its not sexist guys

anonymous asked:

Just a thought...you know those au's where the name you call your s/o is on your body. Think about chowder and him being so excited, "maybe they're a farmer!" And some stupid person being sexist says it's probably a guy and chowder probably at least had the thought what if it is a guy? I've never felt that way about a guy but I must love them and kinda freaking out a bit about sexuality? I just thought about that..

Sweet baby Chowder would love his soulmate no matter what, and he would constantly be asking himself “is farmer a pet name?? ARE THEY A REAL FARMER?? but why would I call them that? Do they call me goalie???” So many questions, and all Chowder can think when he runs into the women’s volleyball team is “i hope this one wants to be a farmer, she’s got such pretty eyes” and he nearly cries when he finds out her name

anonymous asked:

I swear i saw a gray fan call lucy a slut because her clothes are always ACCIDENTALLY ripped off due to mashima's need to please the horny fanboys. But then another person said that gray also strips ON PURPOSE and the person replied by saying "get lost your making yourself look stupid!" Double standard much? Like srsly just because a guy does it doesn't mean its ok to strip whenever you want. Sometimes i hate this fandom. Its so sexist and treats the girls like trash while praising the guys.

Ah,, yes,, the girl whose clothes are typically forcefully removed, compared to the guy who strips of his own free will, is totally a slut,, yes that make sO much sense,,

My eyes are bleeding and I haven’t read the actual post

Reasons I won’t shop at the locally owned comic store: Those who work there embody literally every negative steryotype of male geeks and make me feel like crap when I try to buy things there, and asking them questions only results in rude “i’m better than you because I know this,” responces.

Reasons I will shop at hastings (part of a chain): The people there are always helpful AND knowlegeable abt comics and the guy who works at the comics is an older man and once told me a story about reading captain marvel with his daughter back when i was first getting into comics and has never once made me feel inferior because i don’t know much about comics or have a question

anonymous asked:

No offense but why do you draw fem jack so hypersexualized and thin? It's really problematic and kind of sexist to take a cis guy who is chubby and masculine and hairy and decide that the only possible "fem" version of him HAS to be a thin, busty, long haired girl. She legit looks like Meg Turney. I'm not trying to hate I'm just like.. making sure you realize how harmful of a mindset that is, man. He's a really laughy and deep guy and in your comic the first joke with her is "boobs" like..dude.

none taken at all that’s a good point my dude, but honestly

how jack looks now and how she looks when michael’s chapter will be up are two completely different looks. i want to show how jack at this moment is not dressing for herself, but rather for her clients since right now she does a lot of freelance work and almost all of her clients are grody dudes in LS.. they want to see hypersexualized, jack gives them this, she doesn’t particularly like it but it puts bread on the table. they want her to dress and act a certain way, and jack does because she’s trying to make her way up in the crime world and she doesn’t have a crew but she cant fucking stand any of the clients before geoff anyway so there’s that.

geoff will be the first hire to let jack be jack, let jack dress like jack, let jack eat like jack, and not expect anything but what jack wants for herself from jack. just total utter acceptance

but i gotta get past the first couple of heists and get gavin into the story to get jack to where jack is gonna be for the majority of the story. so, if this is still sexist then im sorry but eyyy it wont be like this for forever

and as for the boobs thing, i meant for that to be Geoff thinking that this random chick is trying to seduce and then kill him, bc he’s had that happen to him before quite recently. a few days ago in fact. hence why he quick jerks back expecting a knife in his ribs. and why hes so hostile to jack afterwards.

so yea dude i know its kinda cringe and also quite sexist right now but i have a lot of this story to get through, dont you worry it’ll be a lot less cringe as it goes on

anonymous asked:

Oh nooo a female character in clothes you don't like WHAT EVER SHALL WE DO! What next, a character made for the fans who runs around naked? OH WAIT. His name was Raiden and he was made by request of female fans. Seriously at first you guys were just annoying but now it's obvious you guys are just being subtly sexist in the name of "progression".

I turned on anon for art style submissions but instead I get a fake gamer boy in my ask box. 

