is this good enough for you!!

anonymous asked:

How do I stop comparing myself to others and feeling like I'm not enough?

That’s a hard one! It’s something I think we all struggle with. I know I do at least from time to time, it’s hard not to when you do youtube. I feel like I’m not doing enough with youtube and I see what others are doing and it makes me feel worse about it.

What I usually try to do is reaffirm the accomplishments I have done or try to reaffirm my belief in myself. That what I’m doing is good in its own right and try to eliminate the though of what others are doing in comparison to myself. I look to you guys and to my friends for support and validation in times of need.

Another good method is to use what others are doing to try motivate you to do more and try harder. It’s easy to sit back and think “Man they’re doing it all and have so many interesting things going on” and let that defeat you but sometimes it’s good to use that as a drive in yourself to do more. 

Time isn’t going to wait for any of us. Our time is right now to do what we can and what we want so we should use that time the best we can. It’s not easy and sometimes it feels damn near impossible but anything can be done if you set your mind to it. 


Here’s a little AU I’ve been thinking of for a long time now and sns week finally pushed me into drawing for it ^^ 

If you haven’t seen Noragami, watch it!!! 

I haven’t gotten to Sasuke and Kakashi but I’m definitely still working on it ^^; I just really wanted to get this out there for sns week <3 <3

anonymous asked:

May I ask you for a one shot about what Ignis or Nyx would say or do to make their s/o be less hard on themselves? Their s/o would think they didn't deserve their bf, always thought that they weren't good enough for anyone, not putting enough effort into their jobs and didn't think people truly liked them. (I just have to say that you write bloody amazingly <3)

I decided to just write Nyx for this one, because I am in desperate need of more Nyx content. Don’t kill me for where I left the ending! That’s all I’m gonna say. Read on!

You watched him as he laid next to you on the bed, summoning fire idly in his palm. He would call it forth and then make it vanish, and you could feel the heat warming your skin. You wondered what it felt like to caress the flames.


The fire died, and he turned to look at you. “Yeah?”

You stared at him for a second, soaking in all of his features. The blue of his eyes, the angle of his jaw, the light fuzz that ran along the lower half of his face. You looked away.

“I don’t know how you do it.”

He cocked an eyebrow, rolling over to his side and leaning up on his elbow to look at you. “Do what?”

You sighed and made a sweeping gesture. “All of it. You’re part of the Kingsglaive, you’re a hero, you save lives every day. You’re…you’re just so loyal and kind hearted and perfect.” You sank a little further into the bed, pulling the sheets up to your chin. “I don’t know what you see in someone like me.”

Nyx sat up and tugged the sheets down so that you couldn’t hide.

“Don’t say that.”

You turned away from him. “It’s true.”

Nyx brought his hand to your face and turned you so that you met his eyes. “What’s got you thinking like this?” He asked, his voice barely above a whisper.

Your breath started to hitch. You couldn’t help it.

“I just…you’re just so perfect. You’re a hero, Nyx. And I just…I’m no one. Half the time, I don’t even know if the people around me even like me or are just using me because I don’t know how to say no.”

Nyx was quiet for a moment. His eyes were so clear, so honest in their truth. “I like you.”

You blinked back tears. “Why?”

Nyx smiled at you, tracing your jawline with his calloused fingers. “Remember that time we went to go get ice cream at that place close to the palace, and you saw those two kids in the shop who couldn’t afford to pay?”

You furrowed your brow. “Yeah…?”

“You bought them each so much ice cream that I thought they were going to turn into sugar cones and roll away. And then you invited them to hang out with us and bought them balloon animals in the park.”

You shook your head. “Anyone would have done that for those kids. They looked so sad.”

Nyx shook his head. “No, not everyone would have. But you did. You have a beautiful heart and you care so much about the people around you. Hell, you care about people who don’t deserve it. That’s how someone like you got stuck with someone like me.”

You frowned. “Nyx—”

He cut you off with a kiss, his hand on the back of your neck as he pulled you to him. His lips were always so soft, and you let out a quiet moan as his tongue slid against yours. He finally pulled away, leaving you breathless and panting.

“I love you,” he said, looking you right in the eye. “I don’t want perfection. I don’t want the pomp and frills. I just want you. I’ve always wanted you. Don’t ever for a second forget that.”

You gave a meek nod, and he kissed you again. This time though, he rolled so that he was on top of you, and you gasped against his lips as you felt his erection poking the base of your stomach.

