it really is all a phase

I work at a Mom and Pop yogurt shop and this lady every time she comes in without fail finds something to complain about. Today it was the fact that our flavors aren’t on the weight watchers app. I told her we have the nutrition facts if she wants to manually log them (I know you can do this because I use the app too) and she tells me that’s impossible because the app doesn’t work that way and gets mad that our vendor isn’t an option because we have a private vendor and don’t use what everyone else uses. She gets upset by this and starts complaining that our flavors aren’t that great anyway. That’s fine, I don’t really care because I’ve been doing this for so long that this doesn’t phase me but she starts to take it out on her kids. She starts yelling at them to stop being excited, tells them to stop trying to sample the yogurt, and berates them in the middle of the store all because she can’t track the calories on her frozen yogurt. The poor kids were just excited like any other kids that comes in that they get a treat and she was being such a butch to them. I was so angry and appalled that a grown woman would do that to her own kids OVER YOGURT that I hid in the back until she left.

TLDR: A grown woman got mad that she can’t log our food on her weight watchers app and starts to take it out on her kids and berate them in the store.

on some level, you really have to admire roberts dedication to all this nonsense. like, literally nothing is phasing him anymore. some casual blackmail? yeah, sure. faking a murder? no big deal. nearly running your ex-wife and mother of your child over so you can look like a hero? standard behaviour. dating lawrence? that’s just how life has to go sometimes when you want home farm for yourself.

anonymous asked:

Jason has had better chemistry with Duke then he's ever had with Tim. Instead of trying to push Tim as Jason's favorite bro ever can Duke be Jason's bat buddy for team ups instead? I mean they're going to be interacting more (isn't there going to be a training chapter in Signal with them?) anyway. I actually never thought Jason and Duke could be entertaining together but they are (Damian and Duke felt a little forced so I like that Jason is getting more attention).

i agree 

tim’s most important relationships were erased and acting like jason is a good substitute is kind of laughable tbh 

it hearkens back to how when the new 52 got off the ground jason just got a bunch of dick’s relationships chucked at him and then dick was sort of phased out because god knows didio really, really wanted him dead but

personally i prefer jason to develop his own relationships, not have sudden and explained and inexplicable relationships with characters he really shouldn’t 

meanwhile idc about fake tim at all but if they really want to try and pretend it’s the original post-crisis tim at least…bring back his old relationships and maybe have him talk to idk dick maybe rip

anonymous asked:

i'm questioning my gender and thinking i'm nonbinary or even transmasc but exploring my gender representation makes me worried im just a gnc cisgirl after all and im just afraid that this is all a phase? but i dont experience myself as being a girl. im just so nervous telling even my loved ones that i might change my pronouns or preferred name, b/c what if it *is* a phase and im overthinking things and being stupid???? i dont want to undermine those who are really trans/nonbinary ..

Tobias says:

I think the fact that you have considered that you might be a gnc girl, and realized that it doesn’t fit you is a sign that you might be trans or nb instead. It seems like this has been weighing heavy on your mind, so for a sec, just take a step back. Take a big breath. 

It’s okay, no matter what you end up identifying as, as long as you feel happy and more authentic with the label. It’s okay to be a cis gnc girl. It’s also okay, if you realize that isn’t you, and you’re non binary or a trans guy. If right now, you feel secure identifying as a non binary person or a trans guy, go for it! Even if it turns out to be a phase. There’s no reason you shouldn’t try to live authentically now because of fears that you might be wrong. So what if you are? You still deserve to live your truest self in the moment. You’re not wrong for thinking you are one thing and realizing later that you aren’t that thing. And that’s all assuming it’s a phase! It might not be. This might be you. 

If this answer is too confusing or if you just want to ask more questions, always feel free to send another ask in, or check out this tag for more info. :)

anonymous asked:

hi hannah this sounds really corny but what does it feel like to be in love, do you know? all my friends talk about crushes and liking people, but I don't think I've ever had that feeling about someone in that way. sure, I think some people are attractive and charming and handsome and all that but that's not love, is it? am I just a really weird heartless person?

hi! wow, this is such a sweet question; thank you!

I think I do know what love feels like; right now I’m in a 3-year relationship and I feel like I discover more about love everyday.