Here it is, fake gamer in the wild, trying to talk about a game over 14 years old to prove something about a game in 2015. And not only that, they got the facts all wrong too. Girls never requested shit much less girl fans. Kojima merely interviewed high school aged girls (who didn’t play games fyi) about if they would play MGS. One responder said they didn’t want to play a game about stupid old men. Kojima designed Raiden thinking it would appeal to girls. 

He didn’t ask that girl what she wanted, he & shinkawa literally thought they would just design a character around what THEY thought girls wanted. As we know, Raiden was basically a total joke, pretty much until his incarnation in MGS4/MGR.

So here you are. In 2015, trying to lecture me about something you basically got wrong in every conceivable way about a game that came out in 2001 to negate a delusional reaction today (oh no what ever WILL we do???). 

Edit: Just wanted to remind people this is the type of person sending these asks [tw: ableist slurs]

  • Guy: *tells sexist joke*
  • Me: That was a pretty sexist thing to say.
  • Guy: Calm down, it was just a joke. I thought it was funny.
  • Me: Well, it wasn't funny. Likely you think it was because you're a guy, but to me as a woman it was not funny.
  • Guy: You're saying I think it's funny because I'm a guy? THAT is actually sexist.
  • Me: *looks into the camera like I'm on The Office*
  • Guy: *Say stupid sexist shit*
  • Me: That is sexist and offensive, don't say it again.
  • Guy: Oh, but I didn't mean it that way.
  • Me: It is still sexist and offensive. Don't use it.
  • Guy: But how would I know you have a problem with this?
  • Me: It's about ME. It's about women, everywhere in the world. Again, it's sexist. Don't say it.
  • Guy: But...
  • Me: I, a woman, am telling you it's sexist. Just don't fucking use it again.
  • LIKE SERIOUSLY, HOW HARD IS IT DO UNDERSTAND THAT?

anonymous asked:

Its getting on my nerves that everyone hates Dany for executing that guy but praises Jon for executing Janos Slynt. Like Jon can chop peoples heads off but not Dany? Don't get me wrong, I agree that everyone should be more sympathetic to the executed person in Dany's situation. But Jon isnt super cool or a heroic badass for killing a crying old guy. Idk I feel like its almost sexist. Thoughts?

Women are generally expected to be gentler than men, so I see where you’re coming from, however, in this instance the Jon vs. Dany issue goes a lot further than gender. Let’s examine the facts:

  • Jon executed a man who openly spoke out against him. Dany killed a man who was a close ally.
  • Jon executed a rich snob from the capital who was only looking out for himself. Dany killed a former slave who wanted to help her cause, and the cause of his people. 
  • People tend to cheer more when an asshole is killed, rather than when it happens to a young, passionate, misguided underdog who killed a murderer.
  • Jon followed in the footsteps of Ned and executed the man himself. Dany followed in her father’s, and had the man killed. The result was of course the same, but people respond differently to something that is for better or worse, seen as more honorable.
  • Jon got rid of a voice of dissent. Dany killed a member of her council representing a large and extremely disenfranchised group of her people.
  • Jon had to make his decision in public, everyone heard Janos. Dany decided to have a very public execution, not handle the matter privately.
  • Both were forced into the decision, but Jon actively sought it out. His enemies were either going to swallow his commands or disobey orders. Many people see it as badass, because it was in fact the result of a calculated move.
  • Jon’s actions strengthened, at least for the time being, his position. Dany has weakened her control over the city and lost support.

I hate those guys who make sexist misogynist jokes bc they think it’s funny how girls will react n how they will get “so worked up”, but then claim that they’re not actually sexist or misogynist. Like ???????? If u r a guy who does this u need to ask yourself why u find it so funny when a women isn’t ok w/ being disrespected. U need to ask yourself why u don’t take a women expecting respect n equal treatment seriously. Could it be bc you’re idk… Sexist??? A misogynist????? Hmmmmm

Seriously if cis feminists could not use “let’s punish people with penises” as a praxis I think I’d be a lot happier.  I mean fuck.  Trust me, I hate men, I’m misandrist as the next proving-the-stereotype feminist, but not all men have dicks (plenty of trans dudes) and not only men have dicks (plenty of AMAB trans people and intersex folk about) and indeed trans women are pretty actively harassed for having (even once having for post-op) penises.  As a no-op trans woman it makes me pretty deeply uncomfortable when people equate dicks to manhood.  At least when cis guys do it, I know its just their puny sexist egos asserting male dominance merely by existing as a cis dude.  When cis girls do it, I’m just… disappointed, and pretty uncomfortable.

