it's either i was like or then im like or then there me or something idk

anonymous asked:

As someone with autism I never really understood gender, I know you're not like, an authority and that I have GOOGLE, but do you think it's important that I understand gender or not? I treat everyone as their personality, not really their gender, I use pronouns they want and stuff tho. I don't really consider myself as either gender but I guess its not something I feel strongly so I don't understand? Sorry if I'm not making sense. And don't worry if you don't wanna answer I get it

no its ok! this is a hard question for me to answer bc i dont totally understand ur perspective. i just dont think im equipped to answer this? like gender as a construct is really complicated, and the way it behaves and affects people is complicated. its a flawed system, so understanding it is super hard!

idk i know its probably inconvenient for u that i dont have a good answer for this question but !! i dont rly have one, im sorry. does anybody have any useful resources or anything ???

anonymous asked:

Sanji x Zoro (for the ship thing)

 Send me a ship and I’ll tell you: 

who the fuck put the peeps in the microwave
Zoro jfc no questions asked it was him

who forgot to put the cat outside before sex
Sanji (hes a flustery air-headed nerd. cmon there is nothing suave or level headed about this man; theres no way he would remember)

who posts vines of the other doing embarrassing shit
Both definitely both. 

who breaks the most phones
Zoro

who dies first
Sanji >8}

which one I could see as being lactose intolerant
Idk maybe either one tbh

who thinks they can do something really well even though they can’t
BOTH.

who is more likely to get kicked out of the bed
Zoro (icy cold feet are actually his greatest weapon, not his swords)

who uses the computer most
Sanji for fancy recipes and shit B]

i like cara delevingne and all but tbh im kinda upset that she was cast as margo bc there was a perfect opportunity to cast a chubby girl as a lead in a movie that’s unquestionably gonna be popular and that opportunity was thrown the fuck away

it’s gotten to that point where like, fuck, I know I’m doing the wrong thing but this is a two way street and we’re both trying to drive down the middle of the road and we’re gonna collide one day and it’s gonna be ugly

hm although i never liked taylor swift too much. something abt all this does bug me. like what she’s done and has done and is doing is all v v wrong and i am so critical of that. but the way the site has reacted sits weirdly w me and idk why.

anonymous asked:

helpp i let someone i trusted and known for a while hold onto all of my stuff while i reset and like theyre really nice about it and they also give mr things and idk its like they hack, so they had no reason to scam me? but like for like 5 days they have not said anything back to me and like i keep trying to ask them stuff and i see them constantly updating on tumblr when they dont use their queue..i just feel like theres no reason to scam when you hack so im kind of in denial..what should i do?

Oh no :( I don’t have to judge either but maybe they lost the file where they had your stuff, when you hack you have to save lots of backups in case you mess something up maybe they accidentally deleted the one where they had your stuff I could be totally wrong. If you want give me their url and I’ll message them like hi or something and if they reply then they did do something to you stuff which sucks :(

I don’t understand something and I wanted to talk about it because i think this is the only way I can calm down about this topic.
“Nobody is born GAY ahah!” I fucking hate this ahah because you know what nobody’s born straight either. Please stop ignoring the fact that your sexuality is a natural thing which develops as you grow up. Its not like gay people drunk a magical potion and became gay. It’s the same with straight people too. So please stop saying that because its really a stupid thing to say and please do the rest of the world a favor and shut the fuck up if you’re going to insult anybody about their sexual orientation.

Girl (?) confessions

tvventyonepilots , i was feeling wild (i dont identify as female but whatever)