“Now, why don’t you let me ease those worries away, babe?” he grinned wolfishly, nipping at your neck before running his tongue along where his teeth bit into you. “I’ll make you forget everything except my name.”

anonymous asked:

Hey, can I ask for some Reaper Sans and human S/O head cannons?

Combining two similar asks! Now, who’s ready to romance Death? - Mod Sync

Reaper Sans w/ human S/O Headcanons

- The fact you can even see him when you’re not dying makes you special enough. Doesn’t mean he wants anything to do with you for a long while. It’s confused him, and even scared him a bit that you can see him while living. He needs time to process that before he attempts to come see you again.

- He’s extremely hesitant to get anywhere within your reach, not wanting to accidentally kill you. He’ll always float some feet away from you. If you’re good at not trying to touch him, he might feel safer getting closer to you, but he still maintains a distance so that you don’t accidentally bump into each other. Even so, he tries to show his affection for you in ways he can. Mostly gifts of the non-floral veriety. Little notes to cheer you up, talismans and charms to protect you, a doll he made (badly, but he tried.)

- He’ll initially deny any confessions you make to him. For several reasons. He’s Death for one thing, that right there should mean you shouldn’t love him. You can’t love him. No matter how much he loves you back. He’ll be the Death (heh) of you, after all. Then there’s the whole “immortal God, mortal human” thing of course. If you’re stubborn and persistent, eventually he’ll break and accept that you love him. Though he gives you plenty of warnings.

- If you really want physical affection, you’re creative, and very, very careful, you might be able to pull off something similar to the show Pushing Daisies. (All I can imagine is the first time you kiss him through plastic wrap leaves him frozen, then flustered, his entire head flushing.) He admires and adores how much you want to show him affection, even if it still make him nervous. He’ll crave anything you can give him.

- The first, and last, time he truly gets to kiss you is when it’s your time. Instead of reaping you with his scythe, he takes the only chance he’ll ever get to touch you. He’ll milk it for all its worth. It’s also the first time you ever seem him cry.

- After your death, Sans will beg Gaster to do something, anything that will allow you to stay with him. Make you a Fury or minor spirit or something, so long as he can still have you by his side. Should Gaster comply, the first thing Sans is going to do is hug you and not let go for many, many hours, then kiss every part of you he can. He’s going to make up for his limitations ten fold now that he can touch you without fear.

anonymous asked:

why are people acting like dan and phil have to be Involved and Active and the Perfect Activists all the time like ?? theyre just people, theyre young adults,, dealing with political shit is stressful enough as it is, imagine having millions of people riding on you to do shit. i understand that them speaking out is good, but their entire lives shouldnt centre around having "appropriate" social media responses to every world event. just.. theyre just people.. i worry for them :(

dan and phil are not obligated in any way to talk about anything if they do not wish to. i don’t think people necessarily expect dan and phil to be involved at all times and be the perfect activists in every situation because like you said they are complex individuals with a lot going on and they will never uphold some people’s unrealistically high standards, but dan and phil both have massive platforms and there is definitely no harm done when they use it to bring awareness to world issues. luckily dan and phil are very consistent with this and have spoken out about a lot of things that needed to be heard (dan more often than phil obviously but that’s ok) 

anonymous asked:

Can you explain the Choi Siwon thing please?

  • disney wants to make a mulan live action movie
  • with an all asian cast
  • *look at the camera like i am in the office*
  • generalization of asian people i live in north america long enough why do i still feel bitter 
  • the kpop side of twitter chip in and discuss about possible actor for li shang
  • a person suggested choi siwon 
  • a fucking homophobe
  • who queerbait his entire fucking career
  • oppapoligists come at me 
  • anyway the tweet got popular 
  • and i am bitter 

btw regarding the movie 

  • disney decided to take out all musical score 
  • decided to eliminate bisexual icon li shang 
  • the first ever queer disney prince 
  • who is a BISEXUAl 
  • and a CHINESE (a poc, an asian)
  • and instead replace with a meninist who “hates mulan completely until she reveal she is a she”
  • i want to die
  • i a gay chinese girl who grew up loving mulan with her entire being 
  • who refuse to go to kindergarten if my mum didnt play the mulan vcr while we were getting ready 
  • i a dylexic chinese who had to dictate the entire 木蘭詞 in secondary school 
  • i a gay chinese girl does not deserve this 
  • disney already made a white people furry boderline beastility live action movie
  • leave my ancestors alone please 

anonymous asked:

Did that anon read the books? The whole point was Dumbledore leaving Harry with the Dursleys because of Lily's magic protection. Dumbledore knew the Dursleys were abusive, and instead of putting Harry's wellbeing first and implementing secondary protection (and that would have been easy enough with a secret keeper) he decided to "see what would happen" to his little hero. "For the greater good." Everyone has every reason to dislike Dumbledore for that reason.

