it's such a knowing loving family moment

Idk why do I do this to myself but I couldnt help it Im so sorry

I can totally see Yuri dreading the time Victor and Yuuri decide to have their first child, because knowing the two assholes, they’ll put him first on the list to babysit. Also, Yuri fucking hates children.

He just doesn’t get the fuss about babies everyone is all about, even his own boyfriend seems to love babies. They’d often talk about it, because yeah, they both want to have a family of their own eventually. Its just that Yuri always pictured their family being him, Otabek and a bunch of cats.

“Its stupid, Beka! Babies are stupid and this argument is stupid! Just the thought of a loud, stinky, gross mess of a human bothering me every waking moment makes me want to barf. The smell of milk all around our apartment? Fucking disgusting! And not only that. Are you really going to tell me you’d rather have endless sleepless nights trying to console a crying piece of shit instead of awesome nights of awesome sex? No thank you.”

And Otabek would just look at him and shake his head, smiling fondly. Because he knows Yuri’s childhood wasn’t easy, and maybe he just wants a few more years to be young and careless. Otabek gets it, and he can wait to have this conversation later, perhaps he’ll change his mind.

When Victor and Katsudon announce that they’re adopting a baby, Yuri’s reaction is slightly disappointing. He just rolls his eyes and stomps out of the room yelling back to them “Congrats on the worst decision you’ve ever made, you fuckers!”. Otabek thought that Yuri would’ve given into the concept of babies a little by now, but clearly that wasn’t the case.

Time goes by and Beka slowly gives up on the idea of having children with Yuri. Maybe its true, people don’t change.

But then the Victuuri baby arrives and everybody is thrilled. Otabek drags Yuri to see it because “even if you hate to admit it, they’re your family”. He tries to avoid any kind of contact during most of his time there, deciding to go for a beer downstairs while everyone else is gushing over the baby. Eventually he gets bored and goes to find Beka so they can finally go home.

But he wasn’t expecting to find Otabek with the baby in his arms, the light hitting the room just right, leaving everything looking rather ethereal. Yuri feels a familiar tug in his chest, just like when he realized for the first time that he was balls deep crazy in love with his boyfriend.

“Beka,” he hissed with his hands balled into fists, “what the fuck?”

Otabek turns to him with a questioning look on his face, and its just then that Yuri notices the blush on the other boy’s cheeks, very similar to the one he feels crippling up his own face.

“How dare you look like this? With a baby?!” Yuri says as he takes a step forward. When he’s close enough, he mindlessly runs a finger across the baby’s forehead, then looks up to find Otabek smiling softly, and maybe wants to die.

Also, he suddenly remembers they’re not alone, and sees Victor and Yuuri staring at them, looking as mushy as always. But surprisingly, he finds himself not being bothered by it for the first time ever. Actually, makes him feel kinda warm.

So yeah, maybe babies are not such a bad idea after all.


My way to say thank you for your art, sorry this is so shit.



Let’s start at the top. 

Because Sakura sees Syaoran’s pure joy and enthusiasm and she’s just so happy. 

That is the most incredible panel. Do you see it. Go see it. You must. SAKURA YOU HAVE IT SO BAD FOR THE NERD. 

But we also need to talk about the fact that the entire family is so genuinely supportive of Syaoran’s enthusiasm here. None of them share his same interest in history and reading but they leapt at the chance to bring him here and are so happy that he’s enjoying it. And that’s so important, both in general AND for Syaoran, because it’s another one of those moments that are about him and who he is and his identity outside of the quest for Sakura’s feathers. 

They’ve come a long way since the Land of Fog, but it’s the same kind of moment that he had there. Syaoran’s own passions and interests have had time to grow and expand, and he’s growing with them. More than that, I love the difference between the two worlds. Whereas in the World of Fog it was just a private moment between Syaoran and his memories (and after jumping into a lake for self sacrificing reasons) now it’s a moment between Syaoran and his family, who all support him and are excited for him and actively took steps to make this happen. 



Dom & Letty 3.0 - FOTF

“You will never be alone again.

I vow wherever you go, I go.

You ride, I ride.

You fight, I fight.

And if you ever die on me Dominic Torreto, I’m gonna die with you..”

Those were Letty’s vows to her husband the night they got married and this movie presents them in action. In part 6 we got to see Dom fight not only for her but for their love, having to captivate her all over again. Now here in part 8 the roles have been flipped and its Letty’s turn to either fall in line with others thoughts or fight for her husband. The difference in their battles is the fact that Dom was fighting for a resurface of memories and their undeniable draw/chemistry – while for Letty it’s about faith. The question of would Dom do this, would he turn his back on his family…on her, and when all the evidence says yes, does she still have the power to say no. How much does she know her husband, how much does she trust him and their love. She comes through with flying colors.

Like I said even though this is a flip, there are big differences, one of those being knowledge of enemy. Dom knew who his enemy was, he knew what had went wrong with her and who was using that for his own purposes. But Letty doesn’t have this same knowledge. She doesn’t know who the big bad is or why Dom is doing things that are totally against everything he is. That’s where the faith comes into play, because she has to everything off the back of it. Despite others telling her that this may be who he has become she has to go off of what she believes of him and their love and remind them of all the great things her husband has done for them while they’re so quick to give up on or judge him. She reminds us of her position and exactly where her loyalties reside when she responds to Hobbs by telling him that he’ll have to deal with the both of them when he warns her that he may have to put Dom down. She’s not just willing to fight for him, but beside him – and that’s not in the hope that he’s still good, but in the certainty that something else is going on because her Dom would never turn his back, the fight for the family is all he’s ever known. You know its certainty because she places her life in his hands. In the briefcase scene there was this great subtext moment because here’s the reality, that moment after he shot the gun in the air and she turned around and told him that he wouldn’t shoot her because he loved her…this moment really was about choosing – he had a choice, stop her and his baby survived another day. Let her go free and choose losing that. He let her go. It doesn’t matter that she got caught unaware around the corner by someone else…because he let her go. The next scene – the standoff – is also important because here he is again choosing to protect his wife with the knowledge of what it will cost him if he shoots this man. Not only that, but it comes back to that faith again. Because this moment is really her time to prove if she believes her husband is doing this for a reason or because he’s turned bad. She has to either side with him (let the case go) or keep it and get the other guy a bullet to the head – putting Dom in further hot water (it doesn’t matter that she doesn’t know exactly what that hot water is, only that she’s aware of its existence if she believes her husband to be innocent).

