As someone with autism I never really understood gender, I know you're not like, an authority and that I have GOOGLE, but do you think it's important that I understand gender or not? I treat everyone as their personality, not really their gender, I use pronouns they want and stuff tho. I don't really consider myself as either gender but I guess its not something I feel strongly so I don't understand? Sorry if I'm not making sense. And don't worry if you don't wanna answer I get it
no its ok! this is a hard question for me to answer bc i dont totally understand ur perspective. i just dont think im equipped to answer this? like gender as a construct is really complicated, and the way it behaves and affects people is complicated. its a flawed system, so understanding it is super hard!
idk i know its probably inconvenient for u that i dont have a good answer for this question but !! i dont rly have one, im sorry. does anybody have any useful resources or anything ???