More trans feminism please, is basically what I’m saying.

tbh i think its a little sexist that you guys only want deborah because shes a woman? do you know who else is a woman??? queen mary I aka bloody mary think before you speak 

As a trans person (HRT with T) is hilarious when cis guys make small talk with me and its INCREDIBLY sexist/ and or sexual and gross towards women. Or about their dicks ???? Like this one guy at work asked me if there were any hot girls at my work (we work at different properties) and I said no cause I’m not straight and he’s thinking I am which is hilarious that people just assume I am. So he goes on to explain how all the girls at his property are either lesbian or jacked up. And I’m just like … okay.. you’re gross. Then he goes on to asking me about the girls at the class we are at that I work with asking their ages and shit and I’m just like thinking “why are guys so damn creepy ???” then he’s making all these sexual jokes about his dick in the group where its all girls, me (non binary) and him and all the girls and myself either 1) ignore it 2) laugh to brush off the awkward 3) are silent. Like I have no idea why 9/10 guys I meet are like this. Like are they not able to come up with actual conversations they resort to sexualizing/hitting on women or talking about their genitals like ANYONE FUcKING CARES? Please stop, it just makes the room uncomfortable and it SUCKS cause everyone just laughs it off or there’s other cis guys in the room (one or so from that “9/10 guys”) and they all laugh and join in??? while everyone else is like haha …y..ee……. anyways

jiggyjams  asked:

Gom+kagami+kyoshi+takao a s/o playing a dangerous sport, like it's mainly for guys (I hate that sexist shit) and they the guys try to convince to stop playing, but the s/o see what there saying as sexist and gets hella pissed? She storms off

You were playing rugby with some grown men but you weren’t concerned about that. All you wanted to do was have a little fun and get some stuff of your mind. Playing the first quarter of the game, you go tackled by some guys but you just shook it off. Besides that was what you had to do to obtain the ball. During the second quarter, you hear a yell of your name as you see your boyfriend rush over to you. Taking you to the side, your boyfriend had a serious talk with you…

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Kuroko: “______-chan, what are you doing?” He looks at you as he looks at the male around them who seem to stare at them. Sighing you shrug, “Just playing a game, don’t be so concerned…” You rat out as you turn on your heel to go play, but Kuroko grabbed your arm. “What if you get hurt? These are grown man and you are…” You turn towards him glaring, “A girl?!?!?” With that Kuroko stayed silent as you storm off. 

Kise: “_______-cchi!!!!! I’ve been looking for you!!! Why are you playing this sport?” He asked as he pulled you into a hug. “I’m just playing, it’s really fun!” You say as you try to get out of his grip. “But _____-cchi, this sport isn’t for girls!!!” You pushed him and raise an eyebrow, “And why is this not a sport for girls?” The males around them chuckle as Kise pouts, “Well because it involves…” You shake your head and walk away, you knew exactly what he was going to say.

Aomine: The bluenette stormed over to you pissed, “_____ what the fuck are you doing here with these grown man????” Sighing you cross your arms and rolls your eyes, “I’m just playing this-…” Aomine cut you short when he yells out, “These are huge men who can hurt you just by tackling you…besides this isn’t a game for girls..” You stand there glaring at him as you shove pass him.”Who gives a fuck if it’s not a girl’s game baka!!!!!” With that being said you stormed off.

Kagami: He was insanely worried about you, but when he saw you paying this ruthless game he became beyond worry. “_______, why the hell are you playing this game???? You could get seriously hurt since you are so fragile…” He yelled out as he grabbed your arm trying to lead you away from the field, but you take your arm back. “Kagami, I’m fine and I’m not fragile„,” Kagami shakes his head, “This sport can be deadly, this is why it’s played by boys..” Hearing enough you pushed passed him.