In one of my old Dotty articles I claimed that Dom had elevated in his Alpha status, that he had become the kind to analysis his enemy then to plot and plan.  That his control was of self and his lead was of understanding his mates and those around him. This chapter really proved those claims. He planned and adjusted to everything that happened (which I’ll go over in more detail in the review). The only thing he really couldn’t plan or adjust for was his wife. As they say – a driver’s weakness really is his best partner knowing all his tricks. She was the only one able to keep up with him cause she knew his tricks, when she got the briefcase he couldn’t adjust and ended up choosing her not once but twice which led to the punishment of Elena dying (not that I shed a tear – I knew she was gonna die the moment I saw that baby). The enemy’s biggest mistake was thinking it was an either or game with Dom – not realizing that he plays the long game his plan would be getting his child and going back to his wife…instead what she did was taunt the him with one (Letty) and bait his with the other (baby Brian). Big mistake leaving Letty out of her equation because she left something out there to fight for him and for him to fight for. She thought the baby would over compass that, she thought the baby would shadow his wife – she was wrong. It not about choosing the baby over Letty/family – it’s about connecting the two.  

I see people saying things like the baby ruined the relationship, it ruined Dom/Letty. No the baby may have ruined the fantasy as you saw it…but he didn’t ruin that relationship. Every one of their chapters has shown that nothing comes between that love because that love is the factor. Letty is not bothered, or upset by this child…and why would she be? It wasn’t something that intentionally happened and when she told Elena that she understood her relationship with Dom, she actually meant it. The baby wasn’t/isn’t a threat to her marriage. It doesn’t mean Dom was in love with Elena, cause he wasn’t. It doesn’t mean that Letty can’t have her own kids with him, cause she can. It doesn’t mean she’s gonna mistreat baby Brian, cause even though he may not have come from her womb – he is still a part of her husband and like him family means everything to her. It doesn’t mean that their kids will take second place just because it came second – understand that there will be no distinction between these kids. Understand that just because this baby didn’t come out of her womb doesn’t mean he’s not her son too. That’s what the Fast & Furious has always been about –a family created not by blood but by bond. Dom and Letty are now parents – maybe not in the way we originally thought/wanted, but in a way that’s not wrong regardless.

One of my favorite things about this series and about this relationship is everyone understands that when it comes to Dom and Letty – the shit that’s between them is undeniable and there’s no walking away from it. When they reunite and he lets her know he hadn’t walked away, she says she knows. Dom and Letty see themselves as soulmates, as bonded, as ride or die. Whatever you wanna call it, it all means the same thing -Love- They’ll follow, they’ll ride, they’ll fight, and they’ll die for it. Isn’t that the ideal, isn’t that why we clamor for it, why we cling to and love it?  

We’ve gushed at their cuteness/power, we cried when she died, we cheered with a blood of vengeance when Dom sought revenge, we fought for the Letty comeback, and we all gasped and gave a standing O when we all saw Letty’s pic after the credits, we died and came back to life when Dom fought for her, their love and their future. We threw our hat into this ring a long time ago and I don’t know about you guys, but mine still resides there and always will as long as the franchise holds close those ideals that are so dear to me - Loyalty, Love, Family, Romance and the sacrifice/fight in the name of those things. As long as it centers and protects the Dotty goodness. Familia remember that we fought for this shit right here. Our OTP’s love is written all over this piece and that is in part thanks to us fans. Romance is thrown to the side in action flicks, used to create some angst by killing off one of the lovers or back-filler that gets no real shine.  But with F&F we get it all, the action, the romance, the family. Sixteen years and the pairing is only getting stronger. I loved this movie because it really defined the love this time around. I don’t just mean romantic love either. It really put the quote ‘you don’t turn you back on family…’ to work, because even though some of them had been misjudging Dom the moment his life was in danger – what did they do? Every time I think they can’t emote further, that they can’t make me feel more about the emotion that resides in these films and yet every time I’m wrong. With the Dom and Letty relationship when I say it defined the love…I mean it really cemented what love means to them – as a pairing not just from Dom to Letty. If I had to pick one word to describe their type of love it would be faith. We’ve seen the trait throughout their relationship over the years and in a big way in part 7 when he let her go on the faith that she would figure it out and come back to him (cause you can’t tell someone they love you). Like I said earlier, it’s her total being in this film - because their faith in one another is so strong, so is the certainty of their love. The reason they can trust one another so immensely, the reason they’re so loyal to one another, the reason they’re so willing to sacrifice, the reason they make each other so damn happy is because of that certainty. They give and know its to be returned with the same passion. They love each other and they always will. It’s the reason they work, the reason they always find themselves together. It’s the reason they’re so indestructible. It’s the reason we’re so damn blessed.