I believe there are two types of “love” (or perceptions of love):

  • what the media portrays / the “honeymoon” phase
  • the real deal


being in the “honeymoon” phase is… well, it’s awesome. I remember falling in love and feeling like all of my jagged pieces fit all of his jagged pieces so perfectly ♡ I wanted to spend every waking moment with him and know every single thought he had. there weren’t enough hours in the day to hang out at much as we wanted to. in this phase, he could literally do no wrong. BUT, this phase isn’t consistent. the feeling may last a while but it’s not sustainable. eventually you realize that they’re just human. therefore, i’m not sure if this is “love” in a deep way.

the real deal is something far deeper. I believe this love is one that has to be fought for. it is a mutual respect, love, understanding, sacrifice, etc. it’s knowing that I would do anything for my love; and he would do anything for me.

love isn’t always 50/50. but, I’ve learned that when I can only give 10, he gives 90. and vise versa.

love is when he carefully trims the fat off my steak before cooking it. love is when he plugs my phone in if I accidentally fall asleep. love is when he surprises me with breakfast. love is when he knows just how to keep me motivated. love is when he can detect my depression setting in before I do. love is when I can be my goofiest, most ridiculous version of myself and he will play along.

love is great and I think you’ll experience it one day! just let it come naturally and let it flourish into it’s own beauty. (you’re not a heartless person, lol)


(wow sorry I got super cringey here??? i just love love??)

anonymous asked:

Hey I noticed when you did the Asks about the X-Men AU---you left out the Nishigoris! What up with dat?

Well—

(I forgot. Oops. Working with a lot of people does that!)

Anyways—They knew about Yuuri even though his parents didn’t. (To his knowledge. *cough*) And they knew because they’re mutants too! 

Yuuko has Kitty Pryde’s powers, she can alter the density of her body and phase through solid matter. Like Kitty, her natural state is actually intangibile, and when she has an illness keeping solid is really hard.

Takeshi has Armor’s powers—he can create an energy exosekeleton that shields him from pretty much anything. He has one vulnerability in his armor that Yuuri found out on accident when they were in high school—lasers can get through it, since he has to allow light in to see. All was forgiven quickly because he knew Yuuri didn’t know before he tried, and this why when Phichit said “hey did you know you can do that?” Yuuri’s reply was an awkward “kinda.”

(PS—Mari is actually a mutant too, and she knows about Yuuri. He doesn’t know about her, though—she has powers similar to Shard Bishop’s and can put herself in a photonic state where she’s intangible.)

(PPS—Morooka works with Dr. Thomas at her laboratory. He is also a Dazzler fanboy, so the first time Yuuri came to the lab in his alter-ego, he kind of had a bit of a spazz.)

Tips for beginner witches

Where to start? This is the most common question i receive. I understand how overwhelming the craft can be! There are so many different components, and you can rest knowing your education will NEVER be complete. You will continue to learn new things all the time, and there is no rush to the order in which you learn! Cool down, and take some time to really fall into theory before jumping into practice. Its very important to read as much as you can, from as many sources as possible. Here are some of the many things you can research:

  • Crystals & their uses
  • Color correspondences
  • Different kinds of Magic
  • Different kinds of witches
  • Tools
  • Moon Phases
  • Planets/Celestial Bodies
  • Witch History
  • Herbs & their uses
  • Plants that are naturally abundant in your area that you can use in magick
  • Energy
  • Meditation and Visualisation
  • Astral Projection
  • Deities
  • Tarot cards and other forms of divination
  • Symbols (runes, sigils)
  • Theban alphabet 
  • Incense and Oils
  • Animals and what they represent
  • Sabbats
  • Cleansing, charging and consecration of tools
  • making mundane things magical

There are so many more things, so feel free to add in anything I missed or that you personally find important.

Witchlings, please ask me any questions you may have as i am happy to answer to the best of my knowledge. I will be putting up more educational posts over the next few weeks, so please ask or message me if theres anything specific you’d like me to cover. I’ll more than likely have a post for each of the bullet points above.

Blessed be!

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David saying “Hello” and “Night-Night” on CBeebies Bedtime Stories

“Watashi no kazoku” (My family) 

instead of emo phases do apollo kids have broadway phases

This is gonna be rambling and out of sorts but like. I want to put out my stance as a trans sga ace person and I’m sure there’s been plenty of people who have said this more eloquently than me but:

If you aren’t trans or sga you aren’t part of the LGBT community. Like, plain and simple as that.

I’m going to start by saying that when I was 14 I thought I was aroace and I came out to my mom and told her I probably wasnt ever going to want to have a relationship. She reacted bad. Like legit screaming fight and calling me a sinner bad. It was some of the most ridiculous bullshit I’d ever been exposed to. And it sucked and it hurt that she didn’t understand and even tho I’ve moved away from that identity, it still sucks to remember that moment. And this is serious shit that needs to be addressed, aroace people do have a lot of interpersonal stigma that needs to be talked about and remedied.

