it's my post and i'll tag if i want to

How Dan and Phil probably broke up #23
  • Dan: Phil you left all the cupboard doors open again
  • Phil: godDANit
4

i love the despair designs !

namjoon + lavender for @nightgreyowl

10

Jon Snow and Sansa Stark + parallels (requested by bericdondarrion)

reasons why seungkwan is a sweetheart
  • even if he’s part of the maknae line, you can see how much 17 members rely on him, always checking his reactions, and expect him to lead everything (and are usually lost if he’s not there)
  • if no one is saying anything during an interview, even if he’s not the MC he either leads the members or starts talking even if it’s nonsense to save the situation
  • he always tries his best to give good advices, and more than anything: always encourage people a lot
  • he’s able to get along with everyone, even new staff really quickly
  • he likes to make a lot of jokes, but he’s always careful of people’s reaction: if it looks like he said/did something that would make other unconfortable or hurt them he apologizes right away and try to make them feel better by saying nice things about them or gives them a hug
  • he just gives tons of hug to people who are pouting even a bit, or just tons of hugs in general
  • he’s just extremely polite and respectful: like on One Fine Day, when they were given something to eat after picking bossam in Cheongsando, he was the first one to go to other workers to feed them
  • after Mingyu used one the bossam to stop a fire, he apologized right away with a 90° bow to workers who gave them bossam
  • he’s careful of everyone like he tries to make everyone shine, and he keeps telling fun stories about members who don’t talk much
  • he protects his members of any situation where they could be embarrassed: when people ask Jihoon’s height, when Jeonghan accidently spat on the floor (and he moved quickly to hide it with his foot), or when Hoshi was asked if he changed the choregraphy this week too but he didn’t so Seungkwan immediately explained how Hoshi had so much work that it was impossible for him to do so
  • he’s careful of other members likes and dislikes, like when a member suggested to cook curry in a cooking program, he immediately said « no we have a member who doesn’t like curry » before Woozi even said that he disliked it
  • he’s extremely observant and can tell when seungcheol is lying, when woozi is embarassed and acting like he’s not, or really pretty much anything about the members
  • he’s interrested in foreign members’ culture a lot, like  he kept saying to Minghao how he wanted to try chinese food, until Minghao had enough and took him and Jun  to a chinese restaurant
  • and he’s always talking in english, and even try to communicate with foreign fans by using it
  • he didn’t show much of his japanese yet, but it seems pretty good since he’s one the of member who says the longest sentences in japanese
  • he’s very affectionate with everyone really and even more to fans: he greets them with the biggest smile on his face, hands waving really high in the sky, and he  just looks so happy and excited
  • when he leaves he either greets the fans the same way, or looks really extremely sadden to leave
  • he always tries his hardest to communicate with fans, no matter if they are foreigners or not, he has no problem trying to use their language, and start asking them questions about where they are from even if the situation doesn’t really permit them to talk
  • so whenever he’s in a situation where he can’t really talk (like when he was doing Sukira for exemple) he writes on a notebook things he wants to ask to fans (« are you excited for the comeback? », or after asking to a foreigner where she’s from: « NY? » to make sure), saying thank you to fans « thank you for congratulating me for my graduation♡  », talking about his feelings « i’m going to sing later, i’m so nervous », « i missed you »
  • he’s also one of the member who communicate the most withs fans on SNS
  • because of Pledis’ rules he sometimes has to refuse things like taking pictures, or giving people his signature, and he was said to look extremely sorry and apparently kept apologizing everytime it happened
  • he always show the same respect to sunbae groups, no matter if they are a popular or an unpopular group, he’s admiring all of them and keeps talking about how much he liked one of their song or enjoyed things they did in the past, etc
  • he’s like some kind of Jeju ambassador: never letting anymore makes fun of it, even if playing along with other people’s jokes would make it easier for him to fit
  • he has his own insecurities like his weight or his dancing skills (he used to be considered one of the worst dancer) and how he’s the one being scold the most during recording usually, but he never blames anyone joking about his weight, or people scolding him during dance practice, or  during recording. He just keeps working hard to diet, and improve in any area he’s not confident in
  • he makes sure the members don’t loose confidence in themselves, like when seokmin had to show a special talent on a show but reactions weren’t so good, he took his hand even if he was really far away from him to show support
  • he showers members with praises about anything related to their insecurities: like randomly talking about how happy he is that seungcheol is the leader, how much he likes mingyu’s skin color, or how fun joshua is and actually not a boring person at all…
  • when Jeonghan joined the group and was awkward with everyone, Seungkwan was the first one who tried getting close to him, by doing a lot of silly jokes, and it was never said but it looks like it took some time for Minghao to become close to the members, and Seungkwan also seems like one of the first who started looking out for him
  • he loves babies and kids so much and if seungkwan is usually the most professional of the group in any given situation, kids are an exception for him: he just stops talking about what he was supposed to talk about and keeps playing with the kid and talk no-stop about how cute he/she is, or even almost forget about the « no photo of people without their consent » rule, because they are so cute to him
  • he knows every members’ birthday
  • seungkwan always thought during his predebut days that he would be the least popular, and his biggest fear has always been not getting any attention at all, not being noticed
  • he was said to be a soft-heart boy since predebut: he cried more than Chan when his father came, also cried the hardest when samuel’s mother read a letter written for seventeen’s members, was the only one who cried when he read his letter for his mother on parent’s day, cried when doing a video message to his mother on 17project and couldn’t stop crying after seeing her, cried at the boys wish concert, cried when seventeen won their first rookie award, and got extremely emotional on his last day at Sukira with Ryeowook and the rest of the S-line, and on the One Fine Day when the 3 leaders read their letters
  • he also cares a lot about member’s feelings, like he was afraid for seokmin’s feelings when no judge talked about his singing in 17project (while seungkwan was praised), or when vernon said he felt sorry to seventeen about SMTM, he said later in an interview « He was talking about how he was sorry. What’s there to be sorry about~ right? » ©
  • he loves his mom so much and keeps talking about her no matter what; he even almost gave up on being an idol because he didn’t want to leave his mom in jeju
  • he gets anxious really easily, and sometimes he’s tired but since he’s the moodmaker and has pride on this title, he doesn’t want to let other people seeing his tired-side and try to gives energy to people as much as he can no matter what
  • i have so many things to say but i’ll stop there, so just remember that seungkwan is a sweetheart and that he deserves all the love
2