I always say this, a child who’s been neglected and ostracized is easier to shape and manipulate. Dumbledore knew what he was doing. He decided that a child’s well being could be sacrificed “for the greater good”. There’s no excuse for that, whether you like Dumbledore or not you have to admit it’s irrefutably a terrible thing to do.

what if everything falls apart?
what if it all goes to shit?
what if you realize i’m not good enough?
what if one day you decide to call it quits?
what if you you decide i’m not what you want?
what if we just aren’t a good fit?
you’re everything – smart, handsome,
caring, full of wit
and i’m just scared
not of you, but of this
of us, you and i, it’s getting to be so intense
and don’t get me wrong, i fully commit
but it almost feels too good to be true
and what if it is? what if this is it?
what if this is as good as it gets? and you wind up wanting more?
what if you want more than me? what if you decide you’ve had it?
i don’t know what the future holds, i just hope it’ll be you holding me
and that everything will work out despite all of it
—  Anonymous said: I wanted to ask… if you can please write about someone who fell in love, and the relationship is actually so great, but has anxiety and is scared because it’s so great?
(cc, 2017)

anonymous asked:

“Victor, you’re supposed to be patrolling the south wing, what are you doing here?” Yuuri asked, hand already poised on the gun hidden beneath his night-guard uniform. “Did something happen?” “Do you really think they’re going to steal a life-sized marble statue? They’re good, but they’re not that good.” “We can’t rule out any possibilities, we don’t know enough about the thieves yet,” Yuuri responded shortly, letting his hand fall back to his side as he looked Victor over critically. (1/3)

POLICE AU I LOVE IT <3 <3 also i know who sent this ;)


o dang i like that first line,,,, omg this is so cute and also that statue is totally going to get stolen rip. “what were you guys doing instead of protecting the statue” “ummmMMMM”

I started getting really high pings, the kind of unplayable high, 150-300. My internet isn’t the best, but it’s good enough to play LoL. I wondered what might be using that much internet, so I started checking what everyone was doing. I got to my brother and THAT LITTLE SHITHEAD WAS PLAYING FUCKING ROBLOX JUST AS I WAS GETTING HIGH PINGS. CAN YOU IMAGINE? FUCKING ROBLOX! HOW COME SUCH A SHIT GAME TAKES SO MUCH INTERNET? I CAN’T FUCKING PLAY BECAUSE OF ROBLOX! Fuck that game and my brother :)

  1. Never let someone try to tell you you’re “fat”, “ugly”, or “not good enough”. Because listen to me when I say that you ARE so beautiful and definitely good enough.

  2. If you ever feel like the walls are closing in, or you’re feeling all alone, or feeling like you don’t matter…Listen to me when I say, YOU ARE SO IMPORTANT AND YOU DO MATTER! You’re important for so many reasons, some of those reasons you still have yet to find out, but YOU WILL FIND THOSE REASONS! You just gotta keep going, keep fighting those thoughts out of your head, and everything will be okay. You are absolutely NOT ALONE!

  3. Find joy in the stupid things. Who cares what other people think? If it makes you smile, or feel giddy inside, or even feel the tiniest shred of happiness, then sweetheart, you enjoy the shit out of it! Smile so big it makes your cheeks hurt! You deserve all the happiness.

  4. Make other people happy, you’ll find yourself becoming a more positive, happy, person.

  5. You make sooooo many people happy, more than you can actually know, so please, keep fighting and stay strong, for the sake of yourself and all the people who care about you…

  6. I BELIEVE IN YOU! Even when you feel like you’ll never amount to anything, and that the concept of believing in yourself seems completely impossible to you, just know that I believe in you and so do a whole lot of other people. YOU’VE GOT THIS!!!

body positivity tag 🌻🐝

1. Post your some selfies where you feel cute af

2.Something you love about your hair - the color, u can’t rly tell in the pic but it’s kinda orangish but not orange enough to be considered a redhead

3.Something you love about your eyes - the shape 

4.Something you love about your mouth - the colour of my lips? they’re just naturally rly pinky-red

5.Something you love about your nose - ok literally my nose is too big i hate it so much, i guess maybe the freckles along it???

6.Something you love about your legs - the muscular-ness?

7.Something you love about your butt - it’s a good size? not too big, not too small

8.Something you love about your tummy - my stretchmarks, i love them

9.Something you love about your chest - uuuhh nothing rip

10.Something you love about your height - i think 5′5 is a good height idk it’s average for a girl i guess?