Notes: Videos not mine first one is Queen of hearts and the second is of course one of my all time favs - you know I always gotta in with a ConquerGravity video because the vids are just so damn on point to what I’m getting at. Every time I see a ConGrav vidseo it always makes me see a bigger picture of what I think and feel about this pairing and they’re relationship. None of the videos are new cause the new film just came out but oldies can make you feel new things. I didn’t put everything in this post because I am coming out with a review of the movie and theres a lot of points that connect to that so I stripped this down and left it as bare as possible. I went and saw the advance showing…but I’m going again tonight to see it so I’ll write the review after and hopefully have it up by later Sunday night. Sorry this is so long with no images…

Other Dotty / Vincelle Works:

Dotty Ship Awareness Part 1 / Dotty Ship 2Dotty NonCasual /Future Wishes for F&F / Vincelle Actor Relate Awareness

Other Fast and Furious Post(s):

Brian & Dom


Pairing: Dean Winchester x Reader

Summary: You decide to ask Dean about how is Heaven like and share one of your biggest fears.

Words: 647

Warnings: some angst, some fluff. Flangst? 

A/N: Hope y’all like it! Feedback is very appreciated!


Originally posted by iwriteaboutdean

A couple of months ago, you were hurt on a job. A werewolf dug its claws horribly on you and you’d lost so much blood, you had thought that was it for you. Despite your condition Dean and Sam did not give up on you. You were in and out of consciousness, they stitched you up, and stayed at the bunker waiting for you to be completely healed before going on a hunt again.

Since that moment you were afraid of dying. You’ve always been afraid of the idea of dying, but now you had a close encounter with death and that scared the hell out of you. It got you thinking what is beyond the veil.

One night you were lying in bed with Dean watching a movie and you couldn’t help but ask that question that was running inside my head for a while.


“What’s up sweetheart?” he asked.

“Can I ask you a question?”

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-At the end of family game night-
  • Marco: Mom, dad.. I think I do have something else to tell you two...
  • Marco, pausing for a moment, almost in tears and gripping her dress: I... I'm..-
  • Rafael putting his hand on her leg: It's okay, we already know and we still love and support you
  • Marco begins to cry and her father hugs her tightly: ... I love you too!

A short SwanQueen/SwanMillsFamily oneshot. Their four year old daughters stumbles across Henry’s storybook where she sees a picture of the Evil Queen causing her to push Regina away and leaving Emma to pick up the pieces. Fluff. I don’t own Once or any of its characters. Apologies for any mistakes. Hope you enjoy :)

Emma frowns as she walks through her front door to hear screaming. Admittedly, it’s not an odd noise in their house. Between the four year old, the teenager and their newly acquired dog (just one at the moment but knowing Regina the next time she visits the animal shelter, there’ll be more), the mansion is normally filled with noise.

It’s that noise that Emma loves. Silence reminds her of loneliness and rootlessness. Noise, even if it is shouting and sometimes too loud, is the marker of family. When she walks in to hear a chorus of hello’s or to a house filled with laughter, it’s a reminder that she is loved and a part of something truly remarkable to her – a family.

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the ship's goin' crazy

so its been two days since we’re fed af with kd moments i swear im doing this because its fcking too much. ksoo arranging/fixing idk whats he doing to jong’s mic killed me //bcs he kinda look like he gonna kiss him aw. And what is really gold to these recent moments (well everythings gold tho) is that jong’s choices in those questions link everything that they did or said before ㅠㅠ AND OMFG DONT EVER FORGET THEIR PENGUIN DRAWINGS ITS A FUCKING FAMILY PORTRAIT Y'ALL.

we all know that kaisoo has a new concept; being highkey. (Those subtle moments… d e a d) i love it when they do things together or having a moment together like they dont care anymore.

And im hoping for more kd moments for japan fanmeeting day-3. ㅠㅠ i love them so much

For One Day

“For One Day”

I wish for one day,
I could be someone else.
To say what they say.
To feel what they felt.

I want a new mind,
A new body; a new heart.
I want to be able to find,
What I looked for from the start.

I wish for one time,
I was you instead of me.
To see through your eyes.
To see what you see.

I want new dreams.
New desires; new goals.
New fabric at the seams,
And a way to plug this hole.

I want a new direction.
A new purpose, a new meaning.
If I want perfection,
I’ll audition for screenings.

I want new gloves.
New family, new friends,
Except the ones I love,
Are invited to attend.

I wish for a moment,
I could see inside your head,
And all of its components,
To say the things you said.

Because I feel worn down.
So jaded and so cold.
Its time to pass the crown,
Because I am getting old.

I feel on most days,
Forgotten and removed.
I’m someone you throw away,
Like a pair of worn out shoes.

You don’t understand,
What its like to be me.
So lets not pretend,
I have a healthy body.

You don’t want to know,
The thoughts in my head.
They once brightly glowed,
But now they spell out dread.

So let us start over,
Please God if you may.
Wishing upon clovers,
For brighter, better days.

[SCENARIO] How the Performance Team will Propose (MH/DN)

AND WE’RE DONE WITH THE PROPOSAL SCENARIOS! Thank you so much for supporting this mini scenario series. It was definitely enjoyable to imagine how these scenes would play out, and we hope you guys would love it too! We’re not currently accepting any more scenario requests, so be sure to look out for the reopening of our request box if you would like to see a new scenario series!

A/N: That wraps up the Performance Team! Hope you guys enjoyed this <3 Pepo Team’s Maknae line always makes me so soft ugh I wanna squish them forever.


Originally posted by saebum


Okay, so they may not be the most romantic or flamboyant, but know this: though unconventional, the boys can be pretty darn sincere and so so so sweet with their proposals your teeth will get cavities. Who needs epic and grand proposals? They want the special moment to be for you and ONLY FOR YOU.


