its a real relationship

Just because you are lonely does not mean you should invite someone toxic back into your life.

Adrinette Month Day 5: Coffee Shop Au 

Back to working loosely haha I enjoy it far too much 8]

He didn’t know when she started sitting there, every morning at eight, with a cup of coffee in her hands. He only knew when he started remembering her. 

Sometimes she was with someone–a friend, he hoped–but most times, she was alone, sitting contentedly with her beverage, enjoying her own company. 

He never could quite muster up the courage to go up to her–what was he going to say? “Hey, I’ve been watching you drink coffee every morning as I walk to work, how’s it going?” Yeah, that’s not a bit creepy.

So one day, when it was down-pouring, and he went his way to work, believing fully that perhaps today, he might not get to see her, he was surprised to find he was wrong. There she was, wearing a bright red raincoat–but no umbrella.

And he finally found his chance.


A subtle reminder that Rob is the father in real life [for added effect]


This is Ravus.

He likes reading stories with his sister.

(Previously on ‘This is Ravus’)

Would give my left lung to have had L present during the series finale. To see his reaction to Light begging for his life. “I don’t want to die! I don’t want to go to jail either!” To be front and center when Light loses all hope and it hits him; this is the end. Light would turn to L for help. “Please, Ryuuzaki! L! Don’t do this! Please! I-I don’t want to die, L! Please, L! L!” He and L had a connection. Even though Light had all intent in murdering L, he would still plead with him because Light would be trying to reach an L that found him entertaining. That touched him gently. That was able to converse with him, work with him. That called him friend. He would desperately seek that L and L would stare back at Light before slowly closing his eyes and when they opened again a harsh chill would run down Light’s spine because he’d see it reflected back at him. That flicker of emotion - Light’s survival - gone and Light would scream. Light would be sent to death or life in prison, some unfortunate fate, and L wouldn’t c much to say, little boasting to do as nothing more needed to be said. He would want to be left alone for awhile and the others would give him his space, emphasizing with the exhausting weight this case was but they wouldn’t understand. Not really. L would take time to himself and ponder on which was worse: killing the only person who understood you or the only person that understood you killing themselves.

It’s a metaphor.

Made for @tswwwit ​‘s Familiar AU: Faking It. I reread the fic for I think the 4th time yesterday and I’ve realized I’m really going to never grow tired of it. It’s my absolute favourite example of Bill and Dipper’s relationship and honestly  I could go on for hours talking about it (and my friends can attest to that, I’m sure they’re all tired of how much I rant about this story) so I’ll cut this short and sweet:

I give this fic my highest recommendation. Anyone who hasn’t read it (heck I even got someone who doesn’t like billdip to read it and they love it), go read it now. And get ready for the ride of your life because hot dang this au is amazing.

Why I’m iffy With Bi Women

I saw some Discourse™ about this topic in some radfem circles, so I decided to add my two cents.

Its pretty obvious that bi women are privileged over lesbians. Bi women only face homophobia if they are openly bi (ex: wearing bi pride buttons, shirts, being known to date both men and women) or if they are seen being romantic or sexual with another woman, this can come through fetishization or violence, and is linked in misogyny, and at times, when they’re not doing it themselves, erasure. But they are favored higher than lesbians because they could still end up with a man, and often end up with them.

But, I have noticed some really unsettling patterns among bi women.

For instance, they are rabid dick worshipers and almost always see men as more serious partners than women.

My aunt, is self identified bi, but refuses to date women or to be faithful to one, because its “not a real relationship, and heterosexuality is more natural”.

I was cheated on by my bi ex girlfriend. We were the golden couple, we talked about marriage and a family, but she crawled back to dick, as does my other bi ex girlfriend (we weren’t as serious).

My mother, who is a closeted and self hating bisexual, worships her pedophile boyfriend and chose him over me.

I was raped by a bi woman as a child.

And lets not forget the trans cult and the cotton ceiling.

Bi women almost always prioritize, worship and cater to men, and, more often than not, erase their own sexuality.

As such, I have trouble trusting bisexual women.

And I won’t apologize for it, and neither should any other lesbian. Even though they are our sisters, bi women, more often than not, will throw lesbians under the bus in order to cater to males, or attack lesbians for their right to say no, or for being lesbians.

And there’s my two cents,

People always ask what is a long distance relationship,...

….how do they work, do they ever last and that they’re difficult.

True long distance is difficult but so is every relationship.

It’s a risk that everyone takes when they say words like “Will you be my girlfriend/boyfriend.”

But the truth is long distance is something than can be greater than having someone that lives in the same city as you.

Long distance is a comitment where the two of you might only see each other maybe once every six months or sometimes not even at all until one day you two find a way to meet.

It’s trust and love that may preval in long distance.

As long as if you keep your head up and believe in that you two can make it then one day both of your lives will collide and join as one.

It’s the will of love in the ones who care for each other that keeps them going on one day at a time.

Not everyone that they look for in someone is near by, that is why it’s okay to be with someone even though you may not even see them to often other than behind a monitor or hear there voice from phone call away.

No matter what people may say about long distance, it’s still something real in a relationship.

It just might take a little time in between before you two meet, but when you do its as if magic has struck.


He said it with me, like Jon used to do, back in Winterfell. She missed Jon Snow the most of all her brothers.”
(for Ryann)

What she says: I’m fine

What she means: Even though Deadpool has been confirmed as pansexual, there hasn’t been a lot of canon same-sex relationships in his history. We get subtle hints and see Wade be openly attracted to people of all genders but so far he’s only been in explicit relationship with women. Yes, there was his relationship with Cable but even then it might have been one-sided and it was never outright confirmed in the comics. Deadpool’s “true love” death is even represented as a women most of the time. Deadpool has had numerous relationships and there are plenty of occurrences in the comics where he flirts with women but his attraction to men and non-gender conforming people isn’t really shown in the same light. I want Deadpool to confirm his pansexuality in the comics and movies. Instead of creators confirming Wade’s sexuality and only giving subtle hints in comics, the creators should actually make Wade openly pansexual and have him in same-sex relationships.