11.Something you love about your weight - i like being thin idk

12.When do you feel prettiest - when i’m wearing an outfit i feel confident in and wearing some makeup but not too much and hair looks good

13.When did you last feel beautiful - hhhhh idk at least a few days

🌻🐝Tag people you want to feel pretty af 🐝🌻

@tomhollandy, @beefysebastian, @ohpotters, @kettercrows, @bsargent, @bercnica, @faeheys, @edgarapoe, @esmgomez, @czernynoaah, @admlynch, @dreamthievves, @alyciasroyal, @jesprefahey, @stormybisexual, @kavinskiies


🌻🐝 A body positive tag game 🐝🌻
1. Post some selfies where you feel cute af

2. Something you love about your hair - it’s curly and I love it

3. Something you love about your eyes - they have a good shape

4. Something you love about your mouth - a good color and a good shape

5. Something you love about your nose - idk it’s cute I guess

6. Something you love about your legs - they taper from knee to ankle

7. Something you love about your butt - squish?

8. Something you love about your tummy - small and squish

9. Something you love about your chest - small and cute

10. Something you love about your height - I’m shorter than most of my friends so I can be the little spoon, but tall enough that I’m not technically a short person

11. Something you love about your weight - I’m pretty thin-ish

12. When you feel prettiest - when I’ve just gotten out of the shower and I’m looking in the mirror and not comparing myself to anyone

13. When did you last feel beautiful - a few days ago

🌻🐝 Tag people you want to feel pretty af 🐝🌻

@les-amis-de-la-mort @livre-fleur-lune @illuminae @oylmpians @gansaey @nooraseatrea @looonyluna @palepvnk @highfaerys @forevermad8888

oh and I was tagged by @persephcnie thanks friend!!

For Ethan (CrankGameplays)

I just got done watching a few of Ethan’s words expressed in the videos made my day a little bit brighter. I wanted to write this to express positive thoughts I wanted to say to him in case he ever needs it.

The first thing you always have to remember is comparing yourself often leads to you feeling like you aren’t good enough, that there are people out there that extend your limits which is not true. You are your own person, You did not come here for a purpose or a mission. The only mission you go on is to pursue what makes you happy. Ethan, from how long I’ve known him, is a very ambitious dude. I have admired his work ethic when he used to be a manager and still made videos and now I have admired him even more now that he is in LA working on his channel while editing and traveling to conventions to meet fans. Not going to college cause he wanted to work harder on the channel and to pursue his dream and make it a reality. It’s slowly coming true and I couldn’t be more proud of him. He’s come so far and has worked so damn hard to get where he is at now. By going on the path he wanted to take, it’s gotten him to experience new opportunities and achieve so much. You don’t need to go on the “basic route” in order to follow a dream and Ethan has proved that.

I watch him because he has been an inspiration to me to keep pursuing what I love most. There’s a video entitled “You Can Do This” where Ethan talks about how you should go for your dreams no matter what people say and no matter how hard it takes to get there. My goals is to hopefully become a graphic designer, creating digital drawings, sketches, logos that can help companies. I have started a YouTube channel and have been making speed paint videos weekly. I attend a technical high school that teaches you while you learn the common studies to pursue your dream, your goal. I was always interested in graphic designing, audio, video editing, lighting and, thankfully, I found the shop for me. It is called Design and Visual and its a multi-media shop. For the past 3 years, I have been taught how to create videos in Premiere, create logo designs in Illustrator, the basics of Photoshop and so much more.

This was a video where Ethan said something that really struck me.

“You can do this. Don’t let others tell you what you can and cannot do. If you want something bad enough and you work as hard as you possibly can, you CAN achieve what you want to achieve. Don’t let things like this slip away.”

There was a lyric from a song that I know because of Ethan. The lyric goes as follows:

“It’s tough but it’s gotta be somebody so why not you?”

This got to me because it’s a lyric and a song that meant a lot to Ethan and as I listened to the song in my own time, I started to see how this inspired him. He told us about this song when he just hit 200k and now he is just about at 300k.

I had the pleasure to talk to Ethan at PAX East this year and It was very humbling to have that minute to speak to him. You were so kind to me and my friend Alyssa for the short time we had. I wish you a very big and bright future, Ethan. You are gonna be the best you can ever be. Know that I believe in you as much as you believe in me. I hope these words cheer you up if you ever doubt yourself or feel down. I also heard you were sick so feel better and eat some soup <3

- Haley D