Originally posted by minghaos

  • The Shyest but the sweetest kid ever
  • So he’s really shy at initiating
  • As a boyfriend, he is always the considerate and understanding
  • From helping you queue for your favourite oppa’s merchandise
  • To surprising you with your favourite food when u tell him you’re hungry at 2am
  • Will definitely prepare many many many MANY things just for the proposal
  • Probably already has approval from his parents
  • Invites you over for a casual date in his home
  • Buys flowers and everything romantic WHEE
  • Prepares like dimsum for a nice meal before the big event
  • WILL GIFT YOU THE prized family possession
  • Okay abit cliche but you know the part where he just takes out the gold-ish jade-ish bracelet and he goes
  • “This used to by my mum’s”
  • /takes your hands
  • /looks into your eyes
  • /puts on the bracelet for you
  • “Now its yours”
  • Both of you just pause there for a moment, enjoying each other’s silence and loving gaze
  • You’re just staring at him like he’s the most precious thing in the world
  • “Will you marry me? Y/N?”
  • And internally you’re just frozen, like you’re so so SOOOO Happy and delighted
  • This shy boy, making a proposal, in front of you, in his apartment
  • Your pause made him feel uncertain and he just looks somewhere else like ANYWHERE but your eyes because he’s 1. Nervous and 2. Super shy and slightly embarassed and 3. AFRAID OF YOUR REJECTION (But ofc he is very sure of the relationship that the both of you are in)
  • THEN AGAIN how could you reject someone so precious like Minghao
  • As soon as you nod your head, he just LETS GO OF HIS EMOTIONS like you can see all his stress fade away from the relief on his face and he’ll pull you in for a long, tight hug
  • At some point you’ll feel his tears trickle down your neckline as he leans the side of his face on your ear during the hug
  • Both of you will be a crying mess just laughing at each other
  • “Why you crying pabo”
  • “But you’re crying too”
  • Just in total bliss the both of you would be
  • Ah love <3


Originally posted by livelovelunch

  • I’d like to imagine that Chan would love to date someone that loves dance as much as he does
  • Like, you don’t need to be a professional dancer or anything, but he gets so soft every time he sees the sparkle in your eyes whenever you watch someone dance, your passion, your awe, your sheer appreciation for that art
  • He prefers if it was him you were watching, though
  • You both do this thing where he would play soft music in your home, the empty practice room, anywhere private really, and you would just hold hands and feel the music, swaying happily in each other’s arms
  • You both watch that show and you both love that scene so so so so much
  • He even tries to call you ‘my Sapphire’ for a nickname once but you both ended up getting teased by the boys (he still saves it as your contact name, tho)
  • And his name on your contacts has a little red ruby emoji next to it 🔴
  • So anyway, back to the proposal
  • I doubt Chan would be exactly willing have a GRAND, ROMANTIC proposal that involves all the preparations and all that stuffs
  • And he wouldn’t tell the boys when he’s planning to propose
  • Because he really doesn’t want them to freak out or become super overbearing or anything like that
  • Also because he wants this moment to be special just for you and only the both of you
  • It’ll just be like any other day, you both will be taking a relaxing walk through the gardens
  • Kids are already home for dinner now so it’s pretty deserted, but oh so romantic with flowers readily blooming at the peak of spring
  • Maybe he’d be having a bad day at practice, so you’d bring him out to relax and unwind after work
  • And he feels so lucky that you’re always looking out for him and taking care of him
  • Hand in hand you’d bring him to a small but prettily lit pavilion
  • “It’s really nice here, isn’t it?” you tell him.
  • “Would you like to dance with me?”
  • And he does, slipping your hands into his you both waltz to a slow, melodious song, his body behind yours, his chin on your shoulder
  • You can feel the timbre of his voice when he lightly hums to the song, and it makes you so soft and it takes all you could to not melt in his arms
  • He’d start planting little butterfly kisses down your neck and you laugh in protest because it tickles.
  • And your laugh is just melodious to his ears. He wants nothing more than to be able to wake up to this every morning.
  • So he tightens his hold on you and sighs ever so blissfully, “God, I want to spend the rest of my life with you.”
  • You chuckle again, “You flatter me, Chan.” But the look in his eyes were dead serious and so full of emotion. “I mean it, I want to be with you forever.”
  • And he gets down on one knee.
  • “I know I don’t really have everything prepared… I’m not the most well-endowed, nor am I the most talented, but I’ll try my damnedest best to make you the happiest girl on Earth, so please…
  • “Will you be my dance partner for the rest of my life?”
  • Your only response is gleefully throwing your arms around his neck, and he happily lifts you off your feet and swings you around the pavilion, planting sweet kisses along your jawline (like how Ruby does alsjflkjfsaf) as you both celebrate.
My top 5 Kunoichis

5. Hinata Hyuga

  • she wears her heart on her sleeve and I respect that. 
  • Still confused on wtf her hair color is. 
  • Delicate flower but can still pulverize u, noob. 
  • Chakra points crusher co-co-co-combooo. 
  • In dire need of a stylist, tbh. I VOLUNTEER.
  • Her crippling shyness struck us hard cuz u know deep down u can relate to that shit. 
  • Her love for Naruto is either adorably romantic or terrifyingly stalker-like, and I love it either way. 
  • Naruto would be like, restraining-order-no-jutsu! Just a joke. jeez lighten up.
  • Whenever i look at her angelic face it makes my non existent dick so hard and i dunno whyyyy wtf is this withcraft?!

