it was hard to pick and choose

anonymous asked:

If you could have a canon scene of grell in any outfit of your choice, what would you choose?

Oh, tough question Can I choose mermaid Grell?

LOL. Honestly, I sort of like anything Grell chooses to wear, so it’s hard for me to pick an outfit. I think I’d like to see Grell in a red wedding dress. Other than that, I just like to see Grell.

anonymous asked:

What are some of your witch problems? Like, we're always told that every witch, experienced or not, experiences problems and is still figuring it out. Because of the selective nature social media, this can be hard to realize. Any examples/thoughts?

100000% I think it’s so important to remember that none of us are successful all the time! 

I honestly think my biggest problem is my lack of motivation. I blog about witchcraft daily, but I cast maybe once a month??? I don’t read cards for myself every day, I don’t walk in nature or meditate every day… I just don’t have the energy to do that? I have to pick and choose what I do with the energy I have every day and most days I can’t afford to allot that energy to witchcraft, unfortunately. Also we all have failed spells, or we fuck it up or we aren’t specific enough (prosperity jar – I’m looking at you lol) 

It’s important, and I think it’s important that people remember that there is also plenty that we DON’T share on here, good and bad. I watched a video about this a while back… I will see if I can find it! 

anonymous asked:

Wanna help a girl out? I recently joined the iKONics and i have a hard time with biases, oh boy. bobby caught my eye first, but now jinhwan is creeping up the bias list. the only problem is that for some reason the height difference between me and jinnie is kinda uncomfy? like i'm 179 lmao. though unrealistic, i feel like he'd be intimidated/hate me. so i'm harbouring with bobby.. because he's the first bias. .. hel p..

I know how hard it is to pick a bias when you need to choose between 7 perfect human beings 😳😭😭
ahh… I’m familiar with the feeling of Jinhwan creeping into your heart, there’s nothing you can do about it 😂
Also, I don’t think you need to be afraid Jinhwan wouldn’t like you or even be intimated by you (did you see what a puppy June is with his 182+cm when he’s with Jinwhan?). Jinhwan had never a problem with his own height and tbh I don’t think he cares that much about it anyway.

… But are you really willing to replace this? 😏

Here's what happened II
  • *Otayuri in Russia*
  • Yuri: Okay where do you want to sit?
  • Beka: I don't care you pick...
  • Yuri: UGH Beka come on your visiting at least choose something!
  • Beka: Okay *points* over there.
  • Yuri: See that wasn't so hard!
  • *later*
  • Yuri: Didn't you have a new mix or something you wanted to play for me?
  • Beka: Oh yeah here let me pull it up on my phone!
  • Yuri: UGH! I forgot my earbuds...
  • Beka: Don't worry I have mine~
  • *later*
  • Viktor: Ahhh where could our little boy be???
  • Yuuri: Viktor we are supposed to be grocery shopping. I doubt Yurio wants to see us anyways he left in kind of a rush...
  • Viktor: Did you see how he was dressed?! No cat print, so fancy, our son is with someone and we have to find out who!!!
  • Yuuri: Okay just because he dressed up nicely for one doesn't mean-
  • Yuuri: Whaaaaaat??? No way... See look I think it's Otabek...
  • Yuuri: Ugh we have been over this a million times we KNOW Otabek. He would NEVER hurt Yurio. Awe they look so cute together...
  • Yuuri: Better idea!!! Why don't we just casually walk by and act real suprised to see them and you don't try and kill Otabek! Mmmkay?
  • Viktor: They are really close together....
  • Yuuri: Viktor!
  • Viktor: Fine...
  • *Viktuuri casually walks by Otayuri who don't notice them*
  • *Beka panics and and stands up*
  • Yuri: What the hell are you idiots doing here?
  • Yuuri: Oh we were just in the neighborhood and decided to say hi! Hey Otabek no need to look like a deer in the headlights~
  • Yuri: Ugh can you two leave??? We were kind of in the middle of something...
  • Yuuri: Of course! We'll let you guys finish this d- this little outing of yours~
  • Yuuri: This was supposed to be casual Viktor. You gave me a heart attack when you yelled at them...
I lied. I’m not out of this relationship. I’m in. I’m so in, it’s humiliating because here I am, begging. Okay.. Here it is: Your choice? It’s simple. Her or me. And I’m sure she’s really great, but Derek.. I love you. In a really, really big pretend-to-like-your-taste-in-music, let-you-eat-the-last-piece-of-cheesecake, hold-a-radio-over-my-head-outside-your-window, unfortunate way that makes me hate you, love you. So pick me. Choose me. Love me.


