there really is no one size fits all when it comes to dating. that’s why it’s important to pay attention to your intuition and your spirit. you have to learn to trust yourself and be in a place where you can tell what is and isn’t right for you. you know better than anyone else whether or not the relationship can and will work. yes, you can listen to your instincts and get blind sighted when the person you love and trust hurts you. but even in that situation, you have to know what’s best for you so you know if you should stay or go. so much of dating is just knowing who you are and what you want and what you deserve. no one can give you that instinct but you.
Looking at all the maps of Westeros we've seen, there are a lot less castles than one might expect (considering the size of the continent). Do you think we only see the bigger castles and, if so, what is the cut-off point at which the castles are considered too small to not be included? Would these smaller keeps all be run by masterly houses like the Glovers or how would they fit into the feudal system present in the books?