4. Sakura Haruno

  • let’s be honest, there is a lot of hate and flak about her…and frankly my dear i don’t give a damn.
  • She does not deserve that kind of treatment. 
  • She already proved she is a fucking titan. Ya just can’t mess with her.
  • She can rip yo asshole in half and would still have time to rip u another asshole, too. 
  • SHE AIN’T THE SAME CRYBABY AS BEFORE THO SHE STILL IS, MAYBE JUST A LITTLE BIT. Have u seen the op & ed songs of the series? Why is she always crying? 
  • Tsunade is so proud that she surpassed her in every way. Maybe not in the chest area though. FOR THAT she is relieved.
  • She bloomed into one of the greatest shinobis of her generation. 
  • Pink hair, don’t care. Fabulouuusss

3. Kushina Uzumaki 

  • She is the OG. All hail supreme goddess! 
  • She’s got guts, strength, charm and a nine-tailed beast cursed inside of her so ya better watch out, fam. 
  • Heart of gold
  • Her WARM SMILE just lights up the perpetual darkness in my soul.
  • Dominated, conquered all them haters with her fierceness
  • MinaKushi is definitely relationship goals. 
  • I cry everytime she and naruto have their family moments in the series. It’s like they remind me that I ain’t dead inside yet & that comforts me a lot. 
  •  Easily has the best mom award hands down.

2. Tenten  

  • She will smack all the sense into you when you really need it. She is practically your idiot-avoidance therapist. be grateful
  • Oriental Aesthetic.
  • She is a lowkey comedian. I snicker at the thought of her traditional humor. Yeah fuck you, kishimoto she is hilarious af in my headcanon
  • The big sister you wish you had. 
  • Dayum her fashion sense is always on point, teach me sensei. 
  • Lee’s own anchor, believe me he needs it. 
  • She does not have a surname and we all know people with only one name are fucking lit. (Madonna, Beyonce, Adele, Eminem, Prince… Enya?) wtf
  • Her hard work and determination gives me hope. 
  • Weapons Merchant in the streets, Weapons dominatrix in the sheets. 
  • underneath those cute chinese hair buns and soft brown eyes are heaps of badassery & metal tools that will kill yer sorry ass. 

1. Ino Yamanaka 

  • well, obviously were u even that surprised? Beauty, brains & talent all rolled into one gorgeous creature.
  •  An overachiever, she is a botanist, a skilled medic, a housewife, topnotch interrogator, owns a flower shop, probably the head of her clan. Like wtf ino how do u do it? I can’t even balance jack shit in my life. 
  • SHIPPER’S PARADISE. I ship her with literally anybody. Just not with Akamaru but, if that floats your boat then you better get checked right away, hun.
  • I wanna know her brand of lipstick, Girl knows her make up, SALUTE.
  • Miss Sunshine to all, Miss Annoying to Shikamaru. 
  • Her mind games will fuck you up.
  • You secretly wish she was your bestie in real life too pls don’t deny it. 
  • Her knowledge of flowers and their meanings tho. 
  • I have a soft spot for sky blue eyes i’m so sorry. Nope not even sorry at all.
  • Beware, her loud mouth has no stop signal. 

Hi, I’m just gonna sit over here squealing because:
- ‘teachable moments’
- Cas sniffing the waitress to see if she actually smells like food (because if dean thinks its important, it is)
- hang on hold the phone everybody CASSIE LOVES HIS FAMILY
- Crowley you emotionally constipated cutie we know you love us
- Mary is a sly slithering lying snake I hate her
- also: MARY WINCHESTER’S “boys” INCLUDES CASTIEL. The world turns! the sun is up and Mama Winchester is the love of my soul!
- the colt!!
In short, whichever fan fiction author is holding the writers hostage, I AM LOVING YOU.


Its exactly one year ago we had this beautiful and long awaited moment in Bates Motel. Its incredible that you remember that day as if it was in your own family. I seriously miss them so much and I’m sure I will never love an OTP as much as I love them. Never ever again. They deserved happiness and luck together but just had it for two weeks. But I’m sure we all know Norma always felt kind of happy when he was around. That was more than enough. But we exactly knew, deep down, they’d end up together. They were meant to be. They had this kind of thing from the very first moment. I’m thankful for having this incredible storyline of two amazing, beautiful, flawed characters. Thankful for every minute of them even it was over too soon. 💍😢❤

anonymous asked:

I have so many Chat/Adrien headcanons. Sooo many. But one of my favorites is of him being an exceptionally loving father once he and Marinette have a family. He knows what it's like to feel forgotten and neglected, and he's never going to take a chance on his kids ever feeling that way for a moment. He's a bottomless pit of hugs and encouragement and loving words and forehead kisses. He loves his children with his whole heart, and they will never ever doubt that.


anonymous asked:

Hope this isn't a bother but i've been a bit down, I was wondering how the main 4 Paps and Sans' would react to an s/o who's gone through a lot of emotional abuse at the hands of friends and family, and is a little paranoid about trusting people for it?

I’m sorry this took so long school’s been kind of a pain in the ass. Also, I don’t have much personal experience with emotional abuse, so hit me up if I get something tragically wrong

I’d like to take this time to make a distinction. The skelebros are not perfect. They will not always handle your mental issues in the healthiest way. But they care about you. A lot. 

Also…..I don’t think I’ve written enough detail to be triggering, and I’m tagging it obviously, but if any of you guys need it I’m happy to put this under a cut

UT!Sans: “a little paranoid about trusting people”….yeah, could be the title of his biography honestly. Different reasons, but he knows what its like to have a hard time opening up, to worry that other people can’t be trusted with all the hurt inside. He doesn’t push you to be open, he just tries to be worthy of your trust, by being there as much as he can. It sucks that people in your past have been like this, but he hopes he and his friends can take care of your present and future.