Choose wisely, Pacifica

(haha i just wanted to draw my version of older! dip and mabes. Feel free to tag as either dipcifica or mabifica

or both because both is good

both is awesome)

hfhfhfh okay so this is going to be about the tags in the prev post that has shit abt the bpd community here on tumblr (which is like okay yeah i find posts that help me feel less alone and stuff and stuff i can relate w but like…. *sigh*)

(before we actually get into this i just wanna say i can’t speak for EVERY PERSON who has bpd or any other disorder. this is just my opinion and how i see things and if you wish to POLITELY talk to me about it I’d prefer if you’d do it off anon and explain calmly if you have anything against this post/anything i said, etc. Just a nice calm talk please)

Okay, so like i get it, it’s fucking hard to deal w splitting/not getting attention or reassurance due to our lack of relationship object permanence/having a shitty mindset that makes us believe we are horrible/etc. etc. but???? that should never EVER be used as an excuse for any action that is horrible/bad/abusive?

like yeah okay, we split with people but like why not try asking for some time alone so you can calm down or try talking to someone else if you’re okay with that to help you chill out?? (idk, each person w bpd has different ways to cope w splitting ig) but don’t?? suicide bait someone???? because they said something you didn’t like/aren’t paying attention to you??? that’s literally so horrible and idc if you have bpd or what other disorder/mental illness. You don’t do that shit that’s fucking horrible.

People not CATERING or ADJUSTING to your needs should not allow you to be abusive or show abusive behaviors and when someone tells you that you are being abusive you DON’T try to defend yourself and JUSTIFY your actions by saying you have ____ etc. because it doesn’t justify it. You should admit to your mistakes and behavior and WORK on them to try and be a better person.
It is gonna be hard work and honestly it’s probably not gonna entirely go your way but if you work on it little by little it probably will get a bit better instead of just not trying and lashing out at people constantly.

the post I linked (and the post that resulted in this post) honestly had some good points. You shouldn’t turn these things into a cute quirks or whatever. It’s true that some of the images in that post is what most of us would feel and relate with but if you have some way to like deal with it in a healthy manner/cope then that’s good! but if you don’t you should probably try finding a way to help you cope for the time being? instead of lashing out and being angry at people/the world for a problem/behavior you could work on fixing a bit (like I said, it won’t be easy)

There are good people in the bpd community that understand these things and that’s great!! Awesome!! but for those who refuse to try and change and want people to cater to them then my dudes… you’re not going to have healthy relationships if you’re gonna be that way. Sorry to say, but that’s just how it is and it really comes down to you trying to fix your behavior (on your own or with help. It’s okay if it’s either one, so long as you try my guy). And if this means analyzing and reanalyzing the things you do/your behavior and finding out what IS abusive and you changing that then do it.

ahem, listen up and imagine Michael Gay Mell and Jeremy Queer and Heere dancing in the kichen together wildly to some Panic!, and other emo bops in socks. While cooking some pasta at like 3 in the morning and every light in the house is on and blankets, and dvds are sprawled out everywhere. Michael is twirling jeremy around and dipping him. picking him up. Jeremy is doing some 80’s disco moves which makes Michael laugh.

