I want to make something super clear! We as people, do not owe anyone anything! Never let someone guilt you into talking/dating them because you feel like you owe them because they are sad or desperate. Everyone has/had something going on in their life. So think about it like this, if you get/got through your life everyday without guilting people to talk to you, (despite whatever hardships you face) then surely this person can too. When someone does this, it is hurtful and damaging. You feel like you've done something wrong, like you've created this person's pain. Let me tell you something though, you didn't! This person had this pain before they knew you, but instead of facing it and trying to take care of it, they chose to lean on you. And then when they get overwhelming because you too, have your own things going on and you just need space, they guilt you. They do reckless things and text you about them or put them on social media for all to see. And you know that shade is at you; that there is a silent kind of blame placed on your shoulders. But guess what? You didn't hurt them, and you didn't push them to be reckless, they did that all on their own. So if they're unhappy, that's on them. Let them be. Don't you let anyone guilt you. Take care of YOURSELF because YOU are what matters. Get rid of those toxic people, you don't need anything else tearing you down. BE FREE, BE HAPPY, BE YOU. Because when it comes right down to it, you are the person you see every morning through every evening, and so you don't owe ANYONE anything.