UT!Papyrus: He doesn’t understand as….personally as his brother does, but he knows how to deal with it. A lifetime with Sans has taught him he doesn’t have the right to pry into every door. And sometimes, yeah, he asks questions when he shouldn’t, he pushes too much. But in general he tries to respect your boundaries. He doesn’t bring up your family if you don’t, but in his own way, he’s trying to make up for them by being the best he can for you.

UF!Sans: He understands baggage. He’s got a lot of his own. There’s an unspoken rule between the two of you that you don’t ask questions about each other’s past. If one of you volunteers information, that’s fine, you comfort each other, are there for each other. But in general both of you prefer to act like the world didn’t really exist before you met each other. Its not necessarily healthy, but its what works for you, at least. 

UF!Papyrus: Your family pisses him off a LOT. Ironic, considering his history with Sans (what they had wasn’t quite emotional abuse but there were points where it wasn’t far off) but then we always do hate the sins that we see in ourselves. Every time he finds out you’ve been internalizing shit, every time he tries to be genuine with you and you can’t respond as you want, because there is a part of you that cannot be sure of his intentions no matter how much you want to be… makes him want to hurt them. Badly. But he does his best to be there for you. To understand when you need to withdraw. To know that its not a reflection on him when you struggle to trust. And to give you your space when you need it.

US!Sans: He’s an intuitive guy. Even before you told him he kind of sensed that it was something to that effect. He picked up pretty fast that there was a lot you didn’t feel comfortable saying or doing with him, things that you didn’t feel okay telling him. He doesn’t really do it as much himself, but like Tale Sans he kind of understands the need to keep things to yourself. That’s part of why he developed his cheerful demeanor. It made it easier to mask that sometimes being treated like everyone’s little brother really got to him. So he knows better than to confront it directly. He goes at it from the side, more subtlety than usual. He just does his best to make you feel as protected and safe as possible. He makes a point of listening to you when you talk, responding to it no matter how inane the comment. It may upset him that you may never feel ready to be totally open with him, but until you’re ready he wants to make sure you know he’s listening.

US!Papyrus: ever met someone where you’ve only known them for a few days but somehow they’ve got you spilling life secrets that even your close friends don’t know? Paps is one of those people. In your case it takes more than his usual effort, but he’s good at getting you to open up, and he’s pretty good about respecting boundaries when he can’t. In general he’s okay with however much you’re comfortable sharing, and won’t talk about your family if you won’t.

SF!Sans: To be perfectly honest, he doesn’t understand why its so hard for you to trust him. He may be the terrible and Maleficent Sans, but don’t you believe him by now that he would never hurt you like that?! It’ll take him some time to understand, and when he does, it just makes him pissed at those people in your past. But slowly he becomes very good at giving you your space when you need it. In many ways Papyrus has some similar needs, and while the situations aren’t exactly the same he learns to apply some of the skills he learned with his brother to yours and his. He won’t always hit it out of the park, but above all he won’t hurt you intentionally. In his mind its his job to protect you from people like that in your life, not be one of them

SF!Papyrus: He’s probably the most okay with the need to isolate since he does that a shit-ton himself. As for the trust issues…..well, ot him trust is a two-way street. Once he gets comfortable about you, he starts being more open, about his past, his emotions, etc. Nothing too big or overwhelming, he won’t use you as a therapist or anything. But when the moment is right he’ll let you in just a little more, let himself be just a little more vulnerable with you. He’s hoping that him being exposed like this will help you feel more comfortable around him, especially with the vulnerable stuff. If that time never comes, its fine, he can’t fix everything for you. But he wants you to know that its okay. That you don’t need to spill your guts for him to know that you love him. And that he knows that your family has screwed you up deeply, and that he’s willing to deal with the sacrifices they foisted upon both of you because of it.

anonymous asked:

I don't quite understand closed religions. What if I want to worship traditionally Native American spirits and such? Why can they determine that I'm not allowed to, even if somebody else with Native American heritage gave me permission? And no, I'm not white, so the thing "so you don't destroy more of their culture as an evil white person" doesn't apply to me (I've heard it before, not saying that you would say that at all)

Hi! Professor Goat here! Resident White Guy™and teacher at OWS. 

I would like you to imagine for a moment that you’ve just bought a house. It’s a lovely two bedroom, with bay windows and an ivy covered trellis. (I know, “IN THIS ECONOMY?!”…apologies for that, but this is a fantasy, so bear with me.)

So you’ve got this lovely house, with a lovely book collection full of rare tomes, family journals, sketchbooks; its just an incredible collection. You’ve also remodeled the bathroom, because you’re turning this storybook real estate into a bed and breakfast, hospitality cha-ching.

Now when people go to use your toilet, they usually take something to read. Over time you begin to notice that there’s gaps in your shelves. People are taking your books with them when they leave. Furious, you put up signs, ask nicely, consider imposing fines—but they won’t be held up in small claims court. You decide to shut down the BnB and only host good friends and family.

Plot twist: Your neighbour was telling people they could take your things all along and sell it on eBay.

