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Signs of Emotional Manipulation #7

Your abuser becomes a different person around other people vs. being alone with you.

For instance: a friend might claim they have an abusive parent but when you go over to their house their parent seems overjoyed, friendly, welcoming, etc. Believe your friend. This is common behaviour for abusive people. They tend to isolate the victim and hide their mistreatment very well. It’s pure manipulation.

the signs as shit my parents have sent me
  • aries: im cross, very cross, and a bit constipated, that poo made my eyes water
  • taurus: really, night night, someone has to sleep with your mum....
  • gemini: i leave you with a happy mental image, no wait, ill send an actual meme in about 3 hours, just need the head torch, the action cam and a fluffy toy ....
  • cancer: Whoops it sent the punch - how does this technology shit work again
  • leo: beware the daddywocky...
  • virgo: Why relevance matter? - in a boxtrolls paradigm anything goes
  • libra: Naturally, I'm a vert calming influence. Unless Tim places toilet paper .... and lights the tenth sheet .....
  • scorpio: theres nothing wrong with masturbation,,, its sex with someone you love
  • sagittarius: Yes. But Huge Jackman. I would
  • capricorn: due to the gravitatronic effect of mass on the space time continuum strange local dilation effects can occur resulting in the apparent rapid passage of time to the outside observer while your father remains 25
  • aquarius: its too long for harry,,, but too short for dick
  • pisces: I'm down with the meme kids me, coolly kicking back .....

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so since moving out of my parents home they’ve done a bit of reshuffling of rooms etc. and i’m staying over for the first time since i left the nest and there’s no spare bed(room). tragic? no not really because my eldest brother moved back in and carols just doing what she can to make everyone happy bless her. but not having a spare bedroom means that i’m spending the night in their camper trailer parked in the carport. it’s actually pretty comfortable and i’m not complaining at all…but it’s just a bit strange to be “camping” in the carport of a house you called home for 23 years. this makes no sense it’s just very odd and bizarre because my old room is right next the carport but my other other brother and his girlfriend took it (and honestly they are not doing the space justice at all it’s actually tragic). it just feels like the place i grew so comfortably in is so foreign so quickly and i guess that’s growing up and living life and thankfully they give me free food and wine so i guess you have to find the Lil victories xx goodnight xx

anonymous asked:

Hi! For a few months ago I knew/accepted myself as bisexual. I've told my parents and some of my friends, but it's been really difficult since they are all christians. I am a christian myself, but I'm still proud to find out who I really am. My parents and my teacher always said that being gay is a sin, but I think it's a beautiful thing. I haven't told some other friends of mine, and I don't think I need to tell them because it's not their "problem". But my closest friends are supporting me:)

Thanks so much for sharing this! There is definitely no contradiction in being both Christian and bisexual. A lot of people use their religion to justify their bigotry, but it really doesn’t have to be that way. I’m sorry that your parents and teacher said that to you, but I’m really glad that you’ve been able to see past that and love yourself, as well as finding some wonderful, supportive friends. 

so i woke up sorta early this morning and went for a walk and i ended up in my favourite park and i brought a book and i got coffee so i was sitting on a bench reading and drinking coffee and the most beautiful german shepherd i’ve ever seen ran up to me and let me pet it and honestly?? i just feel so blessed

Oh my god crotchety old adults are already complaining that kids are spending too much time out playing Pokemon Go, like haven’t you spent the last 10 years lamenting the fact that kids don’t go outside and exercise enough? So now they go out and exercise but OOOHHH NOOO they need to be HOME doing PRACTICAL things, not having FUN OUTDOORS WITH FRIENDS.

Someone: The Doctor and Clara are just friends.

Me: Cool, I get that.

Someone: The Doctor and Clara have a father/daughter relationship.