1. Do you sleep in your bra? -usually, its just because i either forget to take it off, or people are over
2. Do you like noodles? - yeah i am a noodle
3. Do you enjoy drama? - not really
4. Are you a girly girl? - nah
5. Small or large purse? - i prefer those little backpacks everyone has or i just shove all my stuff in my pockets because guy jeans 😏👌🏽
(WHERE DID 6 go??)
7. Are you short? - no omg im a giant compared to so many people im 5'9" or something maybe more
8. Do you like somebody? - Skylar
9. Do you care if your socks are dirty? - idk i kind of care
10. Do you like halloween? - YES MY BIRTHDAY IS IN OCTOBER MY POWER IS AT ITS PEAK
11. Favourite time of the year? - autumn and early spring
12. Where is the weirdest place you have slept? - in a plane and car. and on the floor?? idk
13. Is there any type of rumour going around about you? - probably everyone is at school is afraid of me
14. Do you call anybody by their last name? - yeah my teachers
15. How many guys will read this just because it says- girl confessions? 2 maybe

BE HONEST:

1. WHAT COLOUR IS THE BRA THAT YOU’RE WEARING? - black w/ red/pink roses
2. DO YOU PREFER LIGHT OR DARK HAIRED GUYS? - dark
3. ARE YOU CURRENTLY FRUSTRATED WITH A BOY? - no im dating a girl lmao
4. DO YOU HAVE A BEST FRIEND? - a few
5. HAVE YOU EVER HAD YOUR HEART BROKEN? - nah
6. HAVE YOU EVER THOUGHT OF HAVING PLASTIC SURGERY? - no
7. DO YOU LIKE YOUR LIFE? - yes but sometimes i get down about it :/
8. HAVE YOU EVER JUMPED IN THE POOL WITH YOUR CLOTHES ON? - i got pushed? does that count
9. DO YOU HAVE MORE FRIENDS THAT ARE GIRLS OR BOYS? - its a good mix
10. HOW LONG HAVE YOU HAD A FACEBOOK? - since like 5th grade but i deleted all the evidence that showed i existed before 7th grade
11. HAVE YOU EVER SLAPPED A BOY IN THE FACE? - yes it was g8
12. WHAT ARE YOUR BIGGEST FEARS? - failure
13. HAVE YOU EVER CRIED YOURSELF TO SLEEP? - yes
14. HAVE YOU EVER NOT BEEN ABLE TO GET SOMEONE OFF OF YOUR MIND? - sadly yes
15. DO YOU BELIEVE IN THE SAYING “ONCE A CHEATER, ALWAYS A CHEATER"? - eh idk
16. HAVE YOU EVER HAD A GOOD FEELING ABOUT SOMETHING? - yes
17. DO YOU EVER WISH YOU WERE FAMOUS? - yes but i feel like i would hate it so
18. ARE YOU CURRENTLY MISSING SOMEONE? - yeah
19: WHO ARE YOU TEXTING RIGHT NOW? - no one

ABOUT YOURSELF…

01. EYELINER OR MASCARA? - neither
02. PINK OR BLACK? - black
03. PUMPS OR FLATS? - all i wear is combat boots or sneakers
04. SKIRTS OR PANTS? - jeans
05. SOCKS OR LEGGINGS? - I LOVE SOCKS
06. HOODIES OR JACKETS? - jackets
07. HEELS OR SNEAKERS? - sneakers
08. STRAIGHT OR CURLY HAIR? - my hair is always perfectly straight but i like curly
09. WHITE OR BLACK? - both?
10. SMOOTHIES OR LATTES? - lattes
11. DIET OR REGULAR SODAS? - neither
12. WATER OR DAIQUIRIS? - water
13. PEARLS OR DIAMONDS? - both
14. MARY-KATE OR ASHLEY OLSEN? - i dont care tbh
15. IPOD OR CELL PHONE? - phone cause i have spotify prem
16. FRIENDS OR FAMILY? - depends
17. LIP GLOSS OR LIP STICK? - neither
18. MANICURE OR PEDICURES? - ive never had either so idk
19. TANK TOPS OR BATHERS? - idk what a bather is so tank top
20. BIG SUNGLASSES OR SMALL? - i cant wear sun glasses cause of mY GLASSES
21. SUNGLASSES OR PURSES? - sunglasses if i could wear them
IN A GUY/GIRL….
FUNNY OR SERIOUS? - a little bit of both
ROMANTIC OR DAREDEVIL? - daredevil
DARK EYES OR LIGHT EYES? - doesnt matter tbh
LONGER HAIR OR SHORT HAIR? - depends
CURLY HAIR OR STRAIGHT HAIR? - both

anonymous asked:

does this sound like a decent lunch to u?? idk if its too much or too little :-\ ok i had 2 cups of spinach with strawberries & raspberry vinaigrette and then 1 medium plum....