But see. That’s the key difference. Aroace issues are interpersonal, not societal. And the aroace community has very different goals from LGBT people as a result.

Aroace community initiatives are all about Visibility and Education. And those are noble goals, giving people access to this knowledge is great, but for LGBT people the kind of laser focus on Visibility isn’t great.

LGBT people are hypervisible. Trans women get mocked in media constantly, gay men and lesbians are stereotyped and demonized out the wazoo, everyone Knows we’re here. We don’t have a visibility issue.

We’re busy focusing on fighting the societal laws that literally restrict our freedoms. Because at the end of the day if you’re not an sga ace person, you’re not going to walk into an apartment complex with your spouse and be denied a home by a homophobic leasing agent. You’re not going to propose to the person you love and then have a baker refuse to make you a wedding cake because they believe you’re such an abomination that they think getting money from you is a sin. You’re not going to walk down the street holding your partner’s hand and have to fear for your life. You’re not going to tell your co-workers about your spouse and face social isolation, harassment, possibly being fired. You’re not going to be sent to conversion therapy specifically for your orientation and tortured until you’re too afraid to express your love anymore. You’re not going to be refused the right to donate blood.

If youre not a trans ace person, you’re not going to be stopped on your way to the bathroom and sexually harassed about your “real gender.” You’re not going to be denied work. You’re not going to be forced against your will to identify as a gender you are not.

There are no anti-ace laws. Theres no mandate to have sex or be in relationships. There are social pressures, YES, and I’m not denying that. And social pressures suck. But what you’re dealing with is fundamentally different from sga & trans experiences.

The thing about being ace is that it really is more of an interpersonal than professional disclosure. If someone irl asked me about my partners I’d have to talk about my boyfriends. I wouldn’t mention my level of sexual attraction or engagement because that’s not what was asked or what is socially appropriate to disclose. My boyfriends know I’m acespec because it’s relevant to our relationship, my boss would not.

Aromanticism is a mildly different story, because this is when you would reveal, “oh, I’m not in a relationship, I’m not really interested in them.” This could be met mostly with confusion, misunderstanding, disbelief, jokes, or “it’s a phase"s. Which all suck! They do and they’re issues that need to be addressed and dealt with, but once more they’re fundamentally different from the concerns sga people have to deal with when bringing their orientations into the professional realm.

Aro/ace people are perfectly valid, memeatic as that term has become. These are legitimate identities with definitely legitimate issues. But the facts are that the aroace community has vastly different priorities from the LGBT community and this is why they are fundamentally separate.

LGBT spaces and resources shouldn’t be expended in a direction that takes focus away from actual LGBT issues like the ones discussed above. Aroace people need to rally together and get their own resources in shape so they can create a more focused and targeted attempt to do what they want to accomplish. Because tugging at LGBT resources and insisting on including cishet aces, whose experiences are so fundamentally different from trans sga folks’, in LGBT spaces is detrimental to all of us in the long run.

And all the sitting around flinging insults at LGBT people and comparing them to bigots or their oppressors and being disgusted by LGBT people empowering themselves through displays of affection that they’re demonized for in every other circle just kinda proves the rift that exists between these communities and how much their priorities differ.

Anyways I’m done that was a lot of text

The Signs at School

(based on personal experiences)

Aries: tries to seem cool and like they don’t care about school but secretly cares a LOT and often gets really stressed because of it 

Taurus: it changes. they have stages when they don’t do any homework and talk about dropping out and then they have stages when they do really well and have a lot of energy for schoolwork

Gemini: the type of person who sits with all their stationery, notebooks, books, laptop and perhaps even snacks neatly placed on the table but ends up not doing anything. loves talking to their classmates

Cancer: sits nicely and often does all their work quite properly, loves raising their hand every now and then to say something smart about something they know a lot about

Leo: probably doesn’t give a fuck for the most part, lives for art and music or P.E. (or all three of them!), loves annoying their friends

Virgo: very quiet mostly, probably went through a phase when they seriously considered dropping out, pretends to be sick quite often so that they can skip school

Libra: the kid who sits on tumblr all.the.time. but somehow still gets great grades?? and manages to listen and pick up on almost everything the teacher says?? seriously it’s a mystery

