Have you ever thought of the true meaning of a relationship?

Wether it’s boy/girl, girl/girl/ boy/boy, whatever.

I think todays society has forgotten what it really is. 

I feel that today everyone just thinks of sex and what they can get from people. There is no self respect anymore. And if there is, it is in the rare but best few. And no one wants to put in the work to get them.

No-one wants to fight for anything anymore. If there is a problem, its over. Or neither person wants to talk it out. 

It’s all a game in the beginning too. Just be blunt. 

To me, a relationship is more then just two people together with a label. 

A relationship, is a companionship between two people. Two people who are friends and lovers. They can trust each other with everything. They can have deep intellectual conversations.They can have a good time together. They go to new places, try new food, try new things. They just have a ton of fun. There is no game. With the good there comes the bad. There are arguments and disagreements, but you work through them. 

There’s good and bad days in life right? Most of us make it through, correct? 

A relationship is being with someone, and knowing every little thing about them. From their favorite color, to their mannerisms, to their history of relationships with significant others, and family members. Its about being able to tell when they’re in a bad mood and knowing how to cheer them up, or knowing to leave them alone. It’s about knowing their fears and passions. It’s about knowing every little thing about someone. And their insecurities, and still accepting them. 

A relationship, is about being there for someone when they need you the most. A loss in their family, bad days, family troubles, insecurities. Its about helping that person succeed in life. Supporting them. Helping them achieve their goals. Caring for them. 

You start as friends, make a ton of amazing memories, and maybe, just maybe fall in love with eachother. 

“Have you ever met someone and just felt a connection right away? You don’t know what it is but you’re just drawn to that person. You try your best to point out their flaws but their flaws just become part of the reason you like them. You spend most of your time thinking about them or just thinking about if they’re thinking about you. It’s pretty scary actually. What if they don’t feel the same? What if you’re not what they expected down the road? You shouldn’t really think about that. You can only be yourself.When you want to better yourself so that you can be better for someone else.. that’s when you know. I’m not saying I’ve met someone that has done this to me but I’m definitely not saying I haven’t.” -Joe Santagato 

I reposted this from Joe Santagato,it is just so relevant to me right now.

Lots of weird encounters today

On the subway, while walking up a flight of stairs, someone from behind me tried to grab my arm while saying “Pretty lady”.
I said thank you really fast then walked a bit faster up the stairs, never looked back.

Then on the boardwalk, a mime winked and blew a kiss to me to which my friend kim(itcouldntbemoreobvious) and I started giggling and freaking out because honestly that doesn’t happen every day.

Then on the train back, a dude was, according to my friend, either filming our conversation or taking a picture of us.
I didn’t even notice. :0

There was also a mishap but that I’d rather take as a good learning experience and forget it forever.

Over all today was pretty much great and we also got kung fu bubble tea.

ellennx1 asked:

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I knew you’d ask me questions. :)


1.The meaning of my url.

I was talking with one of my follower, a personI personally know. And have known for years. Anyways we were talking and she was listening to a song and there wa a line that said something about being obvious. So I think I switched it up sarcastically and said it couldn’t be more obvious. And at the time, I was trying to think of something to change my url. So I used it becasue I though it was creative.

3.Why I love my bestfriend.

Okay. Well this is slightly complicated. I have a few best friends. They are all girls. there are about 2 of them.  These two girls are the best two things in my life. We have all been through different things in life but I connect with each of them in a different way.And I need to explain them separately.

First. This girl has been my friend since I lived upstate. I made many friends upstate but I have faded away from most of my other friends. She is now in massachusetts in college. But we have been through thick and thin. And we have been there for each other through the craziest shit. Good and bad. We click on such a level.  She feels like a sister I never had. In my phone she is actually “Sister From Another Mister <3”. haha. We talk every couple of days.  I miss her so much. We have so many good memories. I don’t think we’ve gotten in one argument. I cannot imagine my life without her. I trust her with everything. I cant explain much more.

Second. This is my best friend from the city. She was so cool and nice when we first met. She just automatically accepted me. We’ve only been best friends for like a year. And I feel like ive known her forever. I cant even explain how much I love her. We tell each other everything. She has said some of the nicest things to me. I cant even handle them. She pretty much knows everything about me. In my phone shes under “Abugaboo <3”

I would have no idea, what I would do with out either of these ladies. They are my life. If I have a disagreement with either of them I go crazy. I have to fix it automatically. I could go on forever about both of them. But then that would be the longest post in the world. I love them both. My friend from upstate wont see this but my city friend will. 

and finally.

11. Age

I’m 18. 19 October 4th.