it really shows you who you are

I feel like people don’t feel validated in feeling sad and it’s completely okay. All of you say “I’m really happy for everyone but” and it shows that you don’t hate the people who met them. You might be jealous but you don’t wish anything negative of them and that’s what makes you different from being sad you weren’t invited and being hatefully jealous. It’s okay to be sad! It’s okay to say “I wish it was me” because we all feel that way. The only thing I ask of you is after you feel that way try to think of something positive. I started feeling down too but then I remembered if Taylor knew me she would have invited me, she just doesn’t know me yet. Please don’t take it personal. Please don’t tell yourself Taylor doesn’t love you or she hates you. She just doesn’t know you yet. So please do not feel invalidated for being sad and do not let someone else invalidate your feelings, but I do ask you remember this isn’t personal. There are a lot of us and I promise you you are not the only one who feels this way. But being invited does not define you or your self worth. Remember that.

by florencegivenart

things that are acceptable (A.K.A compliments):
- you look really pretty today
- your outfit is nice.
- you have a beautiful smile
- I love your eyes
- anything non-sexual to someone you literally just met or are yelling at from a car

things that are not acceptable (A.K.A street harassment):
- anything sexual to someone you literally just met or are yelling at from a car

some people don’t mind.
some people do.
so be careful who you shout at.
(or just don’t do it at all!)


triggering  /  nsfw   may  be  present ,  these  are  taken  from  a  variety  of   different  sources.

  • ​❝ Love your perfume. What is that? The stench of death?
  • ❝ Huh? What was that? I should kill everyone and escape?
  • ❝ We’re bad guys. It’s what we do. ❞
  • ​❝ I’m known to be quite vexing. I’m just forewarning you.
  • ❝ You’re cute. You want me? I’m all yours.  ❞
  • ❝ Why, what’s wrong? You don’t like me? Fine. Don’t waste my time then.  ❞
  • ​❝ You got all dressed up for me?
  • ​❝ Why do you eat people? Would you like to eat me?
  • ​❝ I’m bored! I need a victim, a mind to pry apart and spit in. ❞
  • ​❝ You wanna tell me what the hell is going on, then?
  • ​❝ You ever been in love?
  • ​❝ Own that shit. Own it! What’d you think was gonna happen? Huh?
  • ​❝ I’m not much of a joiner, but… maybe we should.
  • ​❝ What’s the world ever done for us, anyway? It hates us.
  • ​❝ I gotta work on my cardio. ❞
  • ​❝ I’ve never seen you laugh before! I don’t think I like it!
  • ​❝ You give ‘em twenty minutes of naughty fun time and they think they own ya!
  • ❝ You think I’m just some dizzy airhead that don’t know nothin’.
  • ​❝ You’re gonna make me do it, aren’t you?
  • ​❝ Anyone who throws boomerangs has some real issues letting go.
  • ​❝ I’m fine. We’re done. He’s a jerk. Whatever. ❞
  • ​❝ I got an itch I thought you could help me scratch, cowboy… ❞
  • ​❝ Oh well, at least I’m going out on a joke.  
  • ❝ I’m sick of people trying to shoot me, run me over or blow me up!
  • ❝ Get your own hostage!
  • ❝ You thought I was just another bubble-headed blond bimbo!
  • ❝ Well, the joke’s on you, 'cause I’m not even a real blonde.
  • ❝ I want to listen to the radio
  • ❝ Gee, it’s amazing the things you find in people’s glove compartments. ❞
  • ❝ Did you see the way I handled those creeps? Pow! Bam!
  • ❝ I’m keeping this one just for myself… maybe.  ❞
  • ❝ I think we can still work it out, don’t you?
  • ❝ I believe I served you with a subpoena once… It was a small subpoena.
  • ❝ Gee, boss, you really know how to put the fun in funeral.
  • ❝ My boss likes me to wear a smile to work…
  • ❝ No more love. No more crime. No more nothing. I’m through…
  • ❝ Take a break and play a while, doo da, doo da.
  • ❝ Oy. Beauty school is starting to look pretty good about now. ❞
  • ❝ Sweetie, go get mommy’s bazooka. ❞
  • ❝ I struggle to make a good home for you and this is the thanks I get!
  • ❝ It’s you. The way you move… The way you… ❞
  • ❝ It’d be a shame to get blood all over my nice new outfit.
  • ❝ Ready for some slapstick?
  • ❝ I had a kitty once. You know, they don’t always land on their feet.. ❞
  • ❝ We’ve got lots of cash-ching! We’ve got so much cash-ching! ❞
  • ❝ Why won’t you tell me how you broke my hypnosic spell? ❞
  • ❝ You wanna play? Okay, let’s play
  • ❝ You’re really sick, you know that, boss?
  • ❝ Well, well, well. Looks like someone’s luck ran out. ❞
  • ❝ Oh my God, oh my God, oh my God! We-we killed him! ❞
  • ❝ Sometimes, to get where you want to go, you gotta be somebody else for a while.
  • ❝ You just can’t forget who you really are. ❞
  • ❝ Just goes to show you, never send a business man to do a psychopath’s job. ❞
  • ❝ It shouldn’t be too difficult. Just follow the mayhem.
  • ❝ If I had a hammer, I’d hammer the evening, I’d hammer in the morning, all over your skull!
  • ❝ Actually I don’t know, I am rarely in it. ❞
  • ❝ I am to busy doing the job you neglected to do. ❞
  • ❝ Well, you should be more careful, [ NAME ].  ❞
  • ❝ To what do we attribute this sudden cheerful outlook?
  • ❝ We got his credit cards; what’s to worry?
  • ❝ Wait! Want to see a movie?
  • ❝ Yahtzee! ❞