Scorpio: can’t work without their music. loves getting things done then and there instead of doing it at home later

Sagittarius (also me): has a lot of trouble paying attention to things they’re not interested in and loves talking to their friends in those moments. big difference in grades when it comes to subjects they’re interested in and subjects they hate, secretly ambitious

Capricorn: hard-working and determined, often takes on way too much schoolwork, takes a lot of breaks

Aquarius: the kid who sits in the back corner sighing and complaining until they just pop in their earbuds and watch Netflix instead

Pisces: so good at almost everything? works very hard and has a lot of motivation, one of the few who actually starts to study for tests and exams in time, often has a good relationship with at least one of the teachers, basically a nerd

anonymous asked:

Okay I see no one talking about this but now that Dan opened up about his depression the amazingphil video where he predicts Dan’s future is SO CUTE. Like the part where Phil gets really excited about the card saying that he overcame something really hard and Dan being like “stfu you’re making this up!” makes SO much more sense now that we know Dan was getting off/off his meds

(5:50 of this video)

You sent this and then someone posted about it on IDB and I ended up responding there but not to your anon but lemme say this fucked me up in the best way. 

“Letting go of your past pain and old associations allows you to embrace the next phase of your life wholeheartedly.” 

and then Phil gets all bouncy and starts slapping Dan out of excitement and Dan’s voice get super high pitched and disbelieving. Like, holy shit they’re so excited when Phil reads the part of the card about his present and then they both claim it’s accurate but there is a jump cut before they explain what is accurate about the present prediction.

helpful lil correspondences masterpost ✨💕🌻🍂

will update if i find more posts that i feel are necessary. all credit goes to the original writers of the posts 💕

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Could you all reblog or like this if you post about witchy stuff and anything related to it. I’m fairly new to the community and I’m still trying to get everything together and set a better path, so it would be really helpful! If you do I will follow you ♡ Thankyou.

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Surgeon Rick taking care of Maximums Rickimums’ Mortys Team from the game XD

I like to think that Maximums (Max/Ricki/IDK) really likes to make sure that his Mortys are taking care of. For example, when it comes to Big Head Morty, Max knows that these kinds of Mortys have a medical condition that not all Ricks put into priority so he often goes to the Healing Center to make sure BHM gets everything he needs.BHM always gets emotional about that cause what Rick would look at him and actually give a fuck 8V

(Also I just wanted to draw one pic of Max’s Team and Surgeon Rick…but my mind went through this whole phase 8D” THIS is what I mean guys…Like I legit draw too much and when I actually start cleaning it, my hands hurt so much lol XDD)