the thing is i have always perceived gemma as being at odds with the concept of fandom (probably because she has never participated the way a lot of us do) and as uncomfortable to be at the receiving end of a lot of fandom engagement. i think she’s got a hard time navigating it and she’s obviously trying to work through a lot of it (via her columns etc). BUT - and here is the big but - she needs to see that she can’t pick and choose. if she’s bothered and uncomfortable she needs to take steps to take care of her mental health, not use it as a weapon. she’s not reclaiming anything by using certain terms in the same derogatory way they were always used. she’s not furthering the conversation if her outbursts are always aimed at the same group of people who support a same-sex ship (thus perpetuating that something is inherently wrong about it) whilst keeping quiet about other groups displaying equally or more troublesome behaviour. for a lot of people her online presence is a meter for harry’s image and his views. so of course people will be wary that her rant comes on the heels of harry’s solo announcements. i like gemma and i hope she’s able to reflect on her tweets because, whether she likes it or not, her reach is a tool and right now she’s contributing to a toxic fandom environment.


charmed appreciation week | day 1 ⇒ favourite character: phoebe halliwell

↳ ❝ i am light. i am one too strong to fight. return to dark where shadows dwell. you cannot have this halliwell. go away and leave my sight, and take with you this endless night. ❞

Profiles in Choice: Volume 2

School choice is an illusion.  It is not a universal possibility. Anyone who thinks otherwise needs to take into account far more variables than they are currently considering.

You know what makes it possible for some students to choose schools outside of their immediate districted area and makes it impossible for others? Transportation.

Some students have cars.

Some students have parents who can drop them off and pick them up.

Some students can afford to Uber or Lyft to and from school every day.

And some students do not have money for the bus.

Do you see the difference?

Some cities have free transportation to and from school for students. I salute the excellent people who worked so hard to make this a reality. But far too many still do not. So, students have to pay, walk, or be transported. Spoiler alert: this really limits their choices.

At my school there is a charming brother and sister pair who used to ride to school on matching bikes every day. But one day the brother messed up his tire en route. Without the money to fix the problem, he has had to stop riding for the past couple of months. Now they take turns on one skateboard and one bicycle. She is older, so sometimes he holds onto her shoulder and she pulls him. They are tardy with increased regularity. I called their mother, a caring, hard-working woman. You know what she told me? “Yeah, I worry a lot about them out on the roads, too.”

You know what she doesn’t have? Another choice. She can’t drive them; she has to work instead, in order to be able to continue to feed them. So this is how it is for now.

One girl in my speech class has a protective father. He does not like her getting home by herself after dark. So, this good man picks her up every day. When he gets out of work. Sometimes as late as 7 p.m. At least she can get her homework done.

“Ms. S, can you lend me a dollar for the bus?” is almost as common a question in my room as, “What are we doing today?” or, “What page are we on?”

Many of my students can’t afford even a reduced price bus pass. I imagine for Mrs. DeVos and her friends this doesn’t seem like such a common occurrence. To them it is probably unimaginable. But she probably never had to go without eating so that her children could eat either, as one of my student’s “Personal Hero Speech”  revealed had been the case in her family.

Mrs. DeVos probably never had to spend a chunk of her minimum wage salary on splitting Ubers with her three friends just to get to school in the morning, or walk over a mile in the rain just to get back home. Mrs. DeVos probably does not understand that not everyone can just make a choice and a magic money fairy appears to make that choice a reality.

Ms. DeVos only knows that, “…public schools are not succeeding. In fact, let’s be clear, in many cases, they are failing.”

And she also knows she is just the right choice to ride in and change all that.

Around the World in 8 Days Challenge

Day 5: France

Everything about this picture is perfection.  Their faces.  Their expressions.  Their dance hold.  The way they can skate this closely together, somehow, in body and and in skate and yet be so smooth and seamless and quick.

anonymous asked:

Gemma: "my life is so hard these fans harass me! I'm famous and hate it! My brother is definitely not gay!!!! Insane fan theory!!! Also Gemma: promotes her free Sandals vacay on her very public Instagram that she was afforded to go on because said fans follow her. Me: 🙃😐😒

i have no patience for that kind of hypocrisy. 

i won’t open the topic again right now but, seriously, you don’t get to pick and choose which aspects of fame-through-nepotism you like and which ones you don’t. much like being an actual celebrity, it’s all or nothing and you either learn to adapt and develop a healthy way of engaging with fans or you do not engage at all.

Yoonmin ft. Jungkook
  • Yoongi: Oh, come on, Jimin, give me one good reason why you won't go out with me.
  • Jimin: Well, you're a rapper. So, you've got the god-complex, the cockiness, the whole "married to the job" thing. You're cute, but you're very, very aware of it. You have no idea what I'm like, so all of your feelings for me are coming from down there [points at his crotch]. But most of all, I'm looking for the real thing and you're nothing but a little boy who's not used to being told "no." So there's a bunch of reasons. Pick your favorite. [walks off]
  • Jungkook: I'd go with the "god-complex"... but it's hard to choose, you know, they're all so good.
Shu Headcanon (Wedding Treat Edition)

