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Happy TDoV, guys! Have some reverse chronological selfies!

Time for an explanation.

I’ve never really felt like a girl. Actually, gender as a whole has been an entirely confusing concept for as long as I can remember. When I was 15, some finally explained that gender ≠ sex. Since then, it’s been a wild ride of trying to figure out who I am and how my gender identity fits in with my other identities.

It’s been especially difficult because I don’t entirely feel like I belong with either boys or girls. I don’t fit any stereotypes or traditional gender roles. And that’s not a bad thing, but it’s hard to be myself in a world that has no place for me. Today is my first step in making a place for myself.

So this is me coming out as a nonbinary boy (which might change since I’m still trying to figure out who I am). Mostly I’m just me. If anyone ever wants to talk about trans stuff, comics, or dragons, send me a message!

(They/them or he/him, but please use she/her if you know me IRL. I’m not ready to come out to everyone quite yet.)