I'm bi and my mom keeps telling me "you have no future with that girl, girls were made for boys" and "what will other people think" and it hurts and its so sucky and i wanna cry, and she says she'll throw me out if i don't stop my "nonsense" as she puts it, help...?
I’m so sorry to hear that - I can’t imagine what it must feel like for you. It sounds like a really toxic environment to be in, and I want to let you know that you’re brave for having endured it so far. I’m glad you reached out!
First off, you’re not alone. It might not help to hear, but there are lots of other people who share the same experiences that you’re having right now.
I don’t know where you live or what your age is, but I’m pretty sure that if you’re under 18, there’s lots of help to get if she does throw you out. Even if you’re older than 18, too. My suggestion is to look for support groups in your area - they could probably help you out from there. Nevertheless, I also advise you to speak to a professional, someone who knows how to handle a situation like this. I’m sure your school (if you’re in one) has opportunities for that.
Broaden your horizons, get help, talk to a trusted grown-up and professional. You’re not alone, and we’ll all have your back regardless of what happens. <3
Best of luck to you!
- Mod Elena 🌻