I think the only way to know is time. I feel like there are instances and circumstances in your life that always change. You can think someone’s your friend, and it could be out of convenience, or there was something in it for them, or whatever. And a year later, something happens and you really need help, or all of a sudden they have to stand up for you, and it could be inconvenient for them or not benefit them. And they don’t have your back. And you’re like, “Ok, that friendship was circumstantial. You were only my friend when it was easy.” What’s hard is you can’t tell from the beginning.

So many people have disappointed me. And there’s also been so many people—not so many, but a few people who make everything worth it, stick through it, and they show loyalty. And no matter what goes down, seas or rough or calm Sunday afternoon, those are people that are worth it. You die for those people.

—  Camila Cabello in Is there a trick for figuring out if a friend is fake?

                                            Birthday Behavior🍰💝

         So Saturday was my birthday but I decided to have a late night bbq/rooftop pool party the night before to do like a countdown to midnight type of thing. I had so much fun and want to thank everyone who showed up and/or wished me a happy birthday! You guys are the I got so many gifts I was legit shooketh to the co 😭like yall really went all out on me and all I gotta say is thank you and make sure you one up it next year LMAO💀.

        sn: this post was supposed to be up ages ago buuuut I got so drunk, woke up on my kitchen island and fell off of it onto the hard ass tile floor and onto my wrist fracturing it. Fix it Jesus.

w/ @chancethebuilder @indyatellez @ashter-blank @_carpediem__liam @desiijackson @kddebose @1lolove @ajthatdude @kinginwitdario @mavsoffthewall @leekleeksworld ❤❤❤

anonymous asked:

How would ut and uf skele bros plus Flowey, cause why not, react to a S/O who dances ballet? Like they show them how hard it really is;how flexible and strong you have to be to dance literally on the tip of their toes. Thank you so much for your time!


There’s no need tutu try so hard to impress him babe, he thinks you’re pretty great already. You’re talented spin what you do, it’s obvious you put a lot of effoot into it. Other than the puns, he doesn’t have much of a comment on it. You’re good.


He’s actually pretty good at it. You show him a couple of moves & he immediately copies you, wondering aloud why you were exaggerating so much. He’s in no pain at all!! But then again, he has no pain receptors. So you’re straining & he just casually lifts onto the tips of his toe bones & stares at you in disappointment.


