is this the best selfie i've ever taken


I’m loving my new summer garb. I threw this together because it was too damn hot out to wear my full quilted red kit, ended up with the kind of look that screams “I’m higher level in this RPG than you” and tbh… what an aesthetic


Happy TDoV, guys! Have some reverse chronological selfies!

Time for an explanation.

I’ve never really felt like a girl. Actually, gender as a whole has been an entirely confusing concept for as long as I can remember. When I was 15, some finally explained that gender ≠ sex. Since then, it’s been a wild ride of trying to figure out who I am and how my gender identity fits in with my other identities.

It’s been especially difficult because I don’t entirely feel like I belong with either boys or girls. I don’t fit any stereotypes or traditional gender roles. And that’s not a bad thing, but it’s hard to be myself in a world that has no place for me. Today is my first step in making a place for myself.

So this is me coming out as a nonbinary boy (which might change since I’m still trying to figure out who I am). Mostly I’m just me. If anyone ever wants to talk about trans stuff, comics, or dragons, send me a message!

(They/them or he/him, but please use she/her if you know me IRL. I’m not ready to come out to everyone quite yet.)