Then, my dear gays, imagine, them, slow dancing in the same kitchen but their bellies are full of pasta and wine cause they’re classy moms. Keaton Henson and The Smiths are playing and the only light is coming from the laundry scented candle jerm bought Michael and the oven light. jerms face is buried in Michaels shoulder and he’s basically just hugging Michael. Michael is softly singing along in jerms ear and his forearms are resting on jerms hips. they’re doing a really bad slow dance because they’re classy not cultured.


EVERYTHING IS HAPPY SHIT ITS 4 AND THIS IS TERRIBLE BUT I WANT IT

youtube

*NEW*

Kibum’s really cute, glad to see that Jonghyun thinks so too. 

(please read the tags ^^)

4

Reblogs > Likes please!!

I made SDR2 / NDRV3 boys as monsters for @akkame-chan, @frozentanuki and another friendo who isn’t on tumblr~

*please don’t use them, this is for me and my friends*

Oh and I’m making a Danganronpa Monsters AU, it’s called Monsteronpa. This tag have few posts actually, but i’ll do all the cast. Not all of them are monsters, there some characters as humans! I’ve already do all the sdr2 kids and some dr1 and ndrv3 kids, but feel free to help me about this AU, i want to make someting with it!

🍁 Monsteronpa here for someone who is interested! I’ll add details for this! 🍁

✨ And please check my art and support me! ✨

So, this is a schoolboy!arslan au drabble for @thelazyfanartist (set in Japan so the new school year is april, not September)

Next —>

Elam was late for school. Very, very late. Sleeping through his alarm because he worked too late yesterday? Not good. Making them late by forgetting to take his siblings to school? Even worse. To top it all off though, some random kid had to fall on his head (but hey, at least he didn’t get a concussion). The first time Elam met the white-haired boy he dubbed “The Klutz” had been mid April and two weeks into the new school year. Arslan (he later found that was his name) had been climbing a tree to help a baby bird he’d found. It’d fallen out of its nest so he kindly tried to help it, cautiously scaling the tree with one hand and two feet. The chick was protectively clutched in the other. Proudly, the boy deposited it amongst its siblings and smiled at it. Unfortunately for Elam, the boy was clumsy and lost his footing just as he was walking underneath the tree.

“Watch out!” Elam would have, he really would, if a foot hadn’t connected with his head a second after. Sprawled out on the ground, glancing to his left Elam could see the boy rubbing his foot, groaning quietly in pain. “I’m so sorry I fell on you! I was just trying to help that baby bird but I slipped…” Elam nodded, it was okay, really. His head hurt a bit and he’d been knocked over but he was fine; he couldn’t be so sure about Arslan though. Slowly standing, the boy reached out a hand to help Elam up even though his ankle was throbbing. Taking his hand, Elam stood too. “I’m Arslan by the way. We’re late though so I really should run!”, he waved goodbye at him then tried to rush off to school before the bell rang. Although, Elam noticed it was more of a limp with the guy favouring his right foot. Ah, “Wait!” he always kept bandages in his bag; they were handy for clumsy little brothers and sisters. Despite the shout, Arslan didn’t look back - either he hadn’t heard it or hadn’t wanted to wait. That had to hurt though.

Luck, perhaps, wasn’t completely against him since his homeroom teacher was even later than him. Gieve-sensei walked into the classroom ten minutes late with a Starbucks; when asked why he took so long he simply said “Wooing the love of your life (the Starbucks barista) sometimes it takes longer than you expect”. Elam was just glad that there was no detention for him; thank goodness his teacher was so eccentric. Eccentricity, however, did nothing to keep him interested in maths. Solving the equations on the work sheets was easy, so Elam finished quickly, letting his attention wander across the room to the boy he met earlier. Arslan didn’t really seem to be concentrating, it looked more like he was doodling and staring out the window instead of doing maths. So, he was a daydreamer, huh? So am I, Elam thought before he put his head down and napped till the end of class. Gieve didn’t comment since he’d done the work, silently taking it to grade it (96%) before returning it.

A prodding to his side was what woke Elam at lunch, someone very annoying was poking him. “Hey, wake up, you’ll miss lunch…” Wearily opening his eyes, Elam glanced up to face the white haired boy and the otherwise empty classroom (what was his name again? Arslan right?); he was sort of leaning on his desk, as if to keep the weight off his feet. Reaching into his bag, Elam held up a finger and pulled out a bandage, gesturing for him to sit on the desk next to him. Confusedly, Arslan obliged and sat down. “For your ankle, you twisted it right?” Elam noted the surprised look on Arslan’s face without saying anything, instead grabbing his leg, choosing to bandage up the injured foot. Smiling brightly, Arslan jumped up from the desk, asking if Elam wanted to come to lunch with him. They walked down the hall quietly, footsteps echoing in the silence, though Arslan didn’t seem to be leading them to the canteen.

