it's-just-annoying

the paedophile jokes directed to vik really need to stop. like i get it funny jokes in cah about vik liking 12 yr olds because he plays minecraft hah hah hilarious. but to see disgusting jokes about the subject with him tagged in it just disgusts me.
like you can see when in like cah theres a gross card directed to him he gets like lowkey uncomfortable and then i just see people tweeting him that??? like?? wyd?
the jokes arent even funny or creative anymore its getting so old.
and apparently someone asked him at upload “how many kids he has in his basement” like i get it on like tumblr you can make your shit jokes but to ask that when youre there what the actual fuck?? like you dont say that to people wtf
like boohoo a vik stan ranting!1!1!!1 but like seriously think about it, how would you feel if you got that shit every day?

Ok quick rant thingy cause I feel like shit

Aaaaahahahahahaaaa
Ok so my mom finally arrived from Saudi and I’m not too happy about it cause she’s 90% annoying most of the time-
It’s just- she asks waaaay too many questions or like she just repeats the same thing over and over again (or does more other stuff that annoys me easily)

So like- a few weeks ago my dad said he finally got me a new phone and he was going to let my mom bring it here once she comes back to the ph

Now that she is here, I asked her politely for it and she refused to give it to me or at least let me have a look because “she wasn’t in the mood cause my little brother is sad(cause of some immature af reason)” or something like that

And I’m like: “well uh you don’t have to make it a big deal- he’s an ass but he can just be ok with it in a few minutes yknow-”

And she still didn’t want to and her mood just went to being upset (which got way more annoying) because she just wanted to see everyone smile and shiz-

I’m very sorry mom but pls if you get upset about something small, please don’t be a lazy hoe talking about how sad you are and just doing nothing about it like an emo kid would usually do-


Crap I feel like a piece of shit by just saying those,,,
I am a piece of shit ahha

Certain YOI Fans: I ship Yurio with Victor/Yuuri

YOI Fandom: You can’t do that they’re 23/27 it’s gross.

Fans: You’re right *stops shipping them and starts to ship Yurio and Minami because of the age difference and how cute they’ll look together*

Certain members of the YOI Fandom: You can’t ship that. They haven’t even met.

Fans: But…..

Certain members of the YOI fandom:No

Fans: Fine. *starts to ship Yuri with JJ*

Certain Members: You can’t do that either, JJ is 19 and Yurio is 15.

Fans: But they have a 4 year difference like Victor and Yuri.

Certain Members: That’s different Victor and Yuri are adults.

Fans: *points toward the Phichit and Guang Huang ship* Ji is 17 and Phichit is 20 but people still ship that.

Fans: *points to the fanfictions where Yuri and Victor are younger*

Fans: So who should I ship him with?

Certain members:

Fans: I thought so.

‘Why do Feysand and Rowaelin not get treated exactly the same way in the narrative/look exactly the same/why does Rhys do some things Rowan doesn’t/why is Rowan allowed to do some things that the narrative addresses with Rhys and points out that they’re not good’? repeat forever. 

Because there is not one model of a good/healthy relationship. It does not work Feyrhys = healthy; everything else = toxic. 

Because women are not carbon copies of one another. We have different tastes. We have different likes. We have different needs in a relationship. We are our own individual people and we need our partners to respond to our personal preferences, likes, and dislikes and not simply have someone behave exactly the same way to every single person they’re with. 

Feyre dislikes feeling smothered or not having her full freedom and independence. As such, when the mating bond snaps into place between her and Rhys, Rhys carefully explains to her why he feels protective and territorial and that he is working to stop doing that. Because she has been in an abusive relationship before where someone has done these things to an unhealthy level and is uncomfortable with any minor repetition of them. Rhys addresses her personal concerns and her personal needs and that is why the narrative picks this out and unpicks it and explains it with Rhys but not with Rowan. 

Aelin is a completely different character with a completely different backstory, a completely different set of insecurities and a completely different set of needs and Rowan responds to them. Aelin does not have a problem with Rowan being territorial or protective over, not in the way Feyre does. It might be a vague annoyance sometimes (AT THE VERY MOST) and even then she’s dismissive of it and it amuses her and it is never taken too far to the point that it restricts her freedom/the choices she can make/the things that she can do. And she is not in any way triggered by it as she has not experienced the same kind of abuse that Feyre has. 

Territorial behaviour of the kind that comes natural to the fae is not in itself abusive/unhealthy. Protectiveness over the people that you care about is not in itself unhealthy/abusive. What would be unhealthy would be to expect men to treat every single woman he meets/is with exactly the same way because it suits one single woman. That is reductive and frankly insulting.

 I have no doubt that Rhys would behave differently with Aelin and that Rowan would behave differently with Feyre because they are individual people with individual needs and desires and expecting Aelin to be treated the same as Feyre because this is apparently the only standard of a healthy relationship is frankly a little bit misoygnistic because, shock horror, not all women think the same/feel the same/like/dislike the same things. Isn’t that amazing? It’s as though we’re real people who know what we like and don’t like and expect the people closest to us to respect that and respond accordingly. Incredible. 

TL;DR Stop comparing Feyrhys and Rowaelin. Especially if the purpose of this is to say ‘Rhys does x, this is good for Feyre and makes their relationship healthy. Rowan does not do x, therefore this is bad for Aelin and makes their relationship unhealthy’ because, newsflash, that’s not the way it works

There is no one way to have a good, positive relationship. In fact that thinking in itself is unhealthy. Different people have different needs and their partners should therefore behave differently so suit those needs, not just mirror another’s behaviour because it has been deemed ‘The Most Healthy And Appropriate Way To Behave With Women’. Because. Guess what? Not all women are going to want/respond well to that and you ignoring their needs and wants in order to try and fulfil this idealistic idea of a perfect relationship is not healthy. Rowan is responding to what Aelin personally wants/needs/feels comfortable with. He is not Rhys, he does not behave like Rhys and that is completely okay because Aelin is not Feyre and does not need him to do that for her. 

if you think sanvers is better than clexa, good for you. don’t be a dick to people who don’t.

if you think clexa is better than sanvers, good for you. don’t be a dick to people who don’t.

if you’re jaded from how the 100 handled clexa and find it hard to trust that sanvers will be handled well, i don’t blame you bc same. but don’t guilt people who like and enjoy sanvers. 

people have their opinions and emotions. don’t be a dick bc you disagree. 

i still don’t understand how they both can be so kind after specifically saying for people not to wait at airports for them. How even after a long and tiring flight still manage to put a smile on their faces and say hello and take pictures. Because even though they were probably annoyed and just done, they would do anything for us, and some people just take advantage of that. 

Honestly the fact that there is more Kylo Ren merchandise than Rey merchandise is one of the most irritatingly sexist things

JFC people calm yo tits, a guy can have a woman friend as much as woman can have a man friend…not every two people seen together have to be in a relationship. But no, you are right, Jared has a new girlfriend in France and he makes long distance calls every day to listen to her talking about her croissant while he’s stroking his baguette.