Kiyoshi: ”________, why are you out here playing this sport????” He asked bewildered as he eyed the other grown men. “Kiyoshi, I’m fine and this sport is fun!” You exclaim as you smile but Kiyoshi takes your hand leading you away from the field. “This is a bad game for you to play.” You look up at him and stop. “And why is that? Because I’m a girl?” Sighing you walk away from him, pissed off. Kiyoshi quickly following behind you silently.

Takao: Quickly, he rushed to your side as he gets in front of you so you don’t move. “What in the world are you doing?” He ask as he embraces you quickly not wanting the males to touch you. Laughing you pull him off of you, “I’m okay, just having a little fun!” Takao takes your hand, “You should have fun with me instead of playing this manly sport!” You look up at him and clench your fist. “Manly game? Are you trying to say it can’t be played by females?” Takao shrugged and looks away, “Well maybe..” With that you left, stomping home.

Midorima: He ran over to you with his lucky item in his hand. “____, get over here now, why are you playing this rough sport?” Sighing you cross you arms behind your back. “Because I can, loosen up-…” Midorima shakes his head. “I will not loosen up, you are playing this manly sport for guys!!!” You glare at him, “I can play this sport regardless of who I am!!” You quickly flee to your house.

Murasakibara: “_______-chin, why are you tackling men?” You smile and pat his stomach. “It’s apart of this game.” Murasakibara glared at the grown men, “It looks like a guy sport, and you’re not a guy.” You look at him and raise an eyebrow. “It can be played by girls too baka!!!” You ran ahead of him.

Akashi: “_____, get over here now!” With his yell you quickly came over to only be lectured about how this is a boy sport. Sighing, you shake your head and mumble out. “It can be played by girls too! I will prove you that!” Quickly shuffling away since your overprotective boyfriend was being such a freaking sexist.

anonymous asked:

Do you think it's wrong that one of the main problems I have with Kataang is the age difference? I sometimes wonder if their genders were swapped if I'd have the same problem, like maybe it's an ingrained sexist "the guy should always be older" thing... But I think what I really don't like is that Aang seems so much more like a child than Katara, in every way. Like, his voice hasn't even broken yet (and doesn't for the entirety of ATLA...). Ehhh I dunno. What are your thoughts?

Well, if your issue really is “the girl is older,” then I’d reflect on that. But there’s the very real fact that girls tend to go through puberty before boys (and yes, you’re right that Aang is portrayed as pre-pubescent where Katara isn’t), and that their relationship is the equivalent of a freshman girl in high school dating a 6th grade boy. I’ve never felt totally comfortable with their makeout sesh. Even Kainora wasn’t frenching it, you know?

Truthfully if the genders were reversed and we had a pre-pubscent girl making out with an adolescent boy, I’d think the reactions against it would have been stronger, because of our sexist assumptions that it’s okay for boys to desire older women and that they’re even “lucky” to be getting the attention.

In the case of Kataang, I don’t think anything was exploitative, but yeah, the age aspect never sat right with me. I just wish it had been a dynamic that hadn’t been eroticized, even if it still ended with them together. I wish Aang hadn’t been eroticized period.

That being said that final scene was visually stunning.

guys you cant fight sexism with sexism and tumblr seems to forget this a lot???? last week when i was in systems class we were talking about sexism and how they wouldnt do females do a lot of things before and stuff (how this topic came up idk how) but one of my classmates was all like “well now its reversed and girls are sexist towards guys”

and like 4 people went to scream at him simultaneously (including me) but then he was like “um yeah but have u seen tumblr???”

which made my stomach churn bc he kind of has a point. tumblr preaches feminism and equality but instead of trying to make things right we spit on boys and basically what im trying to say is that we cant achieve gender equality, if we too, our guilty of saying sexist things too.

anonymous asked:

I don't get hit on a lot, but when I do it's guys that have terrible beliefs and are usually sexist and racist and it is so disheartening for me. I've always wanted a relationship and of course I wouldn't settle for these men, but when every guy that has interest in me is like this it makes me feel so hopeless. I don't get why these awful people gravitate towards me. Did you ever feel this way?

I used to feel that way. They’re all useless idiots until one finally isn’t, y’know. Who hits on you isn’t a reflection of you, trust me. It’s just a reflection of our surroundings right now. You’re just unfortunately surrounded by subpar men. Eventually someone who isn’t a goat fucker will come along. Promise!