He could see why Arslan would prefer to eat outside, it was peaceful. Warm rays of sunlight were warded off by cool breezes here, on which cherry blossom petals fluttered to the ground - here was more comfortable than the loud chatter of people inside. Settling into the grass Arslan pulled out his lunch, Elam copied. Only he found that his was flattened to the point of being inedible, the bento box cracked (figures it would be, he’d landed on it). Fingers feeling in his pocket, he found it empty just as expected; with no money to buy any lunch he guessed he’d have to just skip the meal. Wordlessly Arslan broke his sandwich in half, offering it to Elam (along with some cookies and a drink as well). Maybe he wouldn’t have to go hungry after all…

The second time Elam met Arslan was almost a week later (he’d been busy). This time he was at the park with his two younger sisters and little brother, keeping an eye on them as they played. He didn’t really get to spend much time with them due to his job, but his parents worked hard too so he saw it as his responsibility to take them places like the park. Across the green space Elam could see his friend (were they friends?) sitting reading a book. Entranced by the book, Arslan was detached from the world around him, except the football that hit his side. Garion hadn’t meant to aim the ball at anyone, when Elam jogged over he hadn’t much enjoyed being told off either. “Well, are you going to apologise?” Garion nodded, bending over to pick up the ball, then mumbling out a small apology. Arslan simply laughed, wrinkles creased around his eyes. To an exhausted Elam, it seemed kind of strange but he didn’t give it much thought. Visibly deflating with relief (Arslan wasn’t mad), Elam flopped down into the grass next to him. Resting against the same tree as his friend, he closed his eyes for what was only meant to be a minute.

Arslan looked at his tired friend, could hear his stomach rumbling and knew that he hadn’t eaten dinner yet today, nor had he slept long. Elam’s sisters and brother seemed a bit worried too, stopping playing over looking at their brother in concern. In a whisper (so as not to wake him), Arslan called Daryun, asking if he could bring a picnic for five and a few blankets. It was still warm when Elam was woken once again by poking, though the sky was beginning to change colours; he found he was covered by a blanket with a picnic basket to his side that contained a note. Opening it, it read I fed them and watched them for about two and a half hours, I hope you had a good nap. I had to go home though so I told them to wake you.

Elam smiled a soft smile as he took his sister’s hands and walked his three siblings home. Although Garion was still sulking about being told off.

—————————————————————-

I’m sorry about how long it took me to write this for you given the length. I loved the idea and enjoyed writing it though, even if I for the life of me I couldn’t sit still to write it out(probably would have taken less time if my laptop were working but I had to stick to my phone). It’s not exactly how they become best friends in the au but it’s how I think they’d have met. Thank you for the request. Oh, and @inoki-mikan I believe you said you’d want to read stuff for this au so this is for you as well ^-^

Valhalla Enchanted Week - March 6 - 12, 2017

What it says on the tin, on March 6-12, 2017 we will be celebrating the classic pairing Valhalla Enchanted (AKA OneChar), which is the enigmatic and brutal One Eye (Valhalla Rising) with the stubborn and endearing Prince Charmont (Ella Enchanted). Romantically. Platonically. However you see them in whatever timeline or universe.

To do this post gifs, edits, fic, headcanons, art, whatever you want of Valhalla Enchanted.

Remember to tag “#Valhalla Enchanted” to make your post accessible and easy to find and let’s have a magical fairytale of a week~

  • "Ninety percent of the time the very sight of you makes me want to commit murder."
  • "What about the other ten?"
  • ---
  • "Ninety-one percent."
  • ---
  • "I hate you."
  • "Nine percent of the time you don't."
  • "Nine percent of the time I don't want to kill you. I always hate you."
  • ---
  • "Ninety-two percent, going on ninety-three."
  • ---
  • "I really want to know when Coach figured out that you only want to kill me ninety-three percent of the time."
  • ---
  • "Am I at ninety-four yet?"
  • "You are at one hundred."
  • ---
  • "One hundred and one, going on one hundred and two."
  • "You're a terrible liar."

ignis is such an Egg™

7

(x)

Just doing some reading on immigration for my human rights exam and I’m just thinking that the whole thing about “letting foreigners in will dilute our culture” is like, alright, say parts of British or American or whatever “culture” disappear. 1. that’s vague as hell, I have no idea what aspects of western culture are under threat here 2.that has happened throughout history, and new elements take its place, it’s called evolution, 3. you’d rather send thousands of people to their deaths (or at the very least to horrific conditions and direct persecution - if they weren’t suffering that they wouldn’t have been granted refugee status) than live through the possibility that there might be a few more halal food shops or maybe there won’t be as many people watching football or whatever in 20 years time or whatever element of “western culture” you’re afraid of losing.