honestly some the most absurd comphet i've experienced is thinking that maybe the only reason i'm not attracted to men is because i live in a small city and that maybe every man here just sucks and all the hot guys just live in the Big City and i just need to cough up the money and emotional energy to move to the Big City if i wanna be attracted to men... my brain really wants to go out of it's way to find like. Loophole Heterosexuality
god ive totally gone through the “not all men are ugly just every man i’ve personally met is ugly……..yep that makes sense” phase
Teachers on the internet:
I love my students so much it's so important to respect them as individuals and I understand that they go through bad phases from time to time.
Teachers at my school:
y'all suck honestly if you fail this one exam you won't ever get a job in your entire life, let me finish my 30 minute yelling and I dare you to try and stop me from humiliating and emotionally abusing my students who I hate btw. I'm gonna call your parents you can't just come to class 30 seconds before the bell rings.
In relation to my other post something that absolutely breaks my heart is when people come to me with their ocs, wanting to keep the design that they love the same but for some reason they feel they must follow genetics to a T.
Who cares? If the design makes you happy why change it? You shouldn’t feel forced to change your ocs to fit in with this new wave of strict genetics that has cropped up in the fandom. I enjoy it because genetics interests me and I like following a set of rules, so I don’t mind changing my designs to fit those rules. But if you don’t then no one should be able to make you.
for my ap lit midterm tomorrow there’s going to be an essay prompt asking us to write as one of the characters from a book we’ve studied this year and you don’t know how tempted I am to fill the required three pages with angsty hamatio oh my god
I go through phases of not liking my appearance constantly, I'll feel good for a few days and then be down from weeks. It's usually about my stomach, I feel it's not as thin as I want, and how my face and hair look, I'm just not happy with it.. any help would be nice xox
If you aren’t happy with something, change it. Drink more water, eat more protein, do some ab exercises (crunches, sit ups, planks, push ups, side planks, etc). Even if progress is slow, the mere fact that you’re doing something about the things you don’t like are huge mood boosters, and they’ll completely change your perspective.
When you are feeling good about yourself, write out a list of everything you love about yourself, and whenever you’re feeling down, go back and look at the list to remind you how bomb you are.
Make a playlist of happy/bad bitch songs to listen to.
Take selfies and nudes, no matter what mood you’re in. Experiment with angles and lighting, do ones with and without makeup, etc. Taking pictures of myself always boosts body confidence, and honestly familiarizing yourself with your body and how it looks is something everyone should do because the human body is fucking gorgeous.
Do a face mask, paint your nails/toes, take care of yourself. Self care will ultimately lead to self love, and that’s the tea.
Don’t forget: it’s okay to have off days, where you don’t feel good about yourself. It’s natural, and it’s normal, as long as you remember that it’s also temporary.
Hi. I'm nonbinary and I came out to my family over a year ago, but they just forgot/act like it never happened. I'm very feminine and I think they feel it's just a phase. I've only spoken to my Dad about it once more since and I explained how I know I'm not a girl, and he said simply "You are very feminine, too feminine not to be a girl." or something along those lines. Ever since then I've questioned why I'm so feminine and yet still feel so strongly about being trans. What's your opinion?
Hi! Fellow feminine nonbinary person here 👋🏽 I totally understand what you’re going through and all the frustration and confusion that comes with it. In fact – to this day I get kind of confused about my own identity and my own femininity. I find myself wondering if it’s innate or if it’s learned, if I was socialized like this and that’s why I’m so feminine. I have a lot of questions and not a lot of answers. But I do know that exploring your identity is really spiritual and personal. It doesn’t always make sense and it doesn’t have to. I’ve come to learn that I’m nonbinary because it’s just something I feel in my spirit. That my presentation doesn’t define my identity and that my femininity doesn’t affect or invalidate the fact that I’m a nonbinary individual. I’m sorry that you’re going through this and that I don’t have all the answers, but I want you to know that you are a beautiful, strong and valid individual. Much love 💖
Summary: Layla Heartfilia promises her daughter that she’ll have herself a ring just as extravagant as her own one day, but Lucy finds that she’s a simpler kind of girl.