This is what religious appropriation is like. Taking advantage of hospitality, or a group’s marginalisation for your own gains/entertainment. If you are truly invested/interested in entering a closed culture or religion:

  • Research. Not just one Google search. But really research the history and prerequisites of what it is you would like to take part in. 
  • Contact any elders/people of authority in that community. (Some customs reject potential converts the first few times to test their will/sincerity.) 
  • Get involved in the community, contribute. Don’t take a plate if you didn’t help in the kitchen, with other chores, or haven’t tried to help in any other way you can.
  • Support Native artisans. Support Native artisans. Support Native artisans
  • Go to a pow-wow. Ask before taking photos of people in their regalia, and respect any announcements made about photography. If you plan on posting and/or selling your photos, let people know while asking for consent. Appreciate the regalia with your eyes, not your hands. This isn’t Urban Outfitters.
  • Listen. One “friend” does not speak for an entire cultural group. Also, don’t tokenise your friends. They’re not playing cards, don’t collect one of each to have a TRAP CARD in any racial discourse.
  • Don’t be petulant/disrespectful if you are rejected. Have some decency. Temper tantrums shouldn’t get kids and candy bar and they shouldn’t get people into a closed path. 

Hey, I’m Chief Moderator Bee, and someone who is currently working on getting my NA citizenship. 

I’ll address things as you presented them, in order. 

 First, if you don’t know or understand something, Google is a nifty free resource that everyone can access in some form. It can help a lot! Second, no, you don’t get to worship NA spirits. Nobody cares how much you want to. You’re not NA, you don’t get to take their culture. The end. Third, having permission from ‘somebody else with NA heritage’s doesn’t mean jackshit. In this day and age, many Americans have some NA blood, that does not give them the authority to grant permission for others to use NA cultures, NOR does it make them automatically NA. So just because your friend said it’s okay doesn’t mean they speak for NA tribes, and even if they were a citizen, they still wouldn’t be the authority, because they do not represent NA peoples.

 On that note, in order to be considered NA, you have to have NA citizenship (something I am working on getting) and the way to get that is to have a family member on the Dawes roll. So no, you don’t get to have it unless you are a citizen. 

Fourth, nobody cares that you aren’t white, it’s still theft and you’re every bit as responsible for not stealing from other cultures. You are still destroying NA heritage even though you aren’t white. Given that you aren’t white, I’m sure you can understand the suffering and shame caused by people stealing your culture, so you should know better. Being POC isn’t a religion. 

 T:dr - you’re not special and you’re not Native American, so no, you don’t get to take their culture for your own. 

While this was being written, Headmistress Trick asked for opinions from some of her close NA friends:

  • Native Americans have a long history of adopting those not born of their tribe into then ceremonially if you actually devote yourself to  study, preservation and advocating. 
  • It takes years of dedication. If you want to be involved start learning about the cultural history from actual native historians, not the versions other people wrote.
  • Take language classes from the tribe you are wanting to get closer to. 
  • In all things remember to be respectful. 
  • Do not correct your elders.
  • Give more than you take and contribute. 
  • Be mindful in making the distinction between stereotype and actual culture. 
  • Do not ever speak for the tribe unless you are an elected official. 
  • Also if you are serious, pick one tribe and focus on their traditions. 
  • This is very serious for them, if you try to pick and choose the best bits from each culture and try to leave the hard parts they will not take you seriously.
  • Expect to be turned away. A lot. 
  • And never ever try to profit from the sacred knowledge given to you.
UnderSwap Grillby Headcannons

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- Imagine David Tenant’s Tenth Doctor personality. Wildly enthusiastic about everything he does, and its exteremly infectious.

But, in those rare moments of trouble, you can see this underlying power, that proves there is much more to this man then what lies on the surface.

- He loves all his little fire minions. With the exception of his daughter, they are the most important beings in his life.

-his baking is top notch, and you’ll know so when you see the price tags.

-As long as you treat his family with respect, you’ll have nothing but an extraordinary time with this eccentric flame man.

-He is a Maes Hughes when it comes to Fuku. He his hundreds of photos, and he will show each one and say “Isn’t she the most precious little bundle of perfection you’ve ever seen?!”

-He is a lover of the arts, and has many paintings and sculptures within his home.

-He never wears matching socks. When asked about it, he chuckles and replies “I tried, but you know what they say about opposites attracting.”

“Huzzah!” And “Eureka!” Are common household words.