Me: EXCUSE YOU!!??? JUST BECAUSE THE DOCTOR LOOKS OLDER DOESN’T AUTOMATICALLY GIVE THEM THAT TYPE OF RELATIONSHIP. YOU MUST NOT BE WATCHING THE SHOW AT ALL AND JUST FOCUSING ON THEIR AGE DIFFERENCE WHICH IS RIDICULOUS BECAUSE THE DOCTOR IS ALWAYS MUCH OLDER THAN THE COMPANION BUT IT CERTAINLY DIDN’T STOP HIM FROM HAVING A ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIP WITH 19 YEAR OLD ROSE AT LEAST CLARA IS OLDER THAN THAT AND WHY WOULD A 24+ YEAR OLD NEED A FATHER FIGURE ANYWAYS? SHE ALREADY HAS A FATHER IF YOU SO DESPERATELY NEED THAT. WHO RANDOMLY FLIRTS WITH THEIR FATHER AND TELLS THEM THAT THEY WOULD HAVE MARRIED THEM?? PUT ON YOUR LOCATION SO THAT I CAN FIND YOU AND GIVE YOU ALL OF THE EVIDENCE OF THEIR ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIP I WILL EVEN SIT WITH YOU AND REWATCH ALL OF THEIR EPISODES AND IF YOU STILL DON’T GET IT THEN FIIIIIIGHT ME.

“I feel like during the verses, I’m playing that game where you stick a Post-It on your forehead, and people shout out clues to what it is…And Miles is shouting out clues to the Post-It on my forehead.”

so i drew miles and alex,,,playing the forehead guessing game!! i hope tumblr didn’t kill the quality of this picture,,i kinda liked how it turned out :’^) 

(the post-it note on alex’s head says “BEATLE” and in the speech bubbles there are pictures of stag beetle, volkswagen beetle, and a bee with a turtle ! and in alex’s speech bubble there is a question mark !) 

That awkward moment when the guy you went to junior prom with emails you to say thanks for letting him look at your resume and cover letter (so he can learn how to write good ones), even though he’s pretty sure your parents haven’t told you that they sent your stuff to him. 

That amazing sensation of joy and excitement and overwhelming inner peace when you’re hanging out with a group of really accepting friends and they just casually use your correct pronouns without any hesitation like it’s no big deal at all is EVERYTHING sometimes.

Some days it’s all I need to feel happy and valid in my gender, and that’s more than enough.

Other days, it’s the spark that lights a fire just beneath my skin; that burns the words “this is why you fight” into my body. It’s the thing that makes me remember why I carefully plot and strategize and work my ass off to make sure everyone who doesn’t use my correct pronouns or “understand” why or how my gender is what it is will be nudged on to the path of understanding and respect. It’s the thing that makes me realize that as painful as the idea of “someday” is, the idea of “someday my loved ones will respect this part of who I am,” it’s going to be SO worth it when I finally bring them around. It’s the thing that reminds me that there are better alternatives than waiting for the people who have made it clear they will NEVER be nudged onto that path. There are better people to be around, and better feelings than the aching bitterness of disrespect and invalidation.

The feeling of being casually, easily referred to as your correct gender (whatever it may be for you) is so incredibly valuable. It’s a joy I can’t describe without starting to spout actual poetry. It’s worth the effort I put into making it happen more often. It’s worth the fight to be recognized. It’s worth waiting for “someday.”

And in the mean time, it’s damn nice to have friends who’ll gender you right even while you’re waiting for certain important loved ones to do the same. I’ll always be so grateful for friends like that.

anonymous asked:

All of yall are talking about the sex ed classes, and my mom opted me out of it in 7th and 8th grade and I never took the 'baby' classes in high school, only general health where we talked about the body and drugs. And yet here I am, an 18 year old, now, sophomore in college, never having a sex ed class... (I obviously know about it all now, thanks to tumblr and my older friends.)

i wish parents couldnt do that its so important for teens and well everyone to get basic sex education i never had the baby thing my sister had an electronic baby that was fun but im glad you knew going into it bc imagine 

Robin’s favorite alcoholic beverage is sparkling wine.

ok this is actually cute ft. older marichat

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