That’s cute, kiddo. He nicknames you “Twinkle Toes,” but that’s about it. Asks you to twirl for him a lot, with a sleazy, teasing grin on his face. It’s impressive, but not really his thing. Still nice, though. As long as it makes you happy, he’s chill with it.


Pah! You think that’s impressive? It takes a lot more than that impress the Great & Terrible Papyrus!! He tries standing on the edge of his boots, but it’s a lot harder to do than it looks. He’s decent at balancing, though, & can give you a run for your money when it comes to pirouetting for extended periods of time.


Haha! He knew a dancer once. Wanna know what happened to them? Well, it’s simple! They died!! Turns out dancing’s not a strategic battle technique, so…yeah. He tries to get under your skin about it for some reason. Probably to hide the fact that he has no arms or legs, so he could never do what you do in the first place, & it makes him kind of insecure.

Imagine cuddling with Bucky (fluff)

Warnings: none

Originally posted by loveviral

He was never one to show his emotions. He’d go on missions, complete them with ease and return home without a word. Steve would always invite him to hang out with the rest of the team; but the answer would always be the same: “sorry, I’m not really feeling up to it. Maybe another time”. Steve just assumed he was still getting used to being around others. However, that was the complete opposite to what was going on. For the main reason Bucky always declined Steve’s offers was you.

It was almost 11pm when you heard the front door creak open. Knowing exactly who it was, you continued to clean up the dirty dishes that had been left from the night before. A few seconds later you felt the familiar, muscular arms, one colder than the other, wrap around your waist lovingly. Leaning back into the warm embrace, Bucky nuzzles his head into the crook of your neck and inhales your sweet scent. Not wanting to wait any longer, you turn around and wrap your arms around his neck and let out a sigh of content. These moments were very rare since Bucky never liked the idea of opening up to people. So when this would happen, you’d take advantage of the moment and hope it would never end. No words exchanged, no one to ruin the moment, only you and the broken man you were slowly putting back together piece by piece. And that’s all you needed.

anonymous asked:

The heck I never said it's okay to be an asshole. That's why I said change good or BAD. All I'm saying is that ppl saw the other, ugly side of Shiro and suddenly act like it's ooc af bc "oh my God Shiro?? An asshole?? He CAN'T be!" You are twisting my words. Why didn't y'all make the same posts about Keith being an ass to his teammates in previous season or Lance in earlier ones? Suddenly for Keith everyone said OK cause he is grieving so who is excusing nasty or rude behavior here lol

you mean when keith was an asshole like this?

and shiro immediately followed up on it with this?

this show doesn’t let bad behavior pass, in universe. shiro doesn’t let bad behavior pass. also i don’t think copy and pasting your exact words counts as twisting them. this is the last thing i’m going to answer from you on this, sorry! i really don’t want to waste people’s time fight in circles.


I’m glad you, Arin, Danny and the rest of the team had fun during the RP3 tour.

Even thought I couldn’t see any of the shows, I’m happy for everyone who went to these shows and spent a fantastic evening with you and the Game Grumps.

Few of my friends from Tumblr and Twitter went to these shows and reading their reactions and stories from other people were awesome

To Jack, Arin, Danny and to everyone who helped making these shows possible: you all did a really good job and I’m so proud of you guys :’)

anonymous asked:

FebFems coined “nova” for non-gold star lesbians. “Nova: a star showing a sudden large increase in brightness and then slowly returning to its original state over a few months. From Latin, feminine of novus ‘new’ (because such stars were thought to be newly formed).” Paraphrasing QuestioningLesbians: “when you discovered you were a lesbian, didn’t you feel new, greater(?), and brighter?” I personally really like the idea of all lesbians being stars, new and gold lol

SupportingLesbians not QuestioningLesbians, my b!             

again, the creation of a cutesy term for “non-gold stars” doesnt tackle or cancel any of the issues that “gold star” represents, whether the alienation of any lesbian who doesnt fit a “golden standard” or transmisogyny

anonymous asked:

sorry for minor discourse but that post you reblogged that was like "male friends should hold hands" = homophobic is a little confusing. I mean the person who replied to to the post isn't a mlm firstly & when reading I thought "yeah that's fine, men do get mercilessly mocked for showing affection to each other", and it really surprised me that the reaction to that post was "you're a homophobe" even tho the poster also mentioned mlm in the post. and not only straight men love their male friends?

