seen in other dramas. They’re allowed to be awkward and flawed, and that’s just going to make it that much more rewarding to watch them grow throughout the story. I love them.
  • Female!!! Friendships!!! I live for them. Ji Ho and her friends are so close and care so much about one another. It’s going to be such a good, stabilizing aspect of this drama, I can’t feel it.
  • Just the focus on the treatment of women in general? Ji Ho’s toxic patriarchal family dynamic comes to mind first. Not to mention how strikingly seriously Ji Ho’s sexual assault was handled while also showing the hypocrisy of how sexual assault is handled in the workplace (I hope we revisit this again in the story). And also how Soo Ji is treated in the workplace by her male coworkers. There’s even more than just these as well, and I can’t stress how refreshing it is to see all this in a drama. 
  • It’s funny!! It’s genuinely funny!!!! The comedic timing is so spot on and it’s due both to how good the writing is and how good the actors are at delivering it. 
  • The Graduate parallels are nice, and it’s not too in your face. I didn’t even really consider them until episode 4 started, but I can totally see it and I love a good parallel, especially one that isn’t often done.
  • It just has that real, lived-in feeling that’s hard for dramas to capture. I’m thinking of like “Fight My Way” type of vibes where the characters just feel so genuine and it just feels right.
  • Kitty is the most beautiful cat I’ve ever seen in my life. 
  • A NICE soundtrack. This OST is gonna be one of my top favorites. 
  • I just…  love it. I have really really high hopes. This is my favorite type of drama. 

Today I saw a lost cat poster in our neighborhood and I went OH NO! And David’s response was, “I hoped you wouldn’t notice that poster.” I went up and memorized the cat. Just in case I see them. Because there is a LOST CAT. And now I am thinking of all the lost cats and Imma go eat this whole bag of candy corn and sob on the clean laundry.

notthebestidiot  asked:

i like to headcanon that tord has fangs ( it started when i drew tord for the first time) and he tries his best to hide them from edd and the others bc as much he loves edds puns, he doesn't want edd to only want to see him because of them. (also did you know, Tord is actually 'thunder/thundering' in Norwegian) (sorry for the wall of text have a good day or night)

Even though Tord has a pretty strong confidence in how he looks, he’d probably just be a bit scared of his friends rejecting him. He already is known for his oddly defined hair, he probably would be worried and anxious that they’d think the same about his fangs, like thinking that’s just another disturbingly weird thing about him, and he wouldn’t know if he could handle his friends thinking so lowly of him. There would also be the slightest thought of fear that his friends would think he’s a vampire. 

//No, I didn’t know that’s what ‘Tord’ meant! That’s pretty cool! It’s especially even cooler to know now because I’m currently in the process of learning Norwegian :3 Thank you.

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happy birthday to our cute jimin!
thank you for being our angel

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I HAVE THE BEST HUSBAND.

All other husbands have to step up their game.
I AM PUTTING YOU ALL ON NOTICE.

Because this is what Werepenguin just gave me. He saw the commission that the amazingly-sweet and wonderfully-talented @yliseryn did for me of Allura in my wedding dress, and this idea began to form in his mind.

And this? This isn’t just Allura in my wedding dress. It’s Shiro in Werepenguin’s suit & tie. That’s OUR cake with OUR cake topper. And then Louise, being the utter sweetheart she is, added the b&w images. And then Werepenguin asked her for color versions of THOSE.

And, on top of all of this, I now have a 20x30 METAL PRINT of that top image that I can hang in our home so everyone can see it. Because this is how happy the memory of our wedding day makes him, even 8 years out. (Well, almost 8 years; he gave this to me as an early anniversary present because he couldn’t stand to sit on it any longer.)

I cried when he gave it to me. I’m crying a bit now. I married the most wonderful man and he is absolutely the best thing in my life and if there’s anything that proves that it’s that I cannot come up with the words to describe how I feel.

@joshkeaton @thebestlaurenmontgomery @bext-k

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happy birthday to our sweet namjoon!
thank you for being our galaxy