Stanning Joshua
  • First off get ready to share
  • He’s super popular 
  • But we’ll start from the beginning 
  • Tbh this is gonna start out negative but it’ll get better i promise
  • Despite being in the vocal unit he didn’t get as many lines as we thought 
  • Actually in Adore U he had one line more than china line
  • That’s just like a second more 
  • Everyone was all protect china line 
  • And joshua was over there just … 
  • Ill stop now before i cant stop but you can tell it annoys me 
  • Anywaysssssss
  • Fancams 
  • Yah all my fellow jisoo stans just cringed 
  • Go watch any of the old fancams 
  • You’re just gonna get a bunch of crotch shots of the other members 
  • You’ll see him maybe half a minute of the whole video 
  • cause he’s always in the back
  • Literally its the biggest mess 
  • So if you are into that kinda of stuff just go look up joshua fancams 
  • ALSO
  • Vernon always get recognized as the english speaker 
  • Tbh dont get me wrong i love vernon 
  • So so much 
  • But like Joshua grew up in America 
  • He’s only lived in Korea for what 3 or 4 years at this point ???
  • He clearly has more experience speaking english than vernon
  • I know vernon has experience too im just saying… 
  • Someone needs to stop all my bitterness
  • Okay one last rant 
  • Very nice era anyone?
  • That moment where we all finally finished screaming and started to focus on the video 
  • And then shua has that great screentime 
  • We are all screaming because he finally got proper lines 
  • And he does that cute lil finger gun
  • And everything is perfect 
  • And then he just ??? walks away ??? and doesn’t ?? come back ???
  • You paused the video and scrolled back
  • Everyone’s going at it but like where’s joshua ????
  • You pause it and count and there’s only 11
  • Mind you wonwoo is out that was a rough time for all of us 
  • But anyways he’s gone like why ???
  • He doesn’t even come back until after chan and hansols part like ???
  • The one moment in fancams where you actually get to see jisoo is when he’s standing on the side lmao 
  • Nah jk with each comeback joshua gets more lines and more screentime 
  • Speaking of comebacks 
  • Boom Boom broke all joshua stans 
  • He got so many more lines than usual im yelling 
  • If it killed me it surely killed all of you 
  • He wasn’t in the back the whole time 
  • Guys our shua is getting better at dancing wow so proud 
  • Also lets just take a moment to appreciate all the times his hair is styled up and his beautiful forehead is exposed 
  • Anyways watching him get all these stans is great usually
  • All the cringie “wow”s and “yes”s that he does 
  • When he finally broke and started dabbing 
  • Tbh i was like unstanning
  • Jk i would never 
  • But anyways 
  • If you’ve biased Joshua as long as i have you’ve noticed how much shua’s come out of his shell
  • He’s shown us his true self 
  • He’s a freakin weirdo and i love him 
  • He’s gotten so much more comfortable since he debuted
  • All the jokes he makes 
  • We can just tell when its coming like he just gets a certain way and you can tell its coming 
  • He legit kills us everyday 
  • His laugh 
  • Like the weird wheezing laugh he does 
  • His cute lil cat smile 
  • His eye crinkles 
  • The hella cringie aegyo 
  • His gentle, soft voice that melts our faces off 
  • When he sings low and time stands still everything is magical 
  • When vocal unit forgets about him multiple times now and our hearts just break a bit because what 
  • When he plays his guitar and our faces are melted off for the second time
  • Everything about Joshua in acoustic very nice broke you 
  • All of the meme’s that come from this boy 
  • Not knowing if we ship jihan or jicheol 
  • worried for your life when you don’t ship either aka me
  • Stanning him is 50% “love me” and 50% “fight me”
  • Okay but back to fancams; macaronshu, atta boy and today jisoo are the go to fancams
  • Every now and then remembering how much he does miss his family and his home back in LA and aggressively awaiting moments when he can go back 
  • 100% loving how proud he is about things; the people he admires, his home, his career, and of course his religion 
  • Like whether you’re a christian or not you totally admire it 
  • Like tbh its gotta be hard at times when it comes to his religion 
  • Im surprised we haven’t had issues regards it that i know of
  • But im glad knowing even if we do no shua stans will take it 
  • Half of us loved the purple and pink hair 
  • And half of us hated it 
  • But no matter what he looks like an angel from heaven 
  • All in all stanning Joshua is wild 
  • Full of laughs and tears and cringe and tbh you’re just gonna die 

anonymous asked:

my friends and i are all sapphic in some way and i love it. but my family doesn't know and i don't think i ever want them to know.but tbh i'm rly not comfortable in my sexuality. i id as bi and i think its true but ?? i'm really really not comfy w it and i wouldn't say i'm ashamed but i'm really closeted for the most part. idc if my friends or random ppl or whoever knows and i love loving girls but i just i feel awful n like a bad person if i feel ashamed u know . why do i feel like this :(

im glad that you have a community of sapphic friends. from what youre telling me it sounds like internal biphobia and guilt. i feel the same way: i dont care if my friends or acquaintances know but i still struggle with knowing i am bi. it will take some time to get used to but i recommend talking to your friends about it. theyre probably going through something similar. 

i hope this helps.

  • Van Hohenheim: *starts out as a slave who is unable to read or write*
  • Van Hohenheim: *learns to read and write and eventually becomes a monk*
  • Van Hohenheim: *is taught extensive knowledge of alchemy*
  • Van Hohenheim: *watches entire race get destroyed by some arrogant prick in a jar*
  • Van Hohenheim: *goes to foreign country, spreads peace, and teacher them alchemy for healing*
  • Van Hohenheim: *sacrifices a long life with his wife and kids to go save a country from complete annihilation*
  • Van Hohenheim: *loves and cares for his sons, and does not blame them for hating him*
  • Van Hohenheim: *feels genuinely guilty for leaving his family and blames himself for his wive's death*
  • Van Hohenheim: *asks family and close friends to leave the country just in case he doesn't succeed*
  • Van Hohenheim: *tries to convince the murderer of his countrymen to stop being so evil and refuses to fight him because he feels it's wrong*
  • Van Hohenheim: *sacrifices himself to protect his eldest son from being completely annihilated*
  • Van Hohenheim: *hugs his youngest son as soon as he gets his body back, because he know he misses human warmth*
  • Van Hohenheim: *spends his last remaining moments at his wife's grave telling her how much he loved her and his sons*
  • Me: Did you even watch the fucking show?

“Oh thank God you are back.”

“Felicity I was gone for five minutes.”

“I know but you left me alone here..with chicken in the oven.”

“It’s perfectly fine on its own.”

“But it makes me nervous.”

“Hon it’s just cooking you need to relax.”

“No Oliver you don’t understand, it’s a huge thing for me. I am cooking!”


“With a little bit of your help.”

“The chicken will be great.”

“You can’t know that.”

“Yes I do. Now you need to forget about it for a moment.”

“No I can’t!”

“Hon I promise that its cooking and there is nothing else you can do for it soo relax.”

“I don’t know how I am so stressed. The whole family will be here and….oh that is actually working keep going.”




“Do you think I put enough of herbs on it.”


“Maybe I should add more seasonings.”



“Watch the chicken.”

“Thank you! Love you!”


“Oliver it’s getting so beautifully brown.”

“Oh dear I created a monster…”