i think they weren’t saying OP is homophobic, but that homophobia isn’t this thing forced onto cishet men because they’re the ones who uphold it. A straight guy can cuddle his dude friend whenever he wants to and the only thing stopping him is “oh no bro !! what if ppl think im gay??” he’s free to hold hands with anyone he pleases–it’s his own homophobia stopping him. as a result, prioritizing straight men to be affectionate with each other when there’s nothing stopping them at all except for their own bad morals over mlm who deserve the priority is just a little strange–i think that’s what the responder was trying to say

it really should go without saying but i was 14 once and drew all kinds of silly shit but i was goddamn lucky that i had people around me who encouraged my creativity and i don’t think i’d be where i was today if i didn’t have them

so if you’re one of those people into “cringe culture” kindly show yourself out because you’re ugly and i don’t want you on my blog

anonymous asked:

Oh yes its is misogyny if a woman thinks that exposing your vagina in public is a mistakes (its not) but the disgusting way in which DD acts around young girls is ok for a man his age. We are not in 19th century feminism anymore. Exposing your body parts in public is not bad! You really should start educating yourself out of tumblr. Its not surprising that JHH would argue like that but s.o. who is an educator should not be thinking in this way or you should not be allowed to teach young girls!

I agree 100 percent with @justholdinghandsok and as her I am so; “…tired of women calling other women misogynist only because they have different point of view and they’re blinded by their love for Gillian so much that they can’t accept she has flaws and makes mistakes. It’s beyond ridiculous and only shows your lack of argument. When you can’t use anything but insults to prove others they’re wrong, you’ll always lose the battle.” 

You are right to show your body parts in public is not bad, but it’s bad if there is someone else who displays your body parts. You are talking about her showing her body parts? GA did NOT in any way pull down her own panties, but she were shown and publicly exhibited by the man she was with. In my eyes it was a degrading and embarrassing act. The young girls and boys I teach should at all times know that when others publicly display their bodies without consent, pull down their pants without consent, touch them where they do not want to be touched and so on, then it is a violation of their personal boundaries. It’s not okay and that’s what our younger generation needs to know, both boys and girls. You see I teach not only girls, I teach girls and boys -young adults. Young adults who hopefully are not hateful, who are democratic citizens with respect for each other, both gender, religious, cultural but also respect for each others personal boundaries. Young adults who can stand by their opinions, say no and respect themselves and others. That is what I teach. 

Since I still, as I have previously written, do not think D dates that girl. I see no reason to judge him by fantasies and fictional stories. We know nothing, there are no pictures of D that publicly show the girl by pulling down her panties to the world’s paparazzi photographers.  We have seen him walk with her, sit next to her and that’s it! From that, I can not judge in any way and will not judge another human being due to that. D has in no way displayed any form of misogyny. What a young twenty something girl chooses to show are fragments of her life, like so many others at her age, she shows her life on social media. But we are not friends with her, we do not know the background of the pictures, her stories and so on, they are fragments of a day. 


When she’d calmed down, I sent her to visit some old pals! I mostly just wanted to show you who made it to TS4

T: Opal, buddy! How’s married life treating you?

O: Not bad man! I guess the choice of spouse has a lot of influence on that.

T: Wise words! Sprout really is one of a kind. Literally and figuratively. I gotta say tho, I’m still not fully over that.

O: It’s been years, Trellis! Just give in and ship us already.

T: I am. In fact, I’ve hardly ever felt as much about anything as I do about the two of you.

O: You mean you’re like…in love with us? That’s a bit gross, dude.

T: *laughs* Don’t worry, this attraction is entirely aesthetic.

O: Phew! I mean I could probably tell you more about Sprout’s amazing plant abilities but-

T: Opal NO!