modern losers club hcs

i felt like it

  • ok mike has a photography instagram
  • and it’s gorgeous
  • aesthetic™ 
  • he takes a lot of photos of the losers, of cute little buildings, nice cups of coffee, graffiti
  • snapchats a lot- fave filter is the golden butterfly crown thingy and has no shame about it
  • ben has a bookstagram- book recommendations, as well as nice pics of books and coffeeshops that mike takes
  • beverly sometimes makes an appearance on his gram
  • she isn’t as on social media as the others- she has snapchat like the rest of the losers with their group chat
  • her fave filters are always the stupid ones that make her laugh- sends her hideous photos to ben, ben always thinks she’s gorgeous
  • losers go to the pride parade- eddie (gay) and richie (pan) and bill (bi) and stan (gay) and bev (bi) with ben and mike being there to support them
  • richie and bev go all out, rainbows and glitter everywhere because they love glitter (they also get it edible because why not)
  • bill, eddie and stan are still pretty wild, but not as much
  • eddie loves flower crowns- he’s a pastel kinda dude
  • his favourite sweater is large and pink (paired with his black skinny jeans and converse richie thinks he looks adorable)
  • he’s very healthy and clean cut
  • works at a coffee shop and it’s always clean- it’s very popular in derry for instagram photos
  • richie’s almost but not quite the opposite- lots of black, leather jacket and combat boots with the most colorful ass shirt underneath because he had a hawaiian shirt phase in middle school and never really got over it
  • has a vine account- posts pranks on the other losers- snapchats a whole bunch of shit
  • gets snap streaks really high and then loses them because of something stupid like he accidentally threw his phone off the bridge as a dare or smth
  • bill loves denim
  • jeans- denim jacket- wore a denim skirt as a dare once, looked adorable
  • mom jeans™, overalls, white converse
  • he bakes cookies yet still plays a mean game of basketball (he fouled out once, team almost rioted)
  • he plays with richie- they’re co captains
  • in fact, all the losers play sports
  • richie and bill w basketball, beverly captains the soccer team, stan runs track (tol boi) mike and ben play football, and eddie plays baseball
  • MUCH TO THE DISMAY OF HIS MOM
  • she actually has a heart attack whenever he comes home in his stained jersey, and calms down a bit when he gets out the shower looking pristinely adorable
  • still goes to every game with his fanny pack in hand (he still wears it under that massive pink sweater y’all)
  • stan runs track and is legendary because those long legs very tol boi
  • bill attends everyone of the meets to kiss him good luck- stans nerves settle a bit when bill is there
  • stan has a studyblr and it’s wonderful
  • a lot of asshole boys made fun of him first but then saw how high his grades were and how many girls fawned over him (too bad he was gay) they learned a bit about color coding and it was all g
  • he has nice pastel highlighters in pinks and blues that eddie borrows sometimes
  • beverly captains the soccer team- everyone looks up to her so much, especially the girls- because she still wears paisley jackets and pretty shirts and earrings (she has five, three on her right ear and two on her left) and still wears her captain’s jock jacket and has he boycut 
  • ben supports her at all her games and snapchats all her goals (he has a knack for knowing when the ball is going in and just whips out his phone real quick)
  • bev attends all of ben’s games- he’s really strong and a good leader on the pitch and she loves to see him like that because she knows how shy he is off the pitch
  • ben throws like a legend- mike scores like a legend
  • mike and ben’s jersey= precious artefacts
  • they all hate supreme with a passion
  • and thrasher
  • richie works at an oldie’s diner where they play old music out of the jukebox
  • and while they all love ariana grande and know the entire rap to super bass by nicki they can also hit every lyric of “kids in america” on point every single time
  • richie always has spare quarters for them
  • they go to the cliff very often- especially after swimsuit shopping
  • beverly’s favourite swimsuit is this black bikini that says “fuck off” on the ass- ben thinks she looks adorable in it
  • richie helped her pick it out
  • sometimes they straight up skinny dip- they’ve seen it all before, and they’re comfortable enough
  • especially when it’s really hot
  • they play music out of the bluetooth speaker so loud that they can hear it even after they’ve jumped into the water
  • they stay there till night, so they can see the stars and the moon and say cheesy things into each others ears and laugh and jump into the dark dark water again knowing they’ll be ok

keith headcanons bc i’m bored and avoiding chem homework

  • y’all he may be a certified Emo™ but he also LOVES rap music. think like, old childish gambino, kendrick lamar, tyler the creator, that kinda stuff. he thinks it’s beautiful and also a lot of the time he uses it to pump up during training
  • he could bench press us all even though he looks like …….more lean than really buff, i’m telling you. he could bench press us
  • bc keith is like human sonic (he gotta go Fast) he used to run all the time. like in the desert he just kinda passed a lot of time by running and building up his stamina. it’s a nice time to just think and push himself
  • that bitch is gay
  • he gets all his clothes from a thrift shop and most of them are fucking ugly but he doesn’t care he likes them
  • meticulously clean. he loves organization and having things in the right place. that’s ½ the reason why his room was so clean on the castle ship (the other ½ being he doesn’t like to make a home of things, which, sad—)
  • always wins at monopoly and lance hates it bc HE wants to win dammit
  • also he learns how to play monopoly in like 5 mins and then kicks everybody’s ass and they’re all like “keith what the hell and fuck”
  • swears a lot and shiro always gives him a LOOK and keith is like shut up shiro you’re 12
  • used to smoke cigarettes but shiro stopped him bc hey, that is bad for u bucko. now he chews on nicotine gum a lot of the time
  • which came first, the keith or the egg,
  • he sucks at cooking so when he was in the desert shack his best friend was the microwave. the amount of cup o’ noodles he ate, man….
  • y’all know that lame trope where a character is told to hand over their weapons and they give them one and then the other goes “no, all of them” and then they start pulling out like 50 more weapons?? yeah, that’s keith,
  • of COURSE he had a scene phase don’t even deny it. he used to have a red streak in his hair and it faded to orange and looked ridiculous at some point so he had to dye it back to his natural color whilst regretting all of his life decisions
  • he’s one of those guys that looks like he wouldn’t bat an eye at horror movies but he’s actually a baby and refuses to watch them with anyone bc then they will see him squeal at a jump scare and THAT is embarrassing,

idk there’s more but i should really do this chem hw mdosmslsmsks