it looks so pretty in my blog


tagged by @tenny-uwu (you tagged me on my main but i accidentally saved the draft to this one so…)to post my lock screen (flowers bc it’s spring yay), home screen (mei qi, it’s always mei qi), last song you listened to (pristin’s ‘wee woo’) and a selfie, thank you^^

I tag: @nctgiri, @spicypancakedoyoung, @1aeil and @renju-n, only do it if you want to!!

 If you’ve looked at my blog at its url, you may have seen that I had a whole career in IT, as an Oracle DBA,  then I decided I wanted to import silver.. So far, my science degree is paying more than my love and heartfelt desire to share the hand crafted silver I love.  Who cares? Why tell you? Shutup and put pretty pictures out there? I read that  only 6.7% of women graduate with STEM(science, technology, engineering, math)  degrees vs 17% of men, meaning men are 2.5 times more likely to enter these high paying fields.  This is a site of young people, or maybe that’s just my uninformed viewpoint. I’m not young. I’m 53 and female, with a science degree  What’s even crazier is that I just recently applied to grad school to get an advanced science degree because I like that I have done something unusual, even if it’s not my “dream-pay-me-to-travel” job. Regardless of your age, your gender, your job, your future goals, if you want to have a chance of being happy, you absolutely must find something you like about yourself right this second and while you pursue your external dream, keep nurturing the things about yourself that make you proud.  And if you’re woman in college, contemplating a major, and consider yourself a feminist…., why on earth would you let 2.5 times as many men have all the fun and funds???

slipperysmurf  asked:

I know someone who just got a corn snake, and I know she uses tumblr. So I'm looking for some blogs of people I could recommend to her. I also know how... Temperamental reptiblr can be, so I'm asking you cause you've always been pretty awesome with stuff.

I’m unsure if you mean the whole of reptiblr or simply corn snake owners, but I’ll list a few general:

and admittedly, off the top of my head, that’s what I’ve got. I’ll open this to allow people to reblog if they are a pure reptiblr blog, preferably noting the majority of the species they blog about.

Monday 8:27am
I woke up with you on my mind.
You called me babe last night —
my heart is still pounding.

Tuesday 10:53pm
Today I realized we won’t work.
What we are is hurting her.
And I think she matters more to me than you do.

Wednesday 11:52pm
I broke things off with you today.
She barely said a word.
I’ve never regretted anything more than this.

Thursday 4:03pm
I shouldn’t have sent that message.
You shouldn’t have been so okay with receiving it.

Friday 9:57pm
I almost messaged you today.
I didn’t.

Saturday 8:49pm
I’m walking around town in search of alcohol.
They say that liquor numbs the pain of having a broken heart.
I want to put that to the test.

Sunday 2:32am
I heard you texted a girl you’ve never spoken to before.
I wonder if it’s because you’re trying to replace me.
I can’t help but wish you weren’t.
I thought I was irreplaceable.

—  a week with you on my mind, c.j.n.
Move on, leave, run away, escape this place… but don’t forget about me, about us, about this town. Always remember where you come from so you can appreciate how far you’ve come.
—  c.j.n.