Daddys dont have “daddy space”
Mommys dont have “mommy space”
Its not a space that can be claimed by a single gender of bigs.
ALL bigs can have a big space and it might sound ‘cuter’ when you use your specific care givers name, but remember when you do that you shut some other big out and you make someone feel shut out of something that they should never have been shut out from. Once again