The Twins Dating an Older Girl would Include… (Requested)


  • I do honestly feel like Ethan would have a thing for someone a bit older than him
  • Or at least someone who’s mature
  • Idky but I feel like Ethan is really attracted to maturity
  • And that would be one of his favorite things about you
  • But at the same time he’d be constantly trying to impress you (even more so if you were older)
  • Because deep down he’d be terrified of someone your age coming along and sweeping you away (even if you were older by only a couple months)
  • So he’d like purposely let his stubble grow out even longer than usual
  • And he’d show off on dirt bikes and what not
  • He’d make even more of an effort at working out at the gym
  • And he’d spoil you whole-heartedly
  • And he would pull you in for big spoon cuddles all the time
  • Bc he wanted to show you how much he loves and appreciates you
  • And he thought it made him seem older, and also made him feel more mature
  • Even though like five minutes later he’d do something really stupid and you’d have to take care of him
  • And then reassure him that you weren’t going anywhere
  • Bc tbh this boy couldn’t live without you
  • And you wouldn’t have it any other way

Originally posted by tuesdaygirl8055


  • I don’t really think that Grayson has an age preference tbh
  • Like as long as he finds someone cute and sweet to cuddle with then this boy is happy
  • And trust me, he’s all about the cuddles
  • And Grayson is absolutely 110% a little spoon
  • It doesn’t matter if you’re younger, older, tall, or short Gray likes to be held
  • Tbh Grayson would probably be the opposite of Ethan in this situation
  • He wouldn’t feel any different being with an older girl than he would with anyone else
  • Seriously though Gray is like the type to fall in love at first sight, and not really care about anything else
  • And he wouldn’t really see age as that big of a deal, whether you were a month or even a little over a year older than him
  • Like I said, just as long as he has a cuddle buddy, this boy is happy.
  • And this isn’t to say that he wouldn’t put in the same amount of effort as Ethan
  • He absolutely would, just in his own little Grayson type way
  • Like for example, cooking you breakfast
  • Or better yet, cooking breakfast with you
  • He just wanted to have fun and make the both of you happy
  • And you’d love that about him

Originally posted by tuesdaygirl8055

These were short but sweet, and I hope you enjoy them even though they honestly weren’t my best. I’ve been really busy with loads of schoolwork, and yea.

gay-spaghetti  asked:

I'm sorry, I just--wow I really can't believe you said that. I didn't know I wasn't allowed to share some sarcastic, dipshit fun without getting belittled by the creator of my current favorite TV show. I don't believe in "revenge" or holding grudges, or any of that petty bullshit, so I just want to let you know that you really hurt my feelings. Yeah boo hoo me, whatever. I just thought you should know.

Bro I was being serious. I seriously think Rick is tsundere. The “finally a genius watching this show” comment was supposed to poke fun at the people who come here asking about c137cest and Big Plot Reveals and stuff. I personally find Confirming Rick to be tsundere a far more fun ask than those

anonymous asked:

Can a sobbing Slytherin who keeps going through her ship tag even though she knows it'll only end up in pain, tears, and hyperventilation bc this is her (shitty) coping mechanism and that was the only goddamn representation she had and the show writer decided to Bury the Gays™️ and she's already stressed and sad and fuuuuuck join the cuddle pile? Pls, just pls.

The saddest thing is that this applies to so many fandoms. @the creators why you always gotta bury the gays? I welcome you to the pile with open arms dear. It sounds like you could really use a hug.

I see your big brother!
Ahh family there must’ve been really exciting!
Gosh oh Jack I might cry
You’ve gone so far to come here
You hanged out with many friends, saw your family and so much more and just look at you, you’ve grown so much
To the little boy we all know who played video games in a log cabin to now someone is traveling around the world like that’s insane
The tears of joy have spilled for you
I’m seeing someone who I care for and support so much grow up in front of my eyes
I don’t really know what else to say except I’m just proud of you
I wish I could have gone to the shows but sadly I couldn’t cause I didn’t live near any of them
But hey I have till next time to hopefully see you
When you do come back to the U.S come to Texas!
We have many people who wanna see you and wanna meet you like please come!
I, myself wanna see you like so badly!
Gosh dang here come the tears
Dammit Jack! Hahah
Anyways I’m still so proud of you
I believe in you so much
I’m even happy that you will be coming back to Youtube like I miss you so much dude
Anyways woah calm down tears
Haha anyways Jack be safe going back home :)
Love you lots <3
~ Isabel