that sounds delicious BUt like its probs total of 50 calories and doesnt cover all ur food groups physically or psychologically. and what i mean is, u have no carbs or protein in there or healthy fats. add a piece of bread or some quinoa or rice or even sweet potato if those things make u uncomfortable or chickpeas or something, and u need like some avocado, or some nuts or some olive oil or something w healthy fats like peanut butter or almond butter or somethuing? and some protein so like. chickpeas r good. and nut butters. research that tho idk v well cos im not a huge meat person. but yeah physically your body will crave those things. especially carbs for me! cos i avoided them for so long! like that lunch for me isnt satisfying phycologically either i wouldnt… be satisfied w that. and ur body wont. u will be hungry in like 30 mins and by restricting urself like that your putting your body at risk and ur metabolism will slow down and u will forget how to listen to ur natural instincts and it will all be very confusing. honestly even adding more veggies would make this a better meal. or a banana! its ok to start small, add little things and nourish ya body and dont be ashamed or feel guilt for eating as much healthy stuff as u want! and dont fuckin count calories 

merriton asked:

asparagus, dandelion, emerald, moonstone, canary, permanent geranium lake!

Birthday? october 26, 1995
Middle name? i dont actually have one, psure its a desi thing but we dont do middle names, legally its usually your father’s name
Favorite thing about yourself? hm idk my fave thing, i like that im funny i think
Something you love the smell of? woodfires!
Favorite class in school? i always think of high school when i see Qs like this, and it was history, but i think currently my fave class is screen history (which, ha, also history) where we basically learn about the history of the film industry and various cinematic movements and stuff
Favorite flower? i dont think i have one, i dont really know a lot of flowers either, but i like orchids, and the little wildflowers in like fields in the country or wherever

send me a colour

adoratory replied to your post: question about cosplay or really buyin…

Wait I’m in the market for a rose dress tbh??? I might actually be interested in buying it off of you if it’ll fit me

Also if you really do want to keep it, getting a garment like a waist trainer that’ll flatten certain areas of your body might make it feel better to wear.

senseiofficial answered your post: question about cosplay or really buyin…

i mean you could let out some seams if u wanna wear it more! its not so bad to do that

why is xkit listing yall as undefined when i tried to open this post wtf

either way tho, idk, its an all white dress and at first i was fine with that but now i kind of want to try to make something more like her actual dress with some pink/purple at the bottom? hold on tho im gonna post some pictures of the dress for u adoratory

anonymous asked:

aw man idk what you should call me, i gotta think of something that doesnt give away my secret identity. lav or lavender maybe cause that's one of my fave flowers? my absolute favorite is bachelor's button btw, but that doesn't translate to a name very well. anyway- what super power do you wish you had? what hogwarts house are you in and what class there would you like most? favorite childhood film? do you want any tatoos? have you considered dying your hair and if so what color?

Oh yeah I love lavender, it smells so good- and i looked up bachelor’s button and its really pretty, good choice

Um all my childhood I would have said telekinesis (cause like you can make a pathway in the sky and sorta fly and do other cool stuff) but either that or telepathy

Ravenclaw, oh that’s a hard question, idk like apparition? Maybe defense against the dark arts or potions (maybe not with snape as teacher though, i’ll go to that french all girls school instead) maybe transfiguration too. idk if i went to hogwarts (or fleur’s school) all of my classes would be my favorite

I really liked the sound of music. My mom would skip all the adult drama so I never saw, for example, the wedding near the end until I was like 9 or so. When I was about 4, I would replay the puppet show over and over.

um I dont really think right now that I want a tatoo, but you never no. I’m just so horrible with making decisions.

