Being stressed out one day and Sam jokes that you need to get laid and you say "That'd be great, but it would be wrong of me to ask the person I want for it" "Why? Long as they're legal and consenting, what's the big deal?" And you just groan and say it's Bucky and how he needs to focus on getting better and finding his memories, not something dumb like getting physical so the frustration is painful but not nearly as painful as it would be to ever knowingly hurt James Barnes.
“Yeah, you’re probably right”. Sam mutters with a focused expression. “But maybe that’s what he needs?”
“What do you mean?”
“The little things are also important to help him to figure out who he is.” He keeps explaining. “And I’m pretty sure he would let you help him with that”. Sam smirks.
“You think so?” You ask hopeful.
He nods. “It’s a win win, you help him, and you stop being so grumpy”.
I’m gonna shamelessly leave this here