dulcet danger

Title: dulcet danger
Pairing: Byun Baekhyun/Reader
Genre: College!AU/Bad Boy!AU/Football Player!AU
Summary: Sometimes, the friskiest of decisions were the most memorable. Baekhyun is a clear example of that.
Note: Happy Birthday to my very beloved and adorable @byunists. I hope you have the best birthday ever and that you get to eat lots, also do great in those exams that I know you are having today! I wrote this for you, knowing how much you like Baekhyun and all~

Gym class is naturally one of those classes that she doesn’t pay much attention to. Neither does she think it has as much importance as other subjects nor she judges those who actually love playing sports when being in school. Actually, she liked those three hours of class she had ever Wednesday at seven in the morning, solemnly because the teacher they used to have –a really old woman who basically orders them around instead of showing them how to actually do sports- let them eat if they wanted to. Sometimes she would bring snacks and sit on the bleachers until she finally was called to play, but other than that, she was never truly excited about having physical education class. However, since Mrs. Lee was long gone after she finally decided to jubilate, she was left with a new teacher that was more than willing to coach everyone into living a fitness lifestyle and at this point, she is starting to hate this class. Turns out that she can’t bring snacks anymore, she can’t even take a break to drink water because sports are supposed to hurt –those are the new teacher’s words- and whoever took a break had to give a ten minute run, so to save herself from both the embarrassment and the struggle, she decides to listen for once and she plays volleyball. It wasn’t her favorite sport, to start with, but she was fairly okay and if playing was going to reassure her a great grade, then she might as well do so.

When she lifts up the ball in the air to throw it to the other team, she doesn’t think much, she does it absentmindedly but strong enough to show that she was in the game. However, a loud thud, a whine and millions of gasps follow after her actions and her eyes widen when she notices that she had thrown the ball at someone and that person was none other than Kim Jongdae. She had never talked to him much, he was just another student in her class that she ignored, even when he was absolutely cute, but she did know that he liked to sing a lot and he particularly didn’t enjoy playing sports, but he wasn’t bad at them. Without having second thoughts, she rushes towards where he was, her shirt clinging to her body with wind as she places her hands over Jongdae’s shoulders, making him turn towards her and she winces audibly when he reaches to touch his lip. Jongdae was surely whining under his breath and she breathed in quickly before feeling the teacher’s presence behind her.

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OK I need to commend both @melamungous and @dracze for their writing for a second. I’m going to be a fanboy here so bear with me

Never in my time of being involved in fandom have I read two separate fics by two amazing authors where, not only do they both bring their own unique way of writing two characters that’s extremely well written, but that they feel so entirely authentic to the source material and read very genuinely as “This is how these characters would act in canon”.

Seriously, I’m amazed. I really am, and it’s such a cool thing to find fics like these because they really make you realize not only how much of a “real author” a fanfic author can be/are, (ya know, since we have assholes who treat fic writers as less than for not being published or for not writing “original work”, which is complete bullshit), but it also shows such a level of dedication to interest, fandom, or characters that you don’t always see in people and its I don’t have words for how cool that is. To know that these people have dedicated so much of their time and effort not only in enjoying the source material themselves that they come to understand the characters so well but that they also spend the time to write and create things for other fans to enjoy with them, while making it feel so damn authentic is just a really awesome thing and I’m glad I’m alive at this time to experience that, because its just amazing really.

In less words than that, Dracze and Mellie, you both are doing amazing work with not just your fics but your art as well, and I can’t wait to see what you both produce in the future, especially with these fics because goddamn, I am impressed and completely floored by your talent. You both deserve infinate praise for them, you’re doing amazing things for the Batjokes fandom.