yeah i think in college or something i’d want to like dye the ends. like a non natural color, like pink or blue or something

be cliche with me and get your url stuck somewhere on an island

a couple years ago i did that cliche thing where people liked/reblogged some post and i would stick their url somewhere that peeps could see.

anyways im doing the same thing because im cliche as fuck and it gives me something to do on the damn plane flight. also, i think its cool because i actually made a really close friend doing this, so you guys might make a friend too??

so yea.
like or reblog this is you want me to stick your url someplace on hawaii. either way will work idk. JUST DONT DO BOTH I GET CONFUSED.
btw; im leaving tuesday (the 4th i believe??) and im going to the island Oahu.

anonymous asked:

Hey just want to say something about stalia look im not angry about theo or anything im angry cause scott and kira talked about stydia so casual but i dont think thats fair to malia she and stiles are together and if they break up i want writers to that the right way not by making stiles look like jerk cause he was with malia but in love with lydia and turn her evil cause of theo its not fair to malia i like malia and i dont want that for her

i doubt they’re going to have stiles just be like “i love lydia bye bitch” if they break up it would either be a) malia is like “i want that hot theo ass bye” or b) stiles kindly does it because hes still in love with lydia. and if they do go the evil route then idek how i’d feel i mean i kinda ship maleo but i dont want malia to be evil. idk just give me stydia and happy malia.

Ok so beoll tagged me for this and im gonna do it

Rules: Tag at least 10 followers you want to get to know better

-Name: Kai

-Nickname: Do I even have one?? Trash? maybe? Idk my internet name is usually KaiHasCats

-Birthday: November 23rd

-Star Sign: Sagittarius 

-Gender: Nonbinary

-Favourite color: Something in the vibrant shimmery purple family 

-Time right now: 9:57

-Average hours of sleep: All or none tbh, either i get like 12-14 hours or like 4

-Last thing I googled: “solitaire single stack chain one card above or below”

-Number of blankets: 1 sheet, 1 fluffy soft semi heavy blanket, 1 comforter, and 1 heavy throw/improvised weighted blanket

-Favourite fictional character: This varies just bc memory um idk probably Anders (dragon age) atm

-Favourite famous person: you ask me this and my mind goes blank of all people ever so thats something i guess?

-Favourite book: Literally impossible to answer but if we’re talking like something i will always pick up and re-read for no good reason i have to say all of the Animorphs books tbh

-Favourite band: Stone Sour, given that I can listen to them on repeat for years on end without hating them

-Last movie I saw: Nine to Five

-Dream trip: Europe/China/Japan trip w/Emily or cross country queer RV trip bc somehow that appeals to me despite the fact that I get horrifically carsick

-Dream job: ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

I dont like to single ppl out so anyone who sees this can do it if they like, I’d love to get to know anyone at all who follows me better =D

anonymous asked:

so i've been doing these group cards against humanity right with a bunch of my tumblr followers and its really great but like now i see its branched off and like 3 people are together and like talking all the time and like another group of 4 are off talking too to each other and being friends and cute and like im happy i created that for them and like stuff but like nobody talks to me like they do each other and i cant help but feel useless and sad idk

awe ;(. maybe try and engage everyone in a conversation? like ask a question to everyone in the game and then maybe that will begin one conversation for the whole game. but if that doesnt work then i say just end the game. i mean its making you feel sad and sad isnt good, and the people who were talking with each other in the game will probably continue their conversations outside of the game anyways so you arent really making them sad either. good luck anon, stay happy <3

message me something that is on your mind?

ok but like i really want a tattoo it’s like

it’s been in the back of my mind for… forever and my mom actually isn’t really against it and would probs help me pay for it but like

other than deciding what to get

the biggest issue holding me is that i want one on my arm, like below my elbow

and since i have a general preference for short sleeves (even if im wearing something long-sleeved, i put them up to my elbows) so like, , , , everyone would always see it and that’s partly good but

my mom kind of scared me out of it saying that noone will ever employ me if they find out i have a tattoo and like on one hand im like NAH but on the other im like oh shit

someone asked me what i wanted for my birthday and i honestly forgot i had one until then