You finally staggered back to your room after saying goodbye and thank you to everyone. It had been a long night and you were surprised how long you have gone without kicking you’re heels off.
Your long off white dress flowed behind you and the material clung to your curves.
You reached down to take off your heels when you felt a familiar hand on your ass.
‘Hey!’ You giggled.
‘Don’t take them off..’ He says in a husky voice.
'But Shu..they hurt so much!’
'Leave them on…’ He smirks and you finally realise why.
'Ah..I see.’ You smile back.
'What’s under your dress?’
'Is that all you care about? After I tried so hard to pick the perfect dress!’
He just stares at you, 'Lace underwear I hope..’
You roll your eyes.
'Tell me what you were thinking of when you were choosing your underwear..“will Shu like it?” “Will this turn him on?” Tell me.’
You blush and sit on the bed.
'Uh..something like that..’
'Thats what the underwear is for right?seducing me? You wear it for sex?’
He sits next to you and you knew he was going to tease you more.
'Why are you wearing white? White is for pure innocent virgins is it not? Shouldn’t a lewd dirty slut like you be wearing a dark colour? To show your sins?’
You have many sins..but it was all thanks to this mans fault.
'Shu.. stop teasing.’
He smirks more, and pushes up your dress to find stockings and a garter.
'Your supposed to pull that of with your teeth..’ you blush.
'Hum..what a lewd tradition.’ Yet to your surprise he bends down, his mouth taking the lacy material, his blue eyes look up at you as he very slowly slides it down your thigh and leg.
Damn he’s too hot..
' me more..’ Shu opens your legs.

^_^ teasing end! As is Shu tradition!

i have asked this question a lot, but honestly… i really want to know.

why is rey skywalker such a bad outcome for some fans?

why are people so against it? why are people picking and choosing how they viewed TFA and taking minor evidence with them to the grave? why are they trying so hard to erase the suggestions that the movie deliberately implied?

rey skywalker isn’t about fulfilling a damned romantic relationship unapparent in TFA itself. i’m not sorry that most people think rey/lo is abhorrent considering that even if they aren’t related, there is no way rey would decide to shed light upon kylo and somehow fall in love with him to “save” him or the skywalker family. romance has never been a filler part of star wars in any way that you shake it, and if padme couldn’t save anakin with her love and devotion (someone he had been with for four years before his fall), i don’t know why that awful plot concoction would be any more acceptable.

alright, i guess you want rey to be related to obi-wan. okay… i can see why, i guess. obi-wan is my favorite character in the prequels so i fathom the wishful thought of giving him the opportunity to expand on the ken/obi family that doesn’t exist. but all it does is shat deliberately on the character that obi-wan was. it directly shafts and tarnishes who he was as a direct jedi council member that failed his own pupil and then went on to train his failed pupil’s son.

rey random could very easily happen, despite how much i don’t like it. but honestly…? why is rey skywalker so bad?

you’re sick of the skywalkers? well, star wars has always been predominantly about them, kiddos. even in this new series should rey not be confirmed luke’s child, he is still going to play a major factor into the saga. episode VII was all about finding luke.

the main reason i want rey to be luke’s kid is because i would like her to have a relevant father who loves her unconditionally. a dad who just happens to be one of the most important people in the galaxy, which gives her a real drive to battle against the evil that kylo ren is capable of. if you hate the fact that this new series is based off of luke/anakin or that it isn’t fulfilling a corrupt and gross romance, perhaps star wars isn’t the series for you and you’d better stick with Fifty Shades of Fucking Shit.

the EU gave luke a wife and a child. rey skywalker is nowhere set in stone, but stop acting like luke having a daughter is inconceivable. i’m so tired of this bullshit, especially with the recent “trailer leak” where luke is mentioned to have a voiceover asking rey (supposedly, which we don’t actually know at all), “who are you?”

really, that somehow extinguishes rey skywalker after a film that had “random rey” inherit luke and anakin’s lightsaber? “random rey” who imagined luke skywalker’s island for years during her direct moments of desperation while she waited for her family? “random rey” who came into physical contact with luke skywalker himself, who already knew who rey was based on the script that he “didn’t need to ask who she was”?

just stop this bullshit. rey skywalker might not happen, but it is certainly more believable to anything else that is ejaculated into the series possibilities, which are pretty damn terrible. jesus fucking christ, i am so tired.


Requested by Anon

Pairing: Scott McCall x Werewolf!Reader
Word count: 646
Warnings: None, just sugary sweet.

Request: Can I please have an imagine where you knew Scott when you were little and you liked each other but you left town, but then you come back in S4 but he didn’t know and you got killed by the supernatural, and when Theo is bringing back his pack from the dead, he raised you too and Scott sees you and fluffy ending with Scott please! I’m so sorry if this is confusing, and I’m sorry that it’s really long. Thank you !!!!!!

”Do you miss her?” Stiles asks carefully as he walks up beside Scott, leaning against the lockers as Scott stands and look down at a bracelet you use to wear for ’protect’ before all the supernatural got to you both.

Scott were the one picking out just that bracelet since you always had a hard time choosing between more alternatives. He remembered it all too well because the day after he got the new that you would leave Beacon Hills, your father got a job position in another town.

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