its ok not to like them

anonymous asked:

so - wait, i've been off the tungle for a while and somehow didn't piece this together, you're marrying the author of dragonoak?! :O :O that is so cool! i just started the first book because of your recommendations and gorgeous fanart and holy crap i'm so happy for both of you!!!!

hahaha i KNOW right its so crazy!!!! 

we were acquaintances on the internet for a While until i reached out to them about reading the novels they had been working on for a few years…which is the story of how we became friends bc i read dragonoak in its earlier stages! and everything just escalated from there and well. now!!! we are here!!!!!

i cant believe how LUCKY i am to be marrying (?!!??!?!) someone who i not only love but ADMIRE so much. its so wild to me that anyone i look up to as much as them would choose me of all people…theyve helped me become more of myself and really start to value myself more as a person, which is so much considering my ex did a really good job of breaking that all out of me before. 

lmao im getting sappy i just. im very lucky and very grateful and very in love and its very nice haha

simmersimms  asked:

do you have a lifespan on your legacy sims or do you not age them ... just let them blow out the candles so they age

ok so im actually super bad at Playing The Sims so aging is off all the time, and sometimes i dont even let them blow out the candles i just edit them in cas its a mess,,,,,,,,

anonymous asked:

ok but lil bby alex feeding from clarke is adorable. at first clarkes boob is bigger than her head so its the funniest sight and clexa dont stop laughing. but clarke is just amazed bc shes still nourishing her baby and lexas just all heart eyes and will curl up with them while alex is eating

They’re like??? In awe??? Clarke’s /feeding their child/ with her body like that’s insane??? And Lexa is content just to hold Clarke and be with her two loves

anonymous asked:

Hey uhh, do you think its ok to really hate a character? Like ive been told to chill several times now because i just cannot stand them at all and i dont even know why i hate them? Im sorry if this bothers you you can of course delete it

Yeah, it’s fine? The ask doesn’t bother me but I want to explain my feelings in a clear way.

My rule of thumb is this – you can dislike a character for whatever reason you want… so long as that reason isn’t based in harmful assumptions or stereotypes that hurt *real* people. Like, if someone told me they hated Tracer because they can’t pair her off with male characters I would be pretty frustrated. Or if someone told me they hated Symmetra because she’s “a cold ice queen.”

There are very few characters I actively hate in any piece of media so it’s not really an issue I run into. The few characters I do hate are often characters who are designed to be hated. And even then, I try to be careful and ask myself why the writers want me to hate this character.

If you’ve been asked to chill, however, you might just want to focus on something more positive for a while.


Cute Gency doodle for stress relief. School’s been a bit tough on me and I’ve been doing commissions to try and keep my parents from having to pay for my bus passes and phone bill, so I basically have no time for myself at all now. I took ten minutes to myself to doodle this to try and relieve some stress and it’s helped thankfully.

Enjoy some random fluff and hand holding, and an ~almost~ smooch. 

Please do not repost, edit or claim as your own. And do not delete the artist comments, thank you!


happy birthday, Harry


Grant, Candice and Keiynan cuteness before filming
(a very spoilery scene, proceed with caution)



daichi just wants to watch the movie in peace