A/N: …no excuse. just nalu fluff
“One day you’ll have a ring just like mine, I promise.”
The young girl’s eyes widened at her mother’s words, and she smiled from where she sat perched on Layla’s vanity. Her little legs swung back and forth as she admired the ornate ring that her mother wore proudly on her left hand. Her daddy was always so quick to boast that he’d found the best diamond in all of Fiore, just for the sake of putting it on his wife’s finger.
“I get a wing like yours, momma?"
Layla Heartfilia smiled as she turned away from the mirror, pecking her daughter’s cheek and leaving behind a red outline.
"A ring, sweetie. Remember to practice your r’s while mommy and daddy are away at the banquet tonight."
"Okay, momma.” Lucy giggled as her mother kissed her once more, this time on the very tip of her nose.
“A ring just like mine, Lucy.” Her mother winked, and there was a knowing, hint of a smile on her rosy lips. “I’m sure of it."
Unfortunately porn is super addicting. I'm a female (24.) and have watched it and I'll go through phases of being into it but I'm really trying to stop for good! Because most of it just makes me sick now. You don't know if those people were forced into it or not! Especially the women. It's hard tho. I really am trying. Most of it really disgusts me
We’re glad you’re making the effort to quit though! Don’t give up, you can do it ;) ❤
I know it's a stupid question, but can you touch ds!dream's wings? Or will your hand go through them? This question just randomly came into my mind and I'm like 'I need to know!'(sorry I'm just dumb :p)
It depends! You would phase through them by default, but he can make them physical. It’s all a matter of making sure it’s not difficult to move around.
(1/2) i'm an 18 year old trans boy and i came out a few months ago. my family was pretty supportive - except my dad. he refuses to acknowledge that i'm trans and just gets angry / uncomfortable when it's mentioned. i can't explain anything to him (though admittedly i haven't tried in a while) and he just sees me as a girl, going through a phase. he won't talk to me directly, but goes behind my back and says transphobic things ABOUT me to my mum, including that he doesn't want me to transition -
(2/2) my problem is that i want to see a doctor about going on t, because my dysphoria is unbearable. he can’t kick me out or legally stop me (as far as i’m aware) but i don’t want to destroy my relationship with him. as awful as he’s being, we’ve always been really close which makes it hurt a lot. so my question is, how can i avoid causing a huge family drama between him and those who do support me, and how can i make him understand what i’m going through and why i need to do this? thank you!
Q2: I came out to someone and they weren’t supportive. What do I do? How do I get someone to call my by my name/pronouns or wear the clothes I want? How do I convince my parents/guardians to let me start HRT?
i'm so glad the megamind fandom is (somewhat disturbingly) active, 7 years after the lonesome movie. i'm so tempted to make a megamind tumblr tbh... it's my favourite movie and every year (several times throughout the year) i go through a phase where i watch it every day or so. i'm not really sure why i'm messaging you. i like your blog?? i love your blog. i love megamind. i just needed to say it to somebody. thanks for listening okay bye love you
OMG DUDE DO IT! make a blog, we all welcome new content
and tysm, it means a lot to me that you enjoy my blog
I just want to say, I want to thank you for drawing your aro/ace dragons because it was due to them actually that I discovered that I'm aro/ace myself. No one I know ever told me that asexuality in humans is a thing and they all think I'm going through a "phase" when I say I have no romantic attachments. So thank you- it's nice to know I'm not the only ace out there.
*hugs* thank you, I actually told my fam I’m ace this weekend
Oh wow I’m so thrilled that my dragon doodles helped you that way! You’re definitely not the only one and please never let anyone else make you think that they know who you are better than you do.
And @ anon2 congratulations! I’m really happy that you felt confident/comfortable enough to let them know and I hope everything turned out okay