it's okay really i'm fine

okay but

I don’t Discourse, but I get so angry when people dismiss asexual’s people’s problems as something like “Boohoo, you don’t want to fuck, no one gives a shit”.

But it’s so much more than that. Obviously it’s not homophobia, never was and never will be. It doesn’t even compare, it’s not the same thing at all. 

But there are issues asexual people face like - there is pressure, part of it from society, and a lot of it come for ourselves. And that kind of self-hate and self-loathing and thinking you’re broken and unloveable, developping unhealthy sexual behaviour and self-harm - it’s a thing, it’s definitely a thing, not something 14-year-old kids on tumblr made up for attention. It can really mess you up, mess your relationships up, and people are so afraid to talk about it - I read words of older people - and I don’t mean people my age, I mean people in their 50s, their 60s - probably they don’t even know asexuality is even a thing, they got married and had kids and always felt wrong, because they hate sex and they never wanted it and never felt comfortable around it but they did it, quietly, never said a fucking word, and hated themselves a bit more every single time because they never understood why they felt they were missing what they were always told was supposed to be a fundamental part of themselves. They spent their entire life thinking they were broken.

and. it’s not homophobia, it’s not bigotry from an entire society keeping you from jobs and housing, etc. there’s no stats or anything. And maybe a lot of non-asexual people relate to this self-loathing, too. Things are never completely clear cut - there is always some overlapping. It doesn’t make it any less important. It’s still a thing that most asexual people go through, at least for part of their life, and it can really, really mess someone up. And there’s no need to get into discourse or into any (useless and frankly asinine) comparisons - it just needs to be taken seriously for what it is, because people’s health and happiness are what’s at play and it matters, too.

WHAT THE HECK

DID YOU KNOW THAT A LAW JUST GOT PASSED IN NEW YORK THAT, STARTING IN FALL, COLLEGE HERE HAS NO TUITION ANYMORE FOR PEOPLE WHO MAKE LESS THAN A CERTAIN AMOUNT OF MONEY A YEAR (because living here is so dang expensive)

AND THIS APPLIES TO MY FAMILY

WHY CAN’T THEY DECIDE THESE THINGS BEFORE I’M ALREADY SET TO GO ACROSS THE COUNTRY FOR COLLEGE FOR AT LEAST A YEAR

boi

BOI

WHAT

Originally posted by finalphantasy

Could I ask a favor?

Could everyone just… please not assume anon askbox fic or generally anonymous fic is from “me”?

Don’t get me wrong: I’m flattered, and I understand the desire to want to thank someone for a lovely surprise.

And I likely should have said something earlier, when I first noticed people were tagging this blog in conjunction with fic I hadn’t done anything to indicate was “mine” (even though in those first instances it was).

But I’m definitely not the only “fic fairy” out there, as recent days have shown.

This blog was never meant to become the “face” of anything.
It’s just a place for me to collect the pieces I’ve personally written, and for others to read them if they’d like. (In hindsight, creating it in the first place, or at least opening this up to the public, may have been an error of judgement on my part, in opposition to my lack of intent to become any sort of figurehead.)

It’s not about taking credit, or being thanked (even though I do appreciate your appreciation). And I definitely don’t want to be assigned credit for others’ work, time, or talent.

If you like an anonymous fic, just squee about it in your answer to whomever the anonymous author might be. :)

Please and thank you all. :)

anonymous asked:

hili! I didn't get tickets for HS1, and it's fine, i'm okay, but I really need some angsty/painful fics so I can let the tears out and just get over it... some new ones / not so famous ones if you know any? thanks so so much!! that would help me so much!

I’m sorry love :* :* Here’s some recent painful and/or very angsty fics for you :

- Feels Like Coming Home   : The last thing Harry Styles expects when he’s hanging out at the Someday Cafe in Somerville one rainy October day is for his ex, Louis Tomlinson to walk through the door, but that’s exactly what happens. After a spectacularly ugly break-up three years prior, Harry hasn’t heard one word from Louis, and he’s moved on. Gotten over him. But having Louis back in his life, not to mention working at the restaurant where he’s a chef, isn’t easy, and the feelings that Harry thought he’d left turn out to be not so easily forgotten. This is a story about love and the power of forgiveness, and how the hard choices we make define us, and change our lives. (60k)

- When We Were Younger  : About a week after Harry started visiting this particular chat room, he was watching some kid argue with the whole room about football, personally disinterested as he tipped a bag of crisps into his mouth. He happily chomped on the crumbs, taking a swig from a glass of Ribena to wash them down, glancing at the screen and very nearly spat the squash back out again. His heart was pounding wildly. The display icon of the argumentative newcomer had caught his eye, and not in a good way. He gulped as he clicked the picture, and when it popped up in full resolution, his heart nearly fell right out of his arse. - Sixteen year old Harry Styles’ world turns upside down when he logs on to gay teen chat to discover somebody has stolen his photos and used them as their own.  (76k)

- Emperor’s New Clothes   : The fact that Louis’s most precious belonging was a cat with a face like thunder and an uncanny ability to cover every single inch of Louis’s clothing with cat hair was something that Louis chose not to think about too much.or: Harry’s a pop star and Louis isn’t, and there’s a non-disclosure agreement where there used to be a relationship. (92k)

- Looking Through You  : Just  Louis and Liam were starting out in the music industry, writing and producing for up and coming artists, a fateful meeting with new pop singer Harry Styles changes everything. Four years later, just as Harry is set to embark on his next world tour, a drunken confession causes a rift between once inseparable friends. As Harry tries to make sense of his feelings for Louis, he begins writing his next album to express them as it may be the only way to break through the walls that Louis has built between them. (41k)

- Life Was a Song, You Came Along  : Louis is a songwriter trapped in a lie that could ruin his best friend’s career. Harry owns a record store, distrusts everyone in the music industry on principle, but loves Niall Horan’s newest album. A modern retelling of Singin’ in the Rain. (37k)

“I can honestly say I’ve been more happy in the past year and a half than I’ve been in all of my years before that put together” — Camila

5

I’m Fine.

if you don’t like supernatural, you really don’t have to talk about it. you don’t have to scream passionately in the tags about how much you don’t like the show. you don’t have to make countless text posts complaining about how it’s still on the air. you don’t have to throw in your two cents about your interpretation of the characters, or the plot, or anything else. you can simply ignore everyone who loves it, the actors, and the show itself and have a great day.

I just finished reading The Cursed Child and my head is spinning. I won’t spoil anything but it’s really a lot better than any spoilers you’d heard before (I was sceptical before reading). There’s some serious Draco Malfoy redemption which I ADORED.

Also, Scorpius and Albus are so very very gay. Like oh my god is this the wizarding world’s version of Brokeback Mountain? For real?

All in all: a bit of a weird plot but really good

And…I AM FUCKING IN LOVE WITH SCORPIUS MALFOY!!!! OH MY GOD!!!!!! HE IS MY PRECIOUS TINY LIL PUN MAKING CUPCAKE!!!!! 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

So on the Blu-Ray discs (not sure about the normal ones), but if you watch all the episodes, when it gets to the end of the disc, a little PUT IN THE NEXT DISC TO SEE WHAT HAPPENS NEXT thing pops up, and at the end of disc two, one of the things is “Will Hook ever get his chance with Emma?” complete with kiss pic

IDK I JUST LIKE THIS A LOT OKAY