its my parents friend

Signs of Emotional Manipulation #7

Your abuser becomes a different person around other people vs. being alone with you.

For instance: a friend might claim they have an abusive parent but when you go over to their house their parent seems overjoyed, friendly, welcoming, etc. Believe your friend. This is common behaviour for abusive people. They tend to isolate the victim and hide their mistreatment very well. It’s pure manipulation.

6

… you’re in love with the idea of being in love with me.

Bonus close up requested by @epiome

the signs as shit my parents have sent me
  • aries: im cross, very cross, and a bit constipated, that poo made my eyes water
  • taurus: really, night night, someone has to sleep with your mum....
  • gemini: i leave you with a happy mental image, no wait, ill send an actual meme in about 3 hours, just need the head torch, the action cam and a fluffy toy ....
  • cancer: Whoops it sent the punch - how does this technology shit work again
  • leo: beware the daddywocky...
  • virgo: Why relevance matter? - in a boxtrolls paradigm anything goes
  • libra: Naturally, I'm a vert calming influence. Unless Tim places toilet paper .... and lights the tenth sheet .....
  • scorpio: theres nothing wrong with masturbation,,, its sex with someone you love
  • sagittarius: Yes. But Huge Jackman. I would
  • capricorn: due to the gravitatronic effect of mass on the space time continuum strange local dilation effects can occur resulting in the apparent rapid passage of time to the outside observer while your father remains 25
  • aquarius: its too long for harry,,, but too short for dick
  • pisces: I'm down with the meme kids me, coolly kicking back .....

i really just want to thank dan. i’m happy that he’s in a place where he can talk about his experience with depression as well as the different treatments he went through.

as a person who has been struggling with this constant sadness for almost four years, it’s refreshing to see someone come out and talk about the reality of it all. i’ve been hiding this thing that i’ve been dealing with basically the whole time i’ve been experiencing it, only telling a couple friends, but not doing anything about it. now i want to do something about it.

dan’s video really helped me put things into perspective. it’s hard talking to someone about mental health, especially with the initial impression it has on most people, how they’ll see you only for your mental illness, or that you’re using it as an excuse. but nothing is going to get better by itself, and if i want something done, i have to at least try and do it.

i’ve had a few people, namely one honestly, tell me the same things he explained in his video, but hearing it from someone i’ve looked up to since i’ve discovered his videos is something i didn’t know i needed until now. i’m really happy that dan decided to use his platform to share his story in hopes that it might help people in his audience that might be going through the same thing. this video has helped me and gave me that last push that i needed to get better, and i just want to thank dan for that.

i know he’s never going to see this, but it’s out here in the open. thank you, dan, for everything you’ve done, and for helping us. thank you for providing us distractions with your content and reminding us to breathe and just showing us that you and phil care. it’s worth more to us than you’ll ever know.

thank you.

Child, why you scream.


the daily is coming along, its just taking a bit longer because my head feels so full and heavy. hopefully i can finish it before 23:00 

anonymous asked:

In honor of my favorite bisexual's birthday (and because I'm sick of being closeted) I'm coming out today

!!!!! MY WIFI WAS REALLY SHITTY YESTERDAY SO I WASN’T ABLE TO ANSWER IT BUT YOU HAVE MY FULL SUPPORT AND I REALLY HOPE EVERYTHING WENT WELL!!!!!!!!!!!!! I’m sending you all the good vibes ♥

“I feel like during the verses, I’m playing that game where you stick a Post-It on your forehead, and people shout out clues to what it is…And Miles is shouting out clues to the Post-It on my forehead.”

so i drew miles and alex,,,playing the forehead guessing game!! i hope tumblr didn’t kill the quality of this picture,,i kinda liked how it turned out :’^) 

(the post-it note on alex’s head says “BEATLE” and in the speech bubbles there are pictures of stag beetle, volkswagen beetle, and a bee with a turtle ! and in alex’s speech bubble there is a question mark !) 

ok this is actually cute ft. older marichat

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA HAPPY BDAY @caprette / @miraculer  ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°) ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°) ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°) ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°) ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°) ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°) ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°) ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)

anonymous asked:

comfort song?

the village by wrabel.

Someone: The Doctor and Clara are just friends.

Me: Cool, I get that.

Someone: The Doctor and Clara have a father/daughter relationship.

Me: EXCUSE YOU!!??? JUST BECAUSE THE DOCTOR LOOKS OLDER DOESN’T AUTOMATICALLY GIVE THEM THAT TYPE OF RELATIONSHIP. YOU MUST NOT BE WATCHING THE SHOW AT ALL AND JUST FOCUSING ON THEIR AGE DIFFERENCE WHICH IS RIDICULOUS BECAUSE THE DOCTOR IS ALWAYS MUCH OLDER THAN THE COMPANION BUT IT CERTAINLY DIDN’T STOP HIM FROM HAVING A ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIP WITH 19 YEAR OLD ROSE AT LEAST CLARA IS OLDER THAN THAT AND WHY WOULD A 24+ YEAR OLD NEED A FATHER FIGURE ANYWAYS? SHE ALREADY HAS A FATHER IF YOU SO DESPERATELY NEED THAT. WHO RANDOMLY FLIRTS WITH THEIR FATHER AND TELLS THEM THAT THEY WOULD HAVE MARRIED THEM?? PUT ON YOUR LOCATION SO THAT I CAN FIND YOU AND GIVE YOU ALL OF THE EVIDENCE OF THEIR ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIP I WILL EVEN SIT WITH YOU AND REWATCH ALL OF THEIR EPISODES AND IF YOU STILL DON’T GET IT THEN FIIIIIIGHT ME.

“She spends all day in her room.”

I know. Wow. It’s almost like this space is tailored to me and my needs and my interests and that space out there is tailored to you and your needs and your interests. It’s almost like if I go out there, I have to choose between watching whatever you want to watch and discussing whatever you want to discuss and watching what I want to watch, but hearing about why it’s silly and I shouldn’t like it. It’s almost like you expect me to constantly come to you but you